Im new to the hobby, walk me through it

[kman32]

-if you're nervous beforehand, stop the car before you reach her place and try to relax by doing deep breathing. Long deep breaths. When you're nervous you hold your breath and that just makes you more nervous. Sit there for two minutes, or five or ten and breath deep. Once you're calm keep up the deep breathing until you get to her door. If you've found a great escort your nervousness will disappear after five minutes in her presence.
-Be genuine. Don't try to play a role or act the way you think she wants you to act. Be yourself.

Great Reply, and I am sure this will be a great help!!! I was just kindda giggling to myself when you went into detail about being nervous, the part about the BREATHING?? Some men actually do this?? Why so nervous??
Just wondering!

At least one escort has told me she did this as well when she first started. Remember, seeing a client is common for an escort. Seeing an escort is usually a rare treat for a man. So it's natural to be nervous.

I don't want to suggest that he'll be so nervous that he can't function. But I think you should be as calm and cool and collected as possible before you knock on her door. Perfectly in control.

I went to see an escort in a hotel once. My day hadn't been going well. Traffic was terrible. I wasn't in the proper frame of mine. Once I got to her floor I didn't feel exactly right. Instead of knocking on her door right away I sat down on the chair near the elevator and did deep breathing for a couple of minutes. People pick up other peoples emotions and reflect them back. If I walked in all flustered, she would have picked up on it. I always want to show up in the best frame of mind.

 

[zazk]

Awsome info Kman! I read all of it
The nerves are just part of the fun I guess, just wanted to make sure I wouldnt do anything to offend the lovely sp. Oh and thanks for the breathing tips, im a musician and do this before playing live.

Have a good weekend everyone,
Zack

 

[NAKED LAUNCH]

Great Reply, and I am sure this will be a great help!!! I was just kindda giggling to myself when you went into detail about being nervous, the part about the BREATHING?? Some men actually do this?? Why so nervous??
Just wondering!

I've been Pooning for over twenty years and still get nervous. More now than when I was younger. The excitement of the coming event gets the adrenaline pumping. My chest gets tight, my stomach gets queasy, my brain feels like rubber and everything starts happening in slow motion until the SP opens the door and in an instant all that's gone and I'm floating on a cloud like some sort of drug.

Great stuff!

 

[Nickthenoob]

Ok im new to the hobby, a little nervous as im 26 and been in a long term relationship for the past 6 years thats over now and she wasnt that open minded in the bed.

Anyway just curious on the procedure.

eg.
Do u discuss the situation on the phone?
Im guessing they provide the rubber?
Are most ladies use to nervous first timers? Premature ejac from nervs?
etc.

Cheers and I hope to be around a while,
Zack

Read, watch, search and learn.

N

 

[Miss*Bijou]

People pick up other peoples emotions and reflect them back.

Great comment... so true!

 

[mr.e]

Other users have said don't even get into this hobby since it becomes an addiction so take that for what it's worth.

 

[kman32]

Other users have said don't even get into this hobby since it becomes an addiction so take that for what it's worth.

You should really consider mr.e's comment too. Don't let escorting become your entire sex life. It's easy to get paid sex, yes. But sex that isn't measured by the hour or the $hundred will always be better. Decide now, on how many times you're going to see an escort. For me it's every three/four weeks over the course of a year. I started last fall and will finish this Christmas with my favorite ladies.

Be like the smart escorts. Have a plan and stick to it.

 

[wonderfulbiwmn]

excellent

i have to say that some of these responses are so concise and articulate that they could be used as the curriculum for a workshop...awesome! i am truly impressed

 

[SInCity67]

You should really consider mr.e's comment too. Don't let escorting become your entire sex life. It's easy to get paid sex, yes. But sex that isn't measured by the hour or the $hundred will always be better. Decide now, on how many times you're going to see an escort. For me it's every three/four weeks over the course of a year. I started last fall and will finish this Christmas with my favorite ladies.

Be like the smart escorts. Have a plan and stick to it.

When i first started , I saw about 6 Sp's in 3 months , now it's been almost a year since my last one . It's very easy to lose track of money you spent but for the 10 seconds of your load shooting out, it 's not worth it.

 

[wonderfulbiwmn]

When i first started , I saw about 6 Sp's in 3 months , now it's been almost a year since my last one . It's very easy to lose track of money you spent but for the 10 seconds of your load shooting out, it 's not worth it.

ahhh...but how can one measure pleasure in dollars and cents...besides, who cares for expenses...we've all got plenty!

 

[zazk]

Wow my thread really took off!
I thought I would just get a "do a search!" reponse.

Anywayz had my first time today, very enjoyable, wont say with who, she didnt want to be reviewed but she is on these boards.

Thanks for all the advice & Im sure other noobs are reading.