interesting interview

[Hipster Doofus]

M in a frank discussion

 

[Sir Woodster]

Let the speculation begin on just who "M" is...

 

[spaceghost]

Well... there was no expressed desire to go out and do pissing videos, so I guess we can scratch Trudi off the list.

 

[sunnysideup]

On anonymity

My strong suspicion is that "M" wishes to remain anonymous. Why don't we respect that?

 

[Hipster Doofus]

you don't have to speculate who "M" is.

I'm sure she'll come out and say.

 

[vizmo]

she will stand out, she will stand out soon. .

I am just kidding. let's keep our speculation to ourselves and give each and everyone privacy here, including ourselves.

Yes, I know you know, but sssh....

 

[Sir Woodster]

They can never keep such secrets...

 

[The Player]

Re: Re: On anonymity

thank you.....christ....I've been a mod on this board for all of a week and already I'm getting pissed off with the desire to eak out the private details of different people......give it a rest already!

MW

MW,think how you are going to feel after one month of this.......Good luck,you are going to need it.

 

[SPinVic]

Who ever "M" is, I bet every service provider sees a little of herself in "M". Although she seems to enjoy her job, she also states it is destroying her heart and soul. This makes me sad. When I decided to enter this business, I thought long and hard about the pros and cons of the business. One of the things I said to myself when I started working, was that if this job, or any job for that matter, ever hurt my head, heart or soul, I would quit! No money is worth harming yourself over. Has this job changed me? For sure, but in positive ways. Did I realize all the pros and cons, NO way. You learn as you go. But the one thing has remained for me, when this job loses its fun factor, off I go to explore the world and do other things;

Life is about living and enjoying.

 

[maude]

... when this job loses its fun factor, off I go to explore the world and do other things;

Life is about living and enjoying.

Here, here! Absolutely the only path to follow!

 

[Hennesy]

...when this job loses its fun factor, off I go to explore the world and do other things;

I wish I could do that on my Job.

 

[Hipster Doofus]

Well... there was no expressed desire to go out and do pissing videos, so I guess we can scratch Trudi off the list.

hey Trudi put her heart and soul into that pissing video. I 'm sorry that you dont appreciate fine art.

Pffffttt! Why do I burden myself with educating the unsophisticates?

 

[Morrigan]

Thank you to sunnysideup and the Mod for agreeing that you shouldn't seek to discover that which wishes to remain private. That said, I am the interviewee, and I really don't give a hoot who knows it. If you don't agree with what I said, fine. If you do fine. I spoke my truth on being a working girl (bear in mind that truth is a totally individual concept) and answered the questions Mr. Wilde had asked to the best of my abilities. Most people have alot of illusions and misconceptions about the working life, and I was not about to propelling or strengthening those beliefs. Society needs to hear what its like from the girls perspective. We're not all a bunch of horny nympho-maniacs with heavy drug addictions. We're just average people making a living the way we see fit at this point in time. At least, that's how I see it.

 

[Squid128]

Actually, I thought it was pretty easy to figure out who M was. Articulate, intelligent answers that seemed considered, but with a strong opinion... who else could it have been?

 

[Afterdark]

morrigan, i thought you were moving?

 

[Morrigan]

Thanks. I hope you all found it informative and perhaps enlightening. Afterdark..... decided not to. Right after I had finalized my plan to move, all these great things happened to me so I took it as a sign that maybe I ought to stick around for a while cause the time may not be right to up and move. Besides, I would have been back. Everyone always comes back. Thanks, Squid. BTW how are you?? Long time no talk.

 

[yogi]

Overall, it was impressively heartfelt, honest, intelligent, & articulate. However, I had a few gripes:

Society can't "make" you feel that way. You freely choose to do so.
I don't buy into the premise of your sex-or-relationship dichotomy.
I haven't met you, but based on the interview, I can't believe you love your job.

 

[Xavier]

Dear Morrigan,

It’s nice to see you expressing your feelings on being an escort and it will be interesting to see what the other opinions and feelings are from the other lady escorts that use this board.

I myself always wondered how the ladies felt about their work as an escort. What is the general consensus out there? Do the ladies enjoy their work or are they sick of seeing our hairy asses?

Let me give you my perspective, on buying sex (the hobbyist side of the story). I am currently unattached and don’t have a SO to cheat on. I do believe that the board is split on married and single pooners. So I am not one of the married pooners that “value sex over their relationship.” So not all of us are “rotten potatoes.” For one thing I like this hobby because it allows me to meet women that I wouldn’t have met in my normal life. I love sex and the female body. It allows me to experiment and to explore with sex without the emotional strings attached to it.

For me, being in this hobby taught me a lot about women and myself. I call this an exploration and phase in my life. Call it a long stag party, before finding a SO and settling down before being married with children. Now after I get rid of this bug for sexual conquest, I expect and hope to not be one of the “bad potatoes” that cheat on their SO. I hope that my future SO will not find out about my past. But if she does, I will explain to her in the hope she understands why.

Do the married/attached pooners really “value sex over their relationship?” Or are they seeking something to supplement what is missing in their relationships? Do you think it is wrong to do this? I can’t speak for all of them but what I have observed is this:

1) Most of the married/attached men on this board seek for something missing in their relationship whether it would be a sexual /intimate connection
2) Like you ladies, men like the variety and excitement in the hobby that is obviously missing in their relationship
3) Some relationships are open, and seeing escorts serve to spice the relationship
4) Some marriages/relationships have gone down hill and there is no hope for salvation. So the only way out albeit destructive is through pooning

For me, this hobby is not a means to an end and nor should it be for you? It seems to me that you are jaded by the business and how you perceive men. I am sure you have met some jerks in this business, which escort hasn’t? But please don’t classify all of us that way. I also hope that you will find your SO and that you are not jaded so much that you don’t offer your heart to this person.

And adding to that pile of rotten potatoes (trust issues are no fun for either party) I feel dirty and shamed. Part of that is because society as a whole makes me feel that way, but it's also because sex is sacred (to me if no one else) and to do it for money demeans it so very much..”

It is a choice that you have made, and If this is how you really feel, I think you should stop being an escort.

Yeah, I need to survive, but when you've been a working gal for so long, it gets harder and harder to explain that big gap in your resume, so I am kind of in a catch-22. It hurts my heart to be with men I don't really want to be with, and it damages my soul, too . . . And then you get the odd guy who thinks he's paying for you, not your time.

By your writing, you seem to be an intelligent and outspoken women. Use your mind instead of your pussy in making money. I know escorting is easy money, and you’re your own boss. But if you are turned off by the pooners that see you, do something that is more personally fulfilling and less revolting.

I always try to pick the ladies that have good reviews and who feel they enjoy their job and sex. I think that a positive perception about their work will only reciprocate a positive experience in their services.

I only wish you happiness and fullfullment in your life Morrigan. I hope you chose the right path to it, as most of us are seeking it too.


Xavier.

 

[vizmo]

Well said, Xavier, very well said. I cannot agree with you more.

Ms. Morrigan, we all respect your perspective on you own life and choice of career. If you do not really like what you do, people do not want to be viewed as another rotten photato or "heart and soul destroyer" with you either. With all the respect to you.