i guess to just echo some one else first, people focus on the sp first, and then blame all the problems that person has on that.
its an easy out
a dancer told me you act like you have class and demand respect you will get it.
you act like a cheap whore that is also what you get.
i kind of agree, people make most of there own problems for sure,
you can be blind sided out of no where for sure but most of what happens to you is your own doing
i think being a escort is not for every one,
i think that,
there are highs you can get caught up in. and get carried away in the sex the money the ego whatever, or drugs
and there are lows. the insults the face society and people place on what you do. having to or trying to have a relationship while doing this,
bad clients etc, i think at times yeah it has to be tough.
new escorts seem to be all over the place i think or it seems to me as they try and balance it all.
escorts that have been in this along time, never get to high or to low,
the sex it means nothing to them men come and go,
all the time, they have clients they like others not so much,
either way i think they don't get to involved they give the same service to both,
and try to have a private life.
i think its hard to be an escort, and sad, in a way,
we men go back to our wifes what does an escort go back to,
so many escorts want to have a normal life with a man, etc etc, at least at some point,
and i think it has to be a very special man to put up with the fact that your wife has been an escort for years and years and years,
and at the company christmass party he is going to wonder while he is taking a piss if the guy next to him is going to tell him that he enjoyed fucking his wife.
and he might get descriptive and lie about what she did for him
guys are like that they can be creeps. he thinks he is your friend you go out drinking with him and guess what the stories he tells at the water cooler tommorrow,
lots and lots of guy would love to tell you how they fucked your wife.
yeah guys can be the lowest people on earth
and i think it would take a real special guy to put up with that,
i think people don;t understand what an escort goes through, so well its easy to have a problem with her because she is an escort.
i love escorts
but i think its so sad in what society does to them, it makes it so hard for them to have like a normal life. husband kids family all that.
just my thoughts,
but over all, i think like everything else you make most of your own problems
