Indy Escorts and Envelopes

[moi]

Always wondered as I had a client give me my donation in an envelope and have read many beautiful escorts' etiquette about discreetly handing them the envelope and how it seems rude and takes the moment away if they count money in front of the client.

How do you know they gave you the right amount and when do you check?

 

[athaire]

I think that if you must count it, please do so in front of me so as to ensure all is as it should be. I mean how uncomfortable would you feel if it was short in the envelope? double for me for sure if you have left the room........But that is just me.......

 

[littlejimbigher]

As I read some of the SPs rules and regulations on how they want the money in the envelope and unsealed and placed descretely on a table I just want to shake my head. I guess there are a lot of uncouth people out there but most guys probably handle things politely anyways.

I can see the SP counting the money while the client is showering. It makes good sense because it's easy to miscount. I accidently was short a $20 once.

With some of my regulars I end up giving the envelope afterwards because they are busy putting the flowers I brought in water at the beggining.

 

[namssa]

I agree with CadMan, I have only ever paid up front once and it was to a lady in a well known MP. I did not have a problem paying up front, but sure enough the session was not one of the most memorable ones. Not sure that paying up front would be the issue with that.

I have always paid after the session and I have no problem with the money being counted before I leave, what do I care. If there is a problem, I would prefer to have it brought to my attention while I am still there and the money has not left the room.

Never been a victim of the upsell or whinning for tips. Much better to have it all spelled out up front, so we are all on the same page. I am sure I will run into that issue shortly.

All the classiest girls never make you hand over the money up front. I never use an envelope. When I'm done I casually count it out and put in on the corner of the closest table. I have never had a classy girl count it in front of me.

The girls who demand cash up front, count it and then leave the room to hide it have always been the worst sessions for me. You just know they are there for business and they don't even try to fake any romance. Also, you know as soon as they get into the session the upselling and whining for tips will start.

 

[bcneil]

About a week ago had a girl count the money in front of me
I just had 20s from a bank machine.
She must have re-counted it 3 times.
Then said I was 20 short, then counted a 4th time, and found It was the right amount.

Total mood killer

 

[athaire]

About a week ago had a girl count the money in front of me
I just had 20s from a bank machine.
She must have re-counted it 3 times.
Then said I was 20 short, then counted a 4th time, and found It was the right amount.

Total mood killer

LOL.....ya I feel ya but imagine the mood killer for her thinking that it is short.......
It is all in how you both handle it....

 

[moi]

wow, i really wonder what kind of SP/MP you have seen if you don't have to pay up front (unless regulars).

every MP has a RULE to take the money UP FRONT and while the guy is showering, they put it away and get their toys and stuff for the session.

I always ask for the money up front and i always make things clear on what is included in the price and do not upsell in the middle of a session as it kills the mood.

 

[Kashs]

wow, i really wonder what kind of SP/MP you have seen if you don't have to pay up front (unless regulars).

every MP has a RULE to take the money UP FRONT and while the guy is showering, they put it away and get their toys and stuff for the session

Not sure how you or your studio do things, but the girls I go to do not take money and put it away prior to starting service. I always offer my donation at the beginning of the session, but it stays visible to both parties on the night stand or on a shelf for the reminder of the session.

Don't take it the wrong way, but some guys are not going to like that if you grab money up front without offering any services, especially at your present studio where the recent track record has been less than stellar.

 

[Sit_on_my_face]

As soon as I enter her place I drop it on a table or counter top. At the end of the day it doesn't really matter if it's at the beginning or end of the appointment.

This is a personal choice. Doesn't really matter at the end of the day when the money is handed over. It's all the same, at first or last.

 

[Good Gloria]

on the table please

... the girls I go to do not take money and put it away prior to starting service. I always offer my donation at the beginning of the session, but it stays visible to both parties on the night stand or on a shelf for the reminder of the session.


I don't know how to quote yet sorry. ^^^ Bingo that is the proper and LEGAL way to do it. Leaving the donation afterwards is not legal. I always say very gently shortly after his arrival, 'lets make this legal." Generally not counted, but if so it is ALWAYS done in front of the client adding, oh goodie and hour. I was didn't count, there was a 1/2 rate left and of course he got an hour than some. lessons learned...now where is that manual ??

A tiny problem with leaving the donation till the end is that it truly can easily be forgotten...especially with a regular and wine and we have gone overtime (which is not charged) And how I hate to ask for it then.

 

[Good Gloria]

he paid for an hour

short story...maybe it should be a new thread?

He had my details and rates.
One hour on the table.
He made sure every minute was used , after the hour he says
he is staying for two hours..(oh poop, wish you wouldn't)
He watched the clock the entire time...and kept me busy
At the end, with his coat on, ..and ready to leave
I just have to say "Wow, that was 2 hours !"
His reply was " I guess you want some more $"
ummmm "Yes please"
He puts down down 60$


another lesson learned

 

[hawkervac]

money

if they ask me for it up front i make em count it right in front of me and just kindly say wanna mnake sure i am correct. the reason being one time i handed over dough and was told to get undressed and she would be right back. when she comes back says im twenty short. of course she twenty short after leaving one somewhere. shows me the cash and says wanna count it for yourself . get up put clothes on and say ok let me count . march my ass right the fuck out of there twenty short all right but not a chance in hell she is gonna try and scam me and then me enjoy my session with her. ugh egn.

 

[SweetCheeks]

A hard lesson

I once had a gent book three hours with me.
It was an amazing time, I enjoyed him a great deal and saw him once prior to this longer booking, so I trusted him.

After it was all said and done we had went over time as I often do and he was off and happily on his way.

I go to get the envelope he left on the counter at the start of the session and there was only donation enough for one hour, I counted and re counted and thought I must have been crazy, but no it was only for one hour.

He never came back, never called .
It actually hurt that someone I spent this amount of time with did this.

I am still pretty new to the SP thing but that was a hard lesson to learn.

 

[moi]

Yea, my friend once stayed with a client all night, got the money up front.

The next day, the client called again, and my friend didn't ask for the money up front. while they were sleeping, said client snuck out, and said he "left a bag of coke" on the table and will be back.

My friend does NOT do drugs, never has and didn't know what to do. They guy never paid him, and had called my friend saying he will pick up the coke etc, which never happened.

I always count the money while the client is in the shower. Twice I received more and made sure the client knew and he said it was a tip.

I suppose because of the bad history of clients who act as some of the girls have been ripped off, it is our safety and peace of mind to accept the money first. Only after there is a regular do we gain trust a bit more.

Can't blame us for having been taken advantage of before, we have to take precautions!

 

[Kashs]

For girls complaining of being taken advantage of multi-hour sessions: if you book an hour with a guy, then stick to an hour. When the hour is up, politely kick him out, hahaha. There, problem solved.

Allow multi-hour (3+) bookings for repeat clients only. For longer arrangements, count out the cash up front in the client's presence.

In every business, there are always deadbeat customers, every successful SP will have encountered those at some point. Just like any other businesses, all you can do is minimize risk.

 

[Krustee]

About a week ago had a girl count the money in front of me
I just had 20s from a bank machine.
She must have re-counted it 3 times.
Then said I was 20 short, then counted a 4th time, and found It was the right amount.

Total mood killer

I just wad it up in a ball of bills & throw it at them -
if they do'nt catch it too bad play time starts.

If they have enough energy to count it after I'm finished then they can count till their fingers fall off.

But they usually throw a few dollars back to me as I walk out the door saying "thanks for the great lay".

 

[ASHLEYM]

I once had a gent book three hours with me.
It was an amazing time, I enjoyed him a great deal and saw him once prior to this longer booking, so I trusted him.

After it was all said and done we had went over time as I often do and he was off and happily on his way.

I go to get the envelope he left on the counter at the start of the session and there was only donation enough for one hour, I counted and re counted and thought I must have been crazy, but no it was only for one hour.

He never came back, never called .
It actually hurt that someone I spent this amount of time with did this.

I am still pretty new to the SP thing but that was a hard lesson to learn.

That is terrible.I am sorry it happened to you. It's business before pleasure I wonder why it's a mood killer when a girl counts the coin. You both damned well know it's a business transaction right? But then again it's a fantasy as well. Don't want to break that bubble!

 

[island-guy]

How many other guys have staggered out after getting a big kiss goodbye after a session, gotten into the elevator and then while going down realized "oopps!!" and had to go back up and knock again and remind the girl that you forgot to give her something...

 

[Good Gloria]

Kasha
For girls complaining of being taken advantage of multi-hour sessions: if you book an hour with a guy, then stick to an hour. When the hour is up, politely kick him out, hahaha. There, problem solved.


Thank you,,,now repeat that to me every day please!

once again...biz first makes it LEGAL. paying for her time.
done afterwards..well, that is not legal.

 

[sdw]

I always fan the cash so she can count it with out touching it, then lay it on the dresser/table.

I think the guys that get upset about the girl counting it before the session are the ones most likely to not have all the money needed for the session.

I also think that the girls who insist on carrying the money elsewhere before the session begins are the ones most likely to not provide all that was expected.

Carrying the money away is guaranteed to result in me not booking with the girl again, having another person in the suite is guaranteed to result in me leaving without continuing the session. If I'm still dressed, I take the money because the session hadn't started. If I'm undressed, I dress and leave the money. I count the money "lost" as the price for lessons learned.

That is terrible.I am sorry it happened to you. It's business before pleasure I wonder why it's a mood killer when a girl counts the coin. You both damned well know it's a business transaction right? But then again it's a fantasy as well. Don't want to break that bubble!