Is it considered im-polite to add more lighting to the room?
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Too dark is always a red flag for me.
I always ask for more light when the place is too dark.
Mood is one thing, but too dark usually means they are trying to hide something. Also, I wonder why the SP wouldn't want to get a good look at things before proceeding.
I always ask for more light when the place is too dark.
Mood is one thing, but too dark usually means they are trying to hide something. Also, I wonder why the SP wouldn't want to get a good look at things before proceeding.
Girls are just a bit nervous and insecure, that is all. Especially if they are young and not overly experienced, there is a certain amount of inhibition you feel in the dark.
Just politely ask if you can have some more light, " I want to see how beautiful you are".
If she says no do not push her boundaries, just don't go back and advise the others in your review.
Hope that helps.
Just politely ask if you can have some more light, " I want to see how beautiful you are".
If she says no do not push her boundaries, just don't go back and advise the others in your review.
Hope that helps.
When I was in Vancouver I left the bathroom light on, the outside light and usually had a bunch of candles burning in my work room .. you had to walk through kitchen/living room to get to my room down a short hall .. the lights were off in those two rooms because sometimes people are too NOSY and eye up your place. There was enough light to see everything, but not in super detail to case the place. I once had a guy look in my closet while I was in the bathroom (I could see the finger prints on my closet doors - they were mirrored) and another wanted to look in EVERY room in broad daylight .. talk about weirdo's and considering I'm well reviewed it really irked me.
If you had a bad incident with an sp prior it's best to be up front about it, so I can understand your comfort level instead of mistakenly passing bad judgement on those of us who have respect for our clients well being and safety.
If you had a bad incident with an sp prior it's best to be up front about it, so I can understand your comfort level instead of mistakenly passing bad judgement on those of us who have respect for our clients well being and safety.
I'm on tour right now in Alberta .. the FINAL journey lolSmilf that sounds kinda nuts and a real mood killer looking in your closets ? Ugh How did your move go ? Are you liking your new diggs ?
So not moved to tropical territory yet, few more weeks and then I'll post some pics of me sipping on margarita's on the beach!
Thanks for asking, hope all is good with you, you crazy work out lady!
Well, I mostly see SPs in the day so that's one explanation. Also, with SPs with all the condom, lube, toys etc. that get used, I don't think turning the lights off makes for a functional or efficient experience in addition to the fact that it might be a little awkward fumbling around in the dark with someone that you haven't had sex with before. And I like to watch my penis get sucked on by hot naked girls since I am very visual and I would lose that visual in the dark and that would make my penis sad.
So... lights on are always good in my opinion.
More light please. No, it's not impolite to request more lighting in the room. Some people due to their age, eye sight, etc. do require a bit more lighting. If more light is needed, I would recommend that you request this in advance before your visit with your special lady. The majority of the ladies, I know will do their very best, if possible, in accommodating your request to make you feel comfortable.
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Larry Storch
We're guys. We're visual. It's that whole hunter/gatherer/omg look at that gorgeous ass thing. I think asking for a bit more illumination isn't out of line, as long as we're not talking about spot lights.
That's why I keep the drapes open at my condo...Hmmm ... so the neighbours can watch too
:nod: I have learned first hand that this is true so I am definitely gonna have to agree with you there!!!
yes some light is really a turn on for sure. What I don't like is a light beside the bed that is bright, or a ceiling light shining in your eyes when on you back. But yes it is a good idea to look thoroughly at a pussy before you lick it, to make sure it is safe and healthy, and lickwise for the gals, so light at least at the start is a good idea.
I used to carry a little flash light for that purpose, but can't find it now.
I used to carry a little flash light for that purpose, but can't find it now.
Excellent point VJ. For clients visiting a lady for the first time requesting more light, it’s also good to let her know in advance of any physical limitations that she should be aware of. This way, she has a better understanding of the client’s abilities/needs, be better prepared and be comfortable with seeing the client. Making one feel comfortable works both ways.
Hmmm ... so the neighbours can watch too
Haha, you and I should just get a room across from her window!
If you get some take-out suhi for us, I will take care of the dessert.
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Gee Hatrick, I thought you, of all people, would have that situation licked simply by flashing your famous snatch light.
