Is it okay to make donation after receiving the service?
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Of course it's OK to pay after...assuming the escort is OK with it.
But for obvious reasons, most escorts expect payment up front and if that doesn't work for you, then find someone who is OK with payment after. You may be looking for a long time depending on your escort preferences.
It sounds like you must be seeing some shady ladies if that is your experience paying in advance.
But for obvious reasons, most escorts expect payment up front and if that doesn't work for you, then find someone who is OK with payment after. You may be looking for a long time depending on your escort preferences.
It sounds like you must be seeing some shady ladies if that is your experience paying in advance.
Generally if this is a first encounter then prepayment is expected. If performance is substandard then note that in your performance review here. Don't repeat. Once you get to know the gals then the timing becomes less of an issue. In a longer term relationship you might find yourself paying much differently. Some gals will accept credit card or email payments.
First meeting paying up front is expect (I'd assume) as was said, after getting to know someone it isn't an issue so much (lol I haven't forgotten, but I left the envolope in the wine bag once, which she had thrown out and it needed to be retreived). But if you're repeating you should know at that point the service is what's expected so it shouldn't be an issue anyways. Only thing that really can be suggested is to just leave the required amount up front and have a tip for after (service industry and what not, tips are usually customary). When I'm repeating I know the woman is worth it so I simply include the tip at the beginning after the first meeting.
This is a thread by itself. But since people are giving the OP advice as if he is a first time pooner, I would suggest tips are not customary. Many people in the service industry are underpaid which is why tips are expected and customary. Tips in the escort industry are not expected, as every womans website will state. It is up to you but if a womans service exceeds your expectation, then tipping is a nice touch and obviously greatly appreciated by the escort.
You said it for me - nailed it.
A lot of the time I only stay for half an hour, but except for one time for a BnG I book an hour. For me personally I think the fee for an hour is the baseline at which girls would prefer to be paid for, especially girls that have a room fee etc. So not really a tip, but I guess I could book 30 min and feel rushed then give her the rest after. For me it's worth it my way.
I always pay up front and with new girls taking a risk I book for the hour if she is good then book longer especially with agencies. I don't like to book longer on a long shot until I know what the deal is with her. Got burnt on Pamela Lee recently and I won't do her again.
I agree tips only after the event and she is worth it. I don't like to hand the envelop to her I like to have it sitting on the desk or on the table. Let her pick it up. Unless I know her.
Over the years I have had ladies for get thier donation. You know they are newbies when that happens. I love Sandi Laine she always leaves something behind. Once her dress, her sunglasses, her gloves, her panties and the list goes on. I wonder if she leaves them on purpose. Other have done that is it common in Vancouver. I do not remember it happening else where now that I think of it.
I agree tips only after the event and she is worth it. I don't like to hand the envelop to her I like to have it sitting on the desk or on the table. Let her pick it up. Unless I know her.
Over the years I have had ladies for get thier donation. You know they are newbies when that happens. I love Sandi Laine she always leaves something behind. Once her dress, her sunglasses, her gloves, her panties and the list goes on. I wonder if she leaves them on purpose. Other have done that is it common in Vancouver. I do not remember it happening else where now that I think of it.
before or after, whatever the escort asks for. i only tip at micros because these are the underpaid service industry of the business
It's o.k. if they agree, but who decides if it was a performance worth paying for ? I'd think that for most SP's wanting to pay after the fact is a sure fire why to guarantee no performance at all, except a farewell performance.
I always pay up front or at least offer it upfront. If I do pay upfront, I don't tip. Because I feel weird digging through my pants for $40-$50 tip.
But, what I do, is rebook. Pay upfront the next time including a larger tip, to cover last time as well.
However the girls that I am seeing for the first time, that dont want the money right away, will get their tip right away.
Dont know why, I just find it awkward tipping at a different time than the main payment.
But, what I do, is rebook. Pay upfront the next time including a larger tip, to cover last time as well.
However the girls that I am seeing for the first time, that dont want the money right away, will get their tip right away.
Dont know why, I just find it awkward tipping at a different time than the main payment.
With some providers it is. See:
"Generic List of providers who accept the donation after the session."
https://perb.cc/vbulletin/showthrea...after-the-session/page7&highlight=postpayment
SPs are private contractors who set their own rates. They are professionals, not part of the service industry. Their services are more like that of lawyers or plumbers. You don't tip under those circusmtances.
I usually pay after the fact with my regular ladies I see, but with anyone new I tend to pay upfront...and sometimes I forget to pay at the beginning as I've gotten used to paying after, and usually that gets a nice tip thrown in discreetly...
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This is a good point (although really only applies to independents). However plumbers and to an extent lawyers are a necessity. Paid companionship is a luxury. I can't underpay someone I didn't believe lived up to expectations, but I can tip someone I believe does more for me than they need to. I don't expect anything for tipping (it's just a thank you), but let's be honest money makes the world go round. I shouldn't have said customary though as I don't tip everyone just because. And my apologies for derailing the thread.
What is your target group...AMP's, lowtrack SWs...do you request postpayment?
Like you said, that's unusual. Unless you're visiting places known for postpayment, e.g. AMP's
(=Asian Massage Parlour's). Hence my query re your target group, i.e. usual place to find SP's.
It is no different from paying someone to install your hot tub, or fix your computer. Those are professional services, they quote you a rate and you either pay it or go somewhere else. You don't tip people who provide services like that, their fee is their fee. Tips are given to minimum wage employees where the expectation is that their income is supplemented by the service they provide. SPs do not fall into that category.
If you like the service provided the reward to the provider comes from repeat business, not tips.
Wow...have another glasz of wine.Wow, you really have no clue do you. Like not. Single clue!!!!
I am pretty sure you need to re-read my post since everyone, including escorts, is stating pretty much exactly what I said.
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Like most said here, I prefer the payment beforehand for new clients. That way when they hop in the shower, I give it a quick count. I know it sounds paranoid, but I got shortchanged once so unfortunately a bad apple ruins it for everyone. Plus it's kind of awkward to count it in front of the client lol so that way at the beginning is nice so I can do it when they're in the shower. This way the payment is made, counted, and once they get out of the shower we can forget about money and get down to the important stuff
