In your own words: What’s considered a high end SP?

[LC18]

You’ve read the title now let me explain a little. What do you consider a high end SP? Is it just based on the price or the performance, photos and website as well?

Please be respectful and try to avoid naming anyone as this could quickly become awkward.

 

[wincity23]

For me, it's a number of things. First-communication. Clear, respectful, coherent communication. Website with recent(ish) pics-a website shows an investment in their brand, hopefully it is updated from time to time. Performance is tricky-it takes 2 to tango so there it comes down to "is it as advertised"? As in, did she deliver a GFE/PSE/whatever experience stated in earlier communication or in her advertising info? After a date, it's the performance, and how she made me feel that during our time together that i'll remember or forget but i could/would certainly regard one as higher end that i didn't vibe with well if everything else was on point. Obviously the "higher end" girls will tend to be what a majority of guys find attractive (wide range there that i won't bother trying to define). Price would be last on my list but i would expect a more professional experience from start to finish at higher price points. Finally, incall location should be nice, in a safe area, and very clean.

 

[$Mansion]

She is so beautiful and in such high demand that she doesn't need to advertise on websites like perb, leolist, tryst etc, nor would she ever even consider it. She can choose who she wants to see and doesn't have to meet with just anyone who can pay her fee.

For girls who advertise on platforms like tryst or leolist etc, having a high rate doesn't necessarily mean anything significant. It's often just a random number and doesn't reflect their youth, beauty, looks, or personality. A high rate doesn't necessarily mean they offer exceptional service or have a good attitude. Sometimes, having a high rate is just a way for them to limit the number of clients they see, so they have more free time for themselves.

 

[LC18]

She is so beautiful and in such high demand that she doesn't need to advertise on websites like perb, leolist, tryst etc, nor would she ever even consider it.

Where does she find her clients then?

 

[GeeBeeP]

To me a "lower end SP" is just about sex, she offers half hour and hour dates only and is only interested in getting you off and on your way. The sex might actually be great, but that’s it.

A “high end SP” is about beauty and personality. She is so far out of my league it’s almost a different sport. This is a girl who creates an experience, not just provides a sexual release. She makes you comfortable and spending just an hour with her is not nearly enough. Whether it’s GFE, PSE or kink/fetish the sex is obviously important and she must have some top notch skills, but it’s part of a bigger experience.

 

[Rizzo6]

Real photos, real personality, in the moment photos. no need to dress up like your going to a wedding in photo shoots get dolled up and take photos like you applying for a magazine. Way to tacky. Your not looking like that when you show up to the door. High end is real. If you provide great service you don't need to go to the extreme with these photos and websites and exaggerate who you are.

 

[PuntMeister]

High End Price? Anything over $400/hr. Minimum 1-2 hours or more (no quickies).

High End Calibre? Combination of Gorgeous Face, Hair, Body, with Excellent Reputation backed up Amazing Reviews from mainstream contributors. Professional and fully function website that tells you everything you need to know, and lets you self-screen to decide if she is right for you. Ads are likewise artful, professional, and enduring.

High End Service? Prompt and clear reply if your inquiry is coherent and worthy. Creates an experience, not just a session. Delivers on her brand promise and whatever services she agreed to at time of booking. Skillful and appears to love what she does. Leaves you feeling good about yourself afterwards.

 

[bigballs55]

You will know when you are with a high end woman when you meet her. She exudes class, beauty, personality, and sensuality. And of course she presents all of this in the perfect setting. Her den of naughtiness is clean and classy all the way. She treats you like you are the only one she cares about for that brief moment you share.

Okay now I am getting a bit starry-eyed and dreamy. I'm such a sucker for a gf like seduction experience. 😀

 

[Dick Ford]

A key element is a highly visible social media presence where they document every fancy bauble, every stunning beachside view, every epicurean delight that only the most elite of courtesans are privileged enough to experience.

 

[westwoody]

Where does she find her clients then?

Referrals.

 

[GeeBeeP]

Where does she find her clients then?

Just my 2 cents but my guess is that SP’s who most of us would consider to be high end didn’t start out that way. Maybe they started at an agency, then went indy but it’s not an overnight transition. Some have a faster path than others, particularly if they are stunningly attractive and hit it out of the park on personality and service. But I doubt anyone starts out as high end and it must take some big lady balls to decide to delve into the high end of this world. There are risks to get the rewards.

Guys aren’t spending high end money on someone they have no information on and can’t see mentioned on a review board or word of mouth in high roller circles.

Most high end ladies have worked hard to build their brand, reputation and connections. If they can get them established then they might start to implement a NRP, skip most advertising, and rely on word of mouth in the right places to build and sustain their business. There are a few Toronto ladies that I wish I’d had the foresight to see in their early days who are now completely out of most guys range, but they didn’t get there overnight.

 

[$Mansion]

Where does she find her clients then?

They meet clients through social media, sugar sites, dating apps, parties, referrals, or just meeting people in daily life.
I know that there are high-end escort agencies that only ultra rich people and celebrities can use.

I know some girls from university who didn't call themselves escorts, but did have sex for money on rare occasions. They would get paid tens of thousands per "date" . these girls were like super model level of hot though. I think it was mostly through getting messages on Instagram. I know one met a guy on raya too, and sometimes it was just in person. I only know about this because my girlfriend knew these girls well.

 

[angry anderson]

$140. Know your limit. Play within it.

 

[Poontalk Saint]

Class, professionalism and skill ( also of course being attractive with a general standard), but also down to earth and who puts her focus on her client while he is with her. Doesn’t feel like her attention is somewhere else. Puts thought and care into her routine but also has the ability to adapt within her boundaries to accommodate different situations.

I don’t think the rate is the criteria in determining whether high end or not, but I probably couldn’t anyway, I haven’t spent a really high rate for an SP before. But I can’t imagine having so much of a better time with a really high rate than what I pay now.

It’s kind of like someone who spends $300 for a certain brand name T-shirt, when a T-shirt with the same quality (material and design) you can get else where for $20. Definitely not belittling any SP for having a high rate, I’m just not in the place I can afford that or would even want to when I thoroughly enjoy my times presently. A lot of times you get what you pay for I’ll admit, but not all the time. There are diamonds in the rough.

This is coming from a middle class guy, I’m sure what is high end for a high upper class person might look a little different than that.

 

[LC18]

Thank you all for being respectful and taking the time to answer. I appreciate it!

 

[LC18]

I’ve been around for a few years and I’ve noticed that all the high end SPs I’ve encountered on Twitter all had things in common. Now, that doesn’t mean it is the right answer and it doesn’t mean they are superior to other SPs.


• They were in their late twenties - mid thirties
→ Because it takes time to get to that level

• They didn’t have that many lingerie photos
→ They want you to be able to picture yourself taking her to a fancy restaurant or to a charity event maybe.

• They didn’t have tattoos or very small tasteful ones
→ The people with the kind of money to hire a high end SP are usually conservative people and would probably not be into very visible tattoos.

• They had a beautiful website with only a few pages. Only the essentials such as: About, visuals, rates and FAQ
→ A clean, professional and expensive looking website sure helps.

• They were on social media but only to post photos, a few tweets and go back to their activities.
→ A lot of times, I have seen people engaging in what we call “Twitter drama”. It is not a good look. Clients don’t care and it also makes you look like you have way too much time on your hands…maybe because you aren’t being booked.

• They usually had a large following but in return didn’t follow many accounts so if you made it to the short list of people they were following, you were part of the cool gang.
→ Because their photos are always impeccably done, they always receive gifts that are most definitely on your wishlist and travel to Pinterest like destination, it’s easy to understand how they gathered so many followers.

• Rate structure. The point that you were probably waiting for. I’ve noticed it was always kind of mysterious, no hourly rates and the words “up to” were often used. Exemple: $3,500 for up to 6 hours
→ They’re rarely clock watchers and they don’t really do 60 or 90 mins dates. They push dinner dates, lunch dates and events more than anything.

• Most were face out but I’ve noticed it was usually the American ones. The Canadian ones weren’t because they want to be able to travel down to the States.
→ Like I’ve mentioned many times, the U.S.A are a little bit hostile when it comes to SWs crossing the borders even if they have no intention working there.

• It was known or assumed that they had a long term arrangement with a whale and were just seeing a few clients on the side.
→ This justifies the high rates. If you already have a whale giving you 10-20,000 a month, do you really care if your high rates don’t attract many clients?


Oops forgot the most important point so I am editing this post.

• They have a 10/10 look. By that I don’t mean that they are a 10/10 on the attractiveness scale but more that their clothes always fit, their hair are always well done, their nails and grooming. Fresh face whether they’re wearing makeup or not.
→ If you’re going to pay in the 4 figures to spend time with someone, you would expect them to have the money to get the best upkeeps.

 

[westwoody]

They want you to be able to picture yourself taking her to a fancy restaurant or to a charity event maybe

I love being with women that I am proud to be seen with, not some puffed up bimbo covered in warpaint. As some ladies say “Impressive but not eyebrow raising”. And able to converse like am adult.

They push dinner dates, lunch dates and events more than anything.

Because they are actually enjoyable to be with. They have been places I will never go, and often have fascinating stories.
They are people I can learn from.
If I just want to ejaculate I can buy a jackpack.

They have a 10/10 look.

With no makeup.
Waking up next to someone who is absolutely gorgeous au naturel, can’t beat that.

 

[Americanboy]

I agree with most of what has been said in this discussion. Rates don't always determine if a provider is "high end". I have met providers who charge lower to mid rates but still consider them to be "high end" compared to those charging extremely high rates.

I believe that beauty is the most important factor, as many comments have already pointed out. I feel that many providers may overestimate their attractiveness or try to appear more attractive than they actually are.
I also believe that age plays a role. woman in their early to mid-20s are considered the most attractive. It can be uncomfortable and cringey for me to see older women trying too hard to appear attractive, especially if they are being braggadocios about it.

I don't think that a woman staying in the industry for a long time makes her high-end. In fact, I believe it can make her seem more like a low-end option.

One more thing I would like to mention is the importance of being feminine. Having a feminine personality, attitude, and demeanour is not always very common among providers. I believe that having a feminine presence is a factor in being "high end".

 

[chebub]

ALL SP'S AND WOMAN ARE HIGH END. PERIOD. 👏 👏
[/QUOTE If you reduce all people to their lowest common demoninater I would agree we all high end.

 

[Rizzo6]

All sp and women are high end. That is the most ignorant comment I heard. I think everyone who is answering this question should look up the meaning of high end, high class. Luxary cars, material listic items, furniture, that are made in the best materials, alcohol. Etc etc. If a women takes care of her self. Provides a clean place, provides the service that she says, friendly, makes you feel special. Previous comment is like saying all cars are high end. Quality of a ferrari is same as a Honda. You can spend 10k on your website. You can spend thousands on your lingerie. Thousands on your photos. AT THE END IS ALL ABOUT THE SERVICE PERIOD.