Is it foolish to utter the love word in the pooning world?

[bigfoot88]

I have been seeing this kgirls for a 6 weeks only. I see 2x a week. When I cum, I can't help myself to say I love u. In the last few time she said I love u too. We exchange txt messages. All r all romantic. I know it is a make believe pooning world when words do not carry the same weight.

Does it happen often? I don't think I am the only one who experience this strange love thing. I happened to me a couple of times when she said I love u. Spare me the part u must be kidding since they did not ask anything in return.

Any comments?

 

[EvilPettingZoo]

I think that's what they call the "heat of the moment." Don't feel obligated to buy her an engagement ring or anything.

It's just good chemistry... Enjoy it.

 

[wolverine]

I get the "luv u" type talk from some SPs, but it's more of a friend thing. I get the small "l" luv from friendly banter with some female friends. Do not mistake it for big 'L' Love; don't expect the SP to be pining away for you.

 

[threepeat]

Also, by seeing her 2x a week, you are a veeery good customer and she is treating you accordingly.

Until the two of you start doing stuff off the clock, my advice is to banish those thoughts from your head. Even if you do stuff off the clock, you should still be careful. Sorry if that is harsh, just saying from experience.

It's safe to say SPs are freer with their bodies and their words than other girls so you can't key off the same signals.

 

[Markl]

Sage advice from everyone above. I will say however that lust certainly does not feel like love. Friends off the clock is possible, but love is 99.9% improbable.

 

[dieselman]

I think that's what they call the "heat of the moment." Don't feel obligated to buy her an engagement ring or anything.

It's just good chemistry... Enjoy it.

Agreed ........

its bizness man......

Yup....

Also, by seeing her 2x a week, you are a veeery good customer and she is treating you accordingly...

Yup....again....


Is it "foolish".....No, so long as you know for what it is....your a good client. I've never had that experiance and likely never will. Enjoy your escape from the daily grind, then suck back and reload.


DM

 

[Bad Santa]

Is it foolish to utter the love word in the pooning world?

Of course it's foolish! Everyone has a right to be a fool once in awhile though. I know, I've fallen in love with an SP before myself. It was unrequited and it hurt. Take my advice, you don't want to go there!

You can't get much more physically intimate with someone than when you're fucking. It's hard to remember sometimes that it's just a business transaction. Best to remember, in the pooning world, "love" usually means love of honey and love of money!

 

[Mr.Boggo]

Falling in love with an SP is a HUGE mistake (unfortunately, we don't always call the shots), and almost always ends with you being hurt. It's actually hard enough just being friends with one off the clock.

They are always on call, so calls always come in and they may have to leave you right away to get ready. Remember, if you are off the clock with them, and they get a call, there's too much money involved for them to not leave you by yourself. You'll soon see that it was actually easier to have a conversation when you were just a client, at least as a client, they turned the phone off.

If you actually love them, it's hard to deal with them leaving you all the time to meet someone else.

 

[FloridaGuy]

If it makes the session more enjoyable for you, say it. She knows/assumes you don't really love her, that you are just using her as a substitute for a woman you would truly love, so she says it back. That's a pretty good SP, saying I Love You just to improve the quality of your session. But neither one of you loves the other, of course.

So keep saying it, if it makes your orgasm that much more pleasurable for you. Hell, tell you you want her to have your baby if you need to say that to get your money's worth, you're coming into a condom anyhow so its safe. Who cares? Its all just a game between the two of you, in private, so enjoy it. If you are clear that once you walk out the door, it was just a business transaction, then saying I Love You is no different than asking her to wear a costume. Its just a quirk.

 

[Mr.Boggo]

As an addition, I don't think I've ever felt as isolated or alone as when I spent time with this particular SP "off the clock"

 

[kazesora]

if you dont mind mr bf88.. please tell her name

 

[Dark_Knight]

1203
It can be foolish to utter "I love you" even in the non pooning world. It all depends on if that love is reciprocated or not.....

 

[Mr.Boggo]

I've had one say that she loves me during "off the clock" time, which was shocking. I did what most normal guys would do...I pretended I couldn't hear what she said and kept quiet.

Granted, it wasn't the most manly way of handling it, but I didn't know how to react. Actually, she said it on two occasions and both times I did the I'm standing too far away, I can't hear you thing. I've since been avoiding her. I'm kind of a coward that way.

 

[Man Mountain]

About three years ago, I wrote the following rather long ode to a dancer with whom I was admittedly quite smitten and the night she said those three little words to me. If anyone is interested, here`s the link:

A Strip Club Serenade

In the past year, I`ve had two more dancers say it in one way or another to me. The one, who is my current VIP dancer of first choice and has been for a long time now, has said it on more than one occasion. In fact, she said it again to me earlier tonight. Sometimes, I think she says it because she thinks that it`s something I need to hear. The first time she said it, she said it in a natural, unguarded moment and I didn`t know what to think. I can`t even imagine the blank stare that met her from me as she said it. It was the last thing I wanted from her at the time. When I think back on that moment now though, I wish I had shown more compassion... or some sense of what that should`ve meant to me. I`ve tried to fight it over time but I have to admit that I feel something pretty strong for her these days. I don`t know that it`s love exactly but there is definitely something there.

