Is it ok to walk away if an SP changes an appointment last minute?

[Denzel1]

SCAM!!!I'm not coming back for a year..BS

 

[PierreCoeur]

Chances are that the scammer isn't even in your city and may not even be a woman. The scam is a multi-billion dollar industry and seriously e-transfer provides a wide open door for that business. Be thankful this one isn't taking you to the next step and using your personal information to blackmail you with your cell phone number, name and your texts. Apologies to the ladies here who want the e-transfer before booking, as you and I will never meet, even if you are legit, there's just too much to lose for those of us who value privacy.

 

[nowayjose]

If a girl is able to fill her calendar with customers who will pay a deposit by e-transfer, her business will be more profitable as she will have less no-shows or at least partial compensation for no-shows instead of nothing.

Good for her but I won't ever be one of them. There are plenty of gorgeous quality women who are happy enough to just take cash from my hand.

I get why SPs would want a deposit but I don't get why any of you guys would be willing to do it.

 

[resercher]

Had an appointment with an SP for 3:15pm and had booked at 1pm over text. I booked a 30 minute session. She said that works.

I get there at 3:05pm and text her that im there. No answer.

She replies at 3:20pm saying she's busy and can only do a 15 minute session for almost the same price as the 30 minute session.

I say no thank you and I'd rather see her when she has more time.

She basically replies back saying how I wasted her time and that she's not coming back for a year etc etc.

Wtf are you supposed to do in this kind of situation? She got me to etransfer her money before we met which means she has my name so I can't even write a bad review about it or anything. I haven't done this in about 10 months so I guess I'll go back to my dry spell.

by doing the E transfer you just got scammed


well first of all given the information you provided we don't even know if the person you transferred the money to is even female did you run the pictures through tin eye and Google image search ?


Some of us or maybe a majority of us I can not say about specific backgrounds etc so I am going to try to not make any generalizations here
where taught a series of unspoken rules as to how you are to treat women simply because that is what your supposed to do when it comes to women
and that is how a gentleman or real man is supposed to treat women .
I think the same type of thinking happens when some of us use escorts and instead of seeing it as going to a person to get a service preformed due to the nature of the service we see it as we are " dating " The escort I think this type of thinking puts blinders on us which let's scammers to take advantage of Those of us who would not do x y or z Even though x y or z is the logical reasonable thing to do because we are men and men just don't act like that towards women


I know Every time I have been scammed by a so called escort I thought why did I put up with that for and get my money stolen from me and each time I came up with because I did not want to treat woman that way ( even though shes being abusive to me as she walks out the door with my money without giving me anything in return if it was a male and with any other service i would have not gotten to the point of being scammed .

whats this all about ? my advice
be polite etc as you should be with all persons who are providing you service. But at the same time Remember she is providing you with a service if the escort tries to scam you or do something that given any other service would be unreasonable don't put up with it .
Would you rent a car from an unknown person or company by Email transfer ?


Would you ask for example If you had paid to rent a car for a day but as soon as you gave the man at the rental agency my money he told you you could Just rent it to you for an hour and he was going keep all the money I had given him ?