Interested in being a "travelling hobbyist"? Let me encourage you!

[tantalizeme]

Congrats on the 250th post in this thread!

I travel lot so treating myself while on the go can be really nice. given that i am usually staying in 5 star hotel and it can be fun when your away from home. However my seeing SPs starting here at home in Vancity and i have respect for my Vancity SPs. and Vancouver is great place to enjoy SPs. I agree that sometimes you can have bad experence no matter if you pay $500 per hour or $100per hour but you also could have a very memorable experience. which i have had as well here in Vancouver and abroad.
So yes I do and would in the future see an SP when travelling and usual find them thru internet forums. I prefer indys or spend a night a strip club and sometimes you get a number of stripper who you can take out the next night.

Hey GimmeT&A,

Thanks for your intriguing input.

You seem to do a lot of business travel, staying at 5-star hotels with all expenses paid—so you're obviously in a different world from us smucks on a tight budget.

Good for you that you're hitting it off with Indys and strippers on your travels. My own experience with "freelancers" in HK has been mediocre, especially when they see the slammer I'm packing.

If SPs aren't accountable to a boss (to whom we can potentially complain in case of bad service), there's often a lot less incentive for them to give their best to a tourist passing through who's hugely unlikely to see them again.

Brother, I'd love to read about your adventures in Argentina!

 

[tantalizeme]

My thanks to that tireless researcher Lenny!

Hey Lenny,

I was going to let this slumbering monster of a thread slink into oblivion...until you revived it with fresh data.

This gives me the opportunity to thank you for posting a link to the report "Hit and Run: Sex Worker's Research on Anti trafficking in Thailand" by Empower Foundation 2012. http://www.empowerfoundation.org/sexy_file/Hit and Run RATSW Eng online.pdf

This 120-page document—which I've printed out—is in sharp contrast to the diarrhea of sex tourism-hostile polemics on the web. According to this document, anti-sex-slavery activists are guilty of far worse human rights abuses than travelling hobbyists.

Outrageous how the anti-slavery lobby in effect enslaves sex workers, by impeding their freedom to make a living and subjecting them to harassment, confinement and humiliation.

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Women are also likely to play an increasing role as leaders. According to the survey by Grant Thornton in 2011, the share of women in Thailand who are in a senior management position is as high as 45%, the highest in the world (see Figure 27). This is mainly on account of women’s higher educational attainment. There are now more women than men with vocational and university education in the labor force, a different trend from the past of which the share between men and women with higher education was about the same (see Figure 28).

http://www.scb.co.th/eic/doc/en/insight/SCB Insight April 2011_Eng.pdf

Interesting that Thailand "boasts" the most women in senior management in the world—which, of course, doesn't mean that most Thai women have an easy time getting into senior management.

What surprised me about the Thai SPs in HK micros (apart from hot looks and cheery service) is that about 1/3 of them claimed to have gone to university in Thailand! I guess the Thai economy can't really absorb all those female university grads—at least not at an income level that would make offering FS at Can$17/20 min unattractive.

I've read several of these tortured "Why sex tourism is evil" pieces on the web. https://docs.google.com/document/d/1oMJxzf8rELRhPriSQw0G_7y0zvdCnUHGJ7z4czxmJt8/edit?hl=en&pli=1
http://www.heart-intl.net/HEART/080105/Open-Ended.htm

Honestly, I don't think I've any sinister hidden motives for enjoying overseas SPs. Sperm builds up, it wants out, and it's a lot more fun to let a willing pretty lady wring it out of me with her pussy than using my right hand. That's all there is to it. That's what normal men are evolutionarily wired to enjoy.

For around $25 a pop, it's clearly worth it to me. For $250+, it would be ruinous lunacy.

I remind myself: I can't change these women's basic life options. Certainly, I'd not be doing them any favor by denying them my business. By giving them what they clearly want from me, I best respect their autonomy—and they give me more pleasure in return than I could get from any other activity.

So I'm certainly not letting the sex-guilt manufacturers interfere with the sharing of physical touch for which I'm evolutionarily primed.

But my ambition is to treat my overseas SPs exceptionally well—with all the charm and considerateness I can muster. If possible, I'd like to let them enjoy sexual pleasure too; extend to a double session if the chemistry is good; and add in a fairly generous tip.

 

[Stoo]

Back when the US dollar carried a 25% bonus up here, wouldn't an American Pooner coming to Toronto or Vancouver be considered a travelling hobbyiest?

I don't know that taking advantage of a strong dollar is exploiting a foreign lady. To pay a woman in a developing country $250 would be like paying one of our own ladies about $3000 an hour!

 

[87112]

As I get older I find it a lonely way to live pooning in other countries. At the end of the deed you feel empty. I rather spend my time find the foreign girl of my dreams.

 

[lenny]

As I get older I find it a lonely way to live pooning in other countries. At the end of the deed you feel empty. I rather spend my time find the foreign girl of my dreams.

A feeling of emptiness & loneliness could apply to pooning anywhere.

That's why many guys take P4P gals LT instead of ST in LOS.

Many of the sex workers there do not even consider themselves as such & are seriously seeking to find a BF or husband.

