I have it in my head that if a provider does incalls (only) to their home, there potentially is unnecessary "heat" around their residence and therefore I do not engage. If it's an apartment or condo, sure, that's different as there are people coming and going constantly. Unfortunately, I have had to pass on some encounters (I want to have) because of this (i'm aware outcalls are an option but some sp won't do that either). Am I over thinking things? Not looking to dox anyone, just curious on other peoples take. Thanks.
INCALLS TO HOMES
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could be over thinking. as long as there are positive reviews, that’s good enough for me.
I'm in the overthinking crowd.
The truth is, having an SP come to your home gives you far more exposure to nafarious intent.
If you are truly concerned, perhaps renting a hotel room and invite an SP there, is an option that you are comfortable with.
The truth is, having an SP come to your home gives you far more exposure to nafarious intent.
If you are truly concerned, perhaps renting a hotel room and invite an SP there, is an option that you are comfortable with.
Coopuke, I think its situational. I agree with Azn, if lady has good reviews and is generally careful with who she takes in, those are good signs.
There are risks with any scenario (i/c, o/c to hotel, visiting an 'establishment' like EB), reputable ladies will have dealt with this before and can usually help you manage exposure.
There are risks with any scenario (i/c, o/c to hotel, visiting an 'establishment' like EB), reputable ladies will have dealt with this before and can usually help you manage exposure.
Don’t have anyone you do not know really well and trust in your home.
even really well known ones can burn you. Back around 2011 I invited a SP to my home, one I had seen multiple times (15+), we had also been out on friendship dates (dinner, beach), no cash involved. Suddenly she disappeared and a few weeks later my home was broken into and my partner started receiving phone calls from said provider.
Now I only see providers when in other cities.
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Agreed, never to my own home, I prefer a neutral third party accommodation. I'm fine with everyone having their own boundaries.
Not something I would ever do. That’s what hotels are for. To quote Tony Soprano don’t shit where you eat. Or in this case poon.
Check out dayuse.com. A few hotels in the city will rent rooms for about 8 hours. Might set to back $120.
I think we’re off track.
The OP is asking about an SP using her house for incalls, not having her do an outcall to his.
Sometimes over thinking is a good thing if you’re worried about being seen. I agree that an apartment or condo seems more discreet than a house, as it doesn’t draw as much attention to who’s coming or going. But if you don’t know anyone in the neighbourhood and the SP in question is ligit and well reviewed you’re likely OK IMO. We’re not in the days when LE might be staking out the place of a well established SP.
If you’re worried about nosy neighbours or doorbell cams and someone ID’ing you I’d suggest parking around the corner or a block away and waking to her door. It's cold as hell lately, put your hood up and wear a scarf. You’ll be fine.
The OP is asking about an SP using her house for incalls, not having her do an outcall to his.
Sometimes over thinking is a good thing if you’re worried about being seen. I agree that an apartment or condo seems more discreet than a house, as it doesn’t draw as much attention to who’s coming or going. But if you don’t know anyone in the neighbourhood and the SP in question is ligit and well reviewed you’re likely OK IMO. We’re not in the days when LE might be staking out the place of a well established SP.
If you’re worried about nosy neighbours or doorbell cams and someone ID’ing you I’d suggest parking around the corner or a block away and waking to her door. It's cold as hell lately, put your hood up and wear a scarf. You’ll be fine.
I definitely prefer to meet at a condo or hotel. On occasion I have gone to a residence but only if their are multiple positive reviews from longer term members. For example I see Danika in her home but that would be one of a few exceptions for me.
I totally hear you out!! I'm not sure what city you're in but for myself my neighbors are aware I run a business, I "free lance editing projects for memorials and business ads, I have provided my direct number incase of an emergency in the area.
Hell I've even done work for one of my neighbors her uncle passed away. So I did video memorial for her. (Good relationship I've established)
Houses are safer bet park a street over, at the end of the day the only way you're truly going to be reported or in trouble is if the service provider reports you..
I've already been approached at the start of my career and the detectives made sure there were no "pimps" or people I was paying to work, they also made it clear that it's impossible to charge a john and a waste of time. They would need to perfectly time the breach, where I'm massaging the John's JOHN and at the end of the day it's harmless.
They are only wanting a safe environment for the girls and for the girls to be working for themselves and wanting to work/of age.
I hope that helps you better understand, I'm in Mb Canada.
I thought that this was a niche part of the market that Eden was trying to get into...not sure about comparable costs though