The thing about feelings is that we can try to analyse them. We can attempt to rationalize them away. Talk ourselves out of them or ultimately justify them. But all of the rational thought in the world won`t change them. That`s why we call them "feelings" and not "well thought out convictions".

Is it foolish to utter the word "love" in this past time? You`re damn right it is! But love makes fools of us all. And the last time before tonight that this VIP dancer said she loved me... yeah... I said it right back to her.

 

[uncleg]

No.......................................

 

[COLONEL ANGUS]

Well there’s a rose in the fisted glove
and the eagle flies with the dove,
and if you can’t be with the one you love
, honey,
love the one you’re with,
love the one you’re with,
love the one you’re with,
love the one you’re with.
​

GET IT
Thank you Stephen Stills...

 

[uncleg]

x2

With the caveat that it needs to be real. If it is ... glorious! If it isn't .... heartbreaking.

Oh! Another thing is ... you can LOVE the person but not be IN love with the person. Well, I can. And she knows who she is.

Exactly, but it's unfortunate that there are so many people that cannot separate the two, which is where the problems start.

 

[Umbras]

I have a saying I have told a few people, You can make love to a person without beign in love with them. I am not much of a talker durin sex and am a bit quiet myself, but I have had ladies tell me things that they love the way I do certain things or how I make them feel after wards and I have done the same when I am not too absorbed in the experience of our appointment.

I love the way they make certain sounds.
I love the looks on thier faces during intimate moments.
I love the little things, looks, touch, gestures, sly smiles.
I love the way thier body reacts and that small hitch in thier breathing when you hit the right spots.
I love to hear thier jokes and anecdotes.
I love when they say they had a good time and hearing the sincerity of thier voice when they are honest.
I love how they look with glee when they discover my sensitive spots.
I love when they orgasm and cling to you, not letting you move.
I love how a woman looks, sounds and smells just after a session of passion.
I love looking forewards to our next encounter.
I love the way they make me feel for the next few days after our time together.
I love that if I make a mistake, they are understanding and give me a chance to make up for it.
I love women period.

The list can go on and on, I have affection for every lady that has spent time with mehard not to, they have treated me with more respect and consideration than quite a few women I dated. I look forewards to discovering what affects they have on me and I on them.

For me saying "I love you." is a term I will never tell a person unless I mean it, otherwise it feels hollow and insincere making me feel worse for even saying it, but that is love. In one moment it can make you feel like a million bucks and the next it can leave you feelling desolate and alone.

Love is what we make it to be, it's how we express ourselves and how we react to the expression of love that defines our individual interpretations. Without love, in any form, our world would be a sad and lonely place no matter how many people you are surrounded by.

 

[funnyfunguy]

I have a saying I have told a few people, You can make love to a person without beign in love with them. I am not much of a talker durin sex and am a bit quiet myself, but I have had ladies tell me things that they love the way I do certain things or how I make them feel after wards and I have done the same when I am not too absorbed in the experience of our appointment.

I love the way they make certain sounds.
I love the looks on thier faces during intimate moments.
I love the little things, looks, touch, gestures, sly smiles.
I love the way thier body reacts and that small hitch in thier breathing when you hit the right spots.
I love to hear thier jokes and anecdotes.
I love when they say they had a good time and hearing the sincerity of thier voice when they are honest.
I love how they look with glee when they discover my sensitive spots.
I love when they orgasm and cling to you, not letting you move.
I love how a woman looks, sounds and smells just after a session of passion.
I love looking forewards to our next encounter.
I love the way they make me feel for the next few days after our time together.
I love that if I make a mistake, they are understanding and give me a chance to make up for it.
I love women period.

The list can go on and on, I have affection for every lady that has spent time with mehard not to, they have treated me with more respect and consideration than quite a few women I dated. I look forewards to discovering what affects they have on me and I on them.

For me saying "I love you." is a term I will never tell a person unless I mean it, otherwise it feels hollow and insincere making me feel worse for even saying it, but that is love. In one moment it can make you feel like a million bucks and the next it can leave you feelling desolate and alone.

Love is what we make it to be, it's how we express ourselves and how we react to the expression of love that defines our individual interpretations. Without love, in any form, our world would be a sad and lonely place no matter how many people you are surrounded by.

this is probably the very best post I have read on perb for a very very long time. Thank you, umbras.

I love how you have phrased all of the great things we can say to our fav SPs for the way they treat us right.

 

[Markl]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q8JA9Qs2Mho