Is it to much to ask a SP to confirm..

[dizzybiker]

Hey guys / girls is it to
Much to ask an SP to confirm the appointment the day of?Shit today I had a planned meeting with a very pretty young hottie , we had several emails confirming all is set earlier in the week. Yesterday I asked her to send me a confirmation for our noon appointment and details,towards the magic time still not having heard from her, I sent two emaitowel see if we are still on?and no replies from her.... So do I assume she is there and waiting for me? And did I still remember the codes?? Yikes anywAy I did not hear from her until it was to late. When I finally do hear from her she tells me I send to many emails and she's not in front of her computer, her only communications are via email no texting no cell!
I had sent her emails yesterday regarding gift sizes etc and if she had a pair of white heels ?( to match the outfit I bought her) , anyway to cut the story short..
See now says it's over between us..,, WTF.
So lesson learned still to my regular girls who seem not to mind my crazy job and 24/7 call outs.
Sorry A, to have seemed to have wasted your time. Am I so wrong here to now have to move on?
Dizzy

 

[Sirenah]

obviously you've made your attempts to confirm your appointment. If her only communication was through email, she should have a smartphone so her emails are mobile to avoid any problems similar to this. I don't believe you are wrong to have moved on, you were an unsatisfied client.

 

[josephl]

Hey guys / girls is it to
Much to ask an SP to confirm the appointment the day of?Shit today I had a planned meeting with a very pretty young hottie , we had several emails confirming all is set earlier in the week. Yesterday I asked her to send me a confirmation for our noon appointment and details,towards the magic time still not having heard from her, I sent two emaitowel see if we are still on?and no replies from her.... So do I assume she is there and waiting for me? And did I still remember the codes?? Yikes anywAy I did not hear from her until it was to late. When I finally do hear from her she tells me I send to many emails and she's not in front of her computer, her only communications are via email no texting no cell!
I had sent her emails yesterday regarding gift sizes etc and if she had a pair of white heels ?( to match the outfit I bought her) , anyway to cut the story short..
See now says it's over between us..,, WTF.
So lesson learned still to my regular girls who seem not to mind my crazy job and 24/7 call outs.
Sorry A, to have seemed to have wasted your time. Am I so wrong here to now have to move on?
Dizzy

Sorry to hear about the predicament that you were in. For me at least, the general rule is that I will try and confirm the day off with plenty of time to spare and if I don't hear back, then I assume that for whatever reason there is no appointment, even though plans were made days or weeks before. It sucks when you are in the mood and have the time(I'm in the same situation as you, 24/7 job with time being free last minute) however, seeing as e-mails either go through or bounce back, there is nothing I can do until I hear back.

To me the flip side is that if the SP is not in the mood, I'm okay with her not responding because I would rather see her when she wanted to spend time with me.

Just my 2 cent opinion...
Fortunately, I have a ATF that is very understanding of my e-mailing her last minute to see if she is available and if she is, I go rushing over, if not, we just say next time.

 

[yellow]

I feel your pain. I had an appointment set and I messaged an hour before the appt and was confirmed. About 15 minutes before and driving to Surrey from Vancouver I get a message asking to post phone.

 

[Pirate Code]

I have no idea why people can't treat a client like a client and this work like the business it is.

There is so much to be gained for a provider by treating her clients with respect, and having some gratitude for the business the client brings to her.

 

[nd1]

Vanesssa,
your ass is hot ~ let me know when we can meet for playtime! Licks, Shelby xo

Your ass ain't too shabby either!

Please include me in your cc-list. I would love to be the fly on the wall, if not an active participant!

 

[Monet]

Since email is the only way you communicate with her, no one will blame you.

Hey guys / girls is it to
Much to ask an SP to confirm the appointment the day of?Shit today I had a planned meeting with a very pretty young hottie , we had several emails confirming all is set earlier in the week. Yesterday I asked her to send me a confirmation for our noon appointment and details,towards the magic time still not having heard from her, I sent two emaitowel see if we are still on?and no replies from her.... So do I assume she is there and waiting for me? And did I still remember the codes?? Yikes anywAy I did not hear from her until it was to late. When I finally do hear from her she tells me I send to many emails and she's not in front of her computer, her only communications are via email no texting no cell!
I had sent her emails yesterday regarding gift sizes etc and if she had a pair of white heels ?( to match the outfit I bought her) , anyway to cut the story short..
See now says it's over between us..,, WTF.
So lesson learned still to my regular girls who seem not to mind my crazy job and 24/7 call outs.
Sorry A, to have seemed to have wasted your time. Am I so wrong here to now have to move on?
Dizzy

 

[badbadboy]

If it was the first date, I gotta agree with Hunka and her reaction was to cut you loose before it went any further. Got to get to know them first with their likes etc before you start buying all sorts of gifts. My $0.02

 

[Tugela]

I have no idea why people can't treat a client like a client and this work like the business it is.

There is so much to be gained for a provider by treating her clients with respect, and having some gratitude for the business the client brings to her.

Many of the ladies are young with no business experience, why would you expect a professional response from them? It is not like you have to go to escort school to become an escort. Some are organized but I suspect that the majority are not, especially those who are doing it for a short time only.

 

[Tugela]

Maybe you went over kill with the e-mails, presents etc, in her opinion and she decided to cut you loose? Chalk it up to a learning experience and move on.

Yup, I think you might be right. If he had never seen her before talking about stuff like that might have triggered her early warning radar.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

I have no idea why people can't treat a client like a client and this work like the business it is.

There is so much to be gained for a provider by treating her clients with respect, and having some gratitude for the business the client brings to her.

respect is not something taught in the school curriculum anymore, and in many cases it is absent from the home environment too - so how can they treat their clients with respect if they come from that environment?

to treat somebody else with respect, one has to respect oneself...

 

[The Bostonian]

Dizzybiker,

Would this happen to be Caracaress? I took a day off a few weeks back just to see her. I've emailed her many times to set up an appointment through her email and we set up a
time and date and I had to confirm with her the next morning but have not heard from her since then. What a waste of my time!!!! She never got back to me. I sent her an email on Friday hoping that she would get back to me, but no reply.