I've been with 3 girls that advertised DFK (as part of the 1 hour GFE) on their respective platforms. For some reason, every single one got straight into bbbj without kissing right after the bath. After the first two encounters, I asked the third one for a kiss, but all I got was a peck on the cheek but I didn't insist on it. Would there be some reason for the hesitation. I don't think I'm ugly or anything and I've got good dental hygiene in general plus I spend a ton of time brushing and flossing before a session. Just here for opinions cause maybe I'm missing something? Maybe I need to be more outspoken at what I want at the beginning of the session but that doesn't seem natural.
Initiating kissing during GFE...
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Everyone's different. Most ladies I've visited don't like to kiss, but I've lucked out and found a real knockout that actually asked if I was into it. That right there is a solid win.
That's a good point. Didn't consider this. I'll try to be more upfront next time but in a polite manner, will see how it goes.
I don't wanna say right now cause this might be an issue of communication (or lack thereof) on my part. I'm actually going back tomorrow. I'll try to be more upfront with her right after the shower like the other guy suggested. I'll post the results here tomorrow.
Like I said in my original post, I do a ton of flossing and brushing before arriving, and I take care of my dental hygiene in general.
Honestly , if she agreed to kissing or dfk is in her ad why don’t you look her in the eyes and ask , “can I kiss you ?”
To be honest it can be very nerve wracking on both sides , we might be thinking the same thing … “why isn’t he kissing me “
As per usual , communication is the name of the game , I always ask the person when we’re alone & it’s time , “can I kiss you “ if he hasn’t made the first move , I bet none of you have asked . Some people , male & female are hard to read …ASK !🤓
To be honest it can be very nerve wracking on both sides , we might be thinking the same thing … “why isn’t he kissing me “
As per usual , communication is the name of the game , I always ask the person when we’re alone & it’s time , “can I kiss you “ if he hasn’t made the first move , I bet none of you have asked . Some people , male & female are hard to read …ASK !🤓
It’s actually not recommended, mouthwash is preferable. Obviously brush your teeth that day but not right before you go see the SP
When you brush/floss, you create micro lesions and if you do have oral sex, it increases your risks of catching anything.
Or so that’s what a nurse told me.
That's very true. I'll try to do better in this regard. Thanks for the tip.
Hi Sam, I think it would benefit you to communicate this more clearly with the provider, because it seems like a lot of girls do advertise a wide variety of services, but that does not mean every service will be explored in the session. I think if kissing is important to you, you should mention that in your initial contact, even just as far as "sensual" or "intimate" or more outright that you enjoy kissing and want that to be part of the experience. And don't worry about being outspoken, speak up and say what you want, this entire arrangement is not "natural" nor organic its an intentional agreement between two business parties you could say, so don't be afraid to say what you want. Best of luck 🤞🤞
I mean if you go to my website the landing page says “let’s make whoopie” so it’s definitely on brand lol
Just ask. When you get to the bedroom, keep the towel on and as you're laying down together starting off, ask "can we start with kissing?" Or "May I kiss you?"
Personally I enjoy kissing, and I find it can really make a session much better. But not everyone is going to be comfortable with it. This is why each provider offers different services. But if someone advertises a specific service, where you specifically ask for, then you should get that service.
If you don’t get an advertised service it could be a few reasons:
-they may false advertise (I have heard many stories from clients where they see someone and some or many services advertised they won’t offer, but they false advertise to get people to see them.
-they may be waiting for you to suggest things or make the first move.
-they may genuinely forget.
It’s good to communicate these things with the provider, and not assume. I hope this helps!
If you don’t get an advertised service it could be a few reasons:
-they may false advertise (I have heard many stories from clients where they see someone and some or many services advertised they won’t offer, but they false advertise to get people to see them.
-they may be waiting for you to suggest things or make the first move.
-they may genuinely forget.
It’s good to communicate these things with the provider, and not assume. I hope this helps!
