Lots of time wasters out there. I’d say it depends on what the messages are. If one message is:
“Hi, my name is John Smith. I’m 53 years old, I really enjoy fine dining and I’m quite shy. I’m interested in seeing you on June 5th at 6:30pm for a 90 minute incall! Would you happen to be available at that time? I can provide references or a deposit or whatever screening your require”
You’re probably good. But if It’s like
“Hi, I’m John” [hi john how can I help you?]
“Are you available June 5th” [what time and duration?]
“6:30” [what duration? Could you tell me a bit about yourself?]
“I’m 53, white, and I like sucking on toes”
She’s going to get impatient.
I get this...a lot. Just be succinct. We get a lot of messages.