Taking aside the specific legal differences in prostitution policy between Canada and Thailand, what are the moral differences between the two countries? The most striking difference between them is the general acceptance of prostitution in Thailand compared to the still very traditional and very repressive Western attitude that discourages sexual business. It seems that the predominant opinion in Western society is that all prostitution hurts women. This leads to an incredible social stigma that surrounds prostitutes in Canada that does not affect prostitutes in Thailand. Prostitutes can be easily found all over the world, yet why do so many tourists flock to Bangkok just for sex?

The most common response is Thai women appear to comparatively enjoy their work more in an environment where prostitution has been socio-culturally accepted. Thai girls don't feel as if they are selling away some sacred vestment, but more as if they are girlfriends for rent. Many Thai prostitutes are only interested in keeping one client at a time, so long as the client is paying for the girl's basic needs. This type of behaviour is widely accepted in the tourist districts of Thailand, and these girls who service the Farangs are part of an established subculture.

http://www.agoracosmopolitan.com/home/Sexuality/2006/03/06/01153.html

 

[lenny]

Back when the US dollar carried a 25% bonus up here, wouldn't an American Pooner coming to Toronto or Vancouver be considered a travelling hobbyiest?

I don't know that taking advantage of a strong dollar is exploiting a foreign lady. To pay a woman in a developing country $250 would be like paying one of our own ladies about $3000 an hour!

Good points. That's how i see it.

have you guys seen sammyboy forum? it's like this place for asia but with 35000 people on it at any given time, huge

Really. Specializing in Singapore, although good info re Thailand, safe sex, etc


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Mow-Ruk (love drunk)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wiV5rVP-oGA

 

[bargainshunter]

Documentary

I watched a documentary on that recently, can't remember what country it was, but there were tons of women who traveled there just to find themselves a boy toy to fuck.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UhoI-UD_A1w

http://topdocumentaryfilms.com/rent-a-rasta/

 

[joe45]

how much is pooning in japan? is it more $ than vancouver,bc
i dont want thailand i think they more stds and dangerous

what ur experiece with pooning aboard. is it safer???

 

[screwu123]

As a young guy reading this thread is depressing. Tant why don't you go find a wife that's open to sex with other partners? I don't want to sound like a dick but the way you you talk about things it just sounds very lonely and unhealthy mentally. I'm into pooning for fun but sex for money will never be as good as sex with your gf/wife and should never be considered as a replacement. With your bedroom skills you should be able to find a hot open kinky milf to enjoy your time with. I mean having a diary is useless. What's the point. Might as well share your life with someone you find special rather then a inanimate object. I mean that's how I view it but if you view it as mentally satisfying then no one can change your mind. The longer you wait to find someone the smaller the market will be.

 

[joe45]

Will go Japan next year . How much is pooning there ?
Only want to spend 20-120 cdn dollar
Saw on a few Jp website and it's 35000 yen that's like 428 cdn dollar too much

 

[Dickson]

This whole concept rubs me the wrong way.
I don't know what it's really like but my gut feeling that they're being exploited due to economic hardship. Desperation leads people down paths that they wouldn't normally go down.

I am with you on this one.

 

[Dickson]

Hello everyone
This is an interesting thread and my comments are as follows:
- i have traveled in the Canada/USA/UK/Argentina and have found SPs. Some very expensive and some cheaper in Argentina but still very beautiful

I would in the future probably see an SP while travelling in places like Europe, USA, South America, and of course montreal and las Vegas. I dont agree with south east Asia due to the circumstances over there and i frankly dont find the women attractive.

I travel lot so treating myself while on the go can be really nice. given that i am usually staying in 5 star hotel and it can be fun when your away from home. However my seeing SPs starting here at home in Vancity and i have respect for my Vancity SPs. and Vancouver is great place to enjoy SPs. I agree that sometimes you can have bad experence no matter if you pay $500 per hour or $100per hour but you also could have a very memorable experience. which i have had as well here in Vancouver and abroad.
So yes I do and would in the future see an SP when travelling and usual find them thru internet forums. I prefer indys or spend a night a strip club and sometimes you get a number of stripper who you can take out the next night.
If i am going to see an SP it is with some Class and i nice location. Oh and the Sp better be as close to 10 as possible.
And i agree with the comment before by another member that you need to try to make the connection. be friendly and kind. and your SP will be the same back. after all you want to enjoy the time your dishing out for.
Happy Pooning!

Totally with you on your comments.

 

[bill555]

Where is Tant? Has not posted recently. Is he OK? Did he return from his asian trip?

 

[fatone]

Can't let a thread this complex/funny die...as for my "bona fides" I've travelled to 30+/- countries, P4P in 6 with 2 others giftgiving to a temp gf as an alternative...reg non-paying sex in other places and some places a mix.
Re: the orig topic and the digressions;
-never thought paying for sex was "morally-inspired" at all, for me more "alcohol-influenced" (oh, and horniness, d'uh)
-def took advantage of econ power/exchange rates...can't afford the same in Van
-for me the travel wasn't sex-based (like the pt the OP "tant" intended to convey, I think) but it does make a trip more memorable
-hate the false equivalencies that come up b/t adult relationships and child exploitation, reminds me of the old hater shit claiming every gay was a pedophile
-along the same line, dislike SPs here saying SPs elsewhere and their choices aren't independently made when they could be
-really dislike OP "tant"'s racist shit re: Asian men, as a white guy with a small dick, too cliched a stone to throw
-otherwise, good shit, learned from Sarah B (I think) other terms for gigolos (knew Kuta Cowboys), lifelong education YEAH