Im just venting....

[Anna]

My heart goes out to my bestest, not talking about Tawnie but another bestest. Shes been with her so for 5yrs, he got her pregnant which they planned and she just found out. He is avoiding her cause she left him over 2 weeks ago. On top of that she might have an std cause he was behind her back and she went to the docter. I cant do a thing cause im here and she is way the heck over there. She told me today, I love her dearly. I guess pretty soon I have to make a trip back to cali to be a true friend to her and make sure she gets past this. Whats up with ASSH*LES now these days?? Ive been hearing alot of screwed up stories lately from fds.

 

[Lurker 123]

You know Anna. You should become a counsellor than a sp! From my observation, you are interested in people! You have got to gifts to talk!

 

[Anna]

You know Anna. You should become a counsellor than a sp! From my observation, you are interested in people! You have got to gifts to talk!

Hmm thanks.. I get told that lots, I do guide fds in a positive way in any situation it could be but when it come to my drama. I cant take my own advice that I give out. Weird!! I run to close friends for help.

 

[Maury Beniowski]

I cant take my own advice that I give out. Weird!!

Painters rarely, if ever paint their own houses...

 

[PeterLongwood]

These boards are no place for real world information. Pooners and other SP's in general don't care if your friend is having a hard time, or your dog died or your cousin ran off with his sister. The vast majority are here to get laid, or to make money getting laid. You will get comments of support to be sure from the odd suck-up or guy with a crush, but mostly, guys like me will see you post and never ever book with you.

I though this board was about sucking and fucking, licking and dicking....

 

[HeMadeMeDoIt]

Anna, I haven't responded to your posts, mostly because your posts leave me indifferent and mostly uninterested. But this one I must comment on, as it's part of a wierd trend. Lots of people, SPs and pooners alike are using the board as some kind of open forum to discuss their lives outside of the hobby and I don't get it. It's not directed at you, just a comment in general about these types of posts.

These boards are no place for real world information. Pooners and other SP's in general don't care if your friend is having a hard time, or your dog died or your cousin ran off with his sister. The vast majority are here to get laid, or to make money getting laid. You will get comments of support to be sure from the odd suck-up or guy with a crush, but mostly, guys like me will see you post and never ever book with you.

If this is true, what on earth would possess you to share it with your customer base? It's bad for business. No one wants to see a depressed SP and what SP wants to see a pooner who needs therapy? You say you run to close friends for help. If the boards are your idea of close friends, I feel sorry for you.

It's bad/sad enough when the posts are true, but some of the sympathy BS has been false, like I have cancer or my relatives got killed. Folks, get some real world friends or see a counselor about this kind of crap. It doesn't belong here, at least in my opinion.

If i wanna get depressed i'll go get me a wife and listen to her whine. Lets keep this a little light. We all have our "offline" problems so lets try and keep them there.

 

[Knud]

I thought this was a soap opera thread, what's happening lately on Y&R?

 

[Anna]

PeterLongwood Quote:
Originally Posted by Methos
These boards are no place for real world information. Pooners and other SP's in general don't care if your friend is having a hard time, or your dog died or your cousin ran off with his sister. The vast majority are here to get laid, or to make money getting laid. You will get comments of support to be sure from the odd suck-up or guy with a crush, but mostly, guys like me will see you post and never ever book with you.
I though this board was about sucking and fucking, licking and dicking....


I thought so too when i started but in the LOUNGE its an open discussion to whom who ever leaves a post and whats on his or her mind. I read all some are interesting and some arent. In my eyes it doesnt matter who sees me, I have alot of POSITIVE REVIEWS and its his choice if he wants to see me. Methos-Just say you put your pic up here and was an SP. Some will call and some won't. I wouldnt judge unless i tasted your pie and if i wanted to pay for your time too.

 

[Anna]

I am not an SP. I am a client. I am paying for sex, so my pic is irrelevant. My point was not solely directed at you, but at all those who think the board gives a shit about their friends and their friends problems. It does not. And god forbid it's made up as a ploy for sympathy or charity. There's no call for it here, even if they are spelled correctly and don't butcher the english language like a chicken in a freshman meat carvers class.

If you want to talk about your troubles, call a chat line, get a shrink or find a friend. This simply is not the place for it is the point.

why you complaining now?? i wrote alot more topics then just this thread. i think anyone on this board can post what ever they got to say. are you having a bad day?? wanna talk about it?

 

[wilde]

My point was not solely directed at you, but at all those who think the board gives a shit about their friends and their friends problems. It does not. And god forbid it's made up as a ploy for sympathy or charity. There's no call for it here, even if they are spelled correctly and don't butcher the english language like a chicken in a freshman meat carvers class.

If you want to talk about your troubles, call a chat line, get a shrink or find a friend. This simply is not the place for it is the point.

Then what makes you feel that anyone in here give a shit about how you feel?


.

 

[Anna]

Wilde, touche my friend, touche. I hate being scored on, least of all by a lousy habs fan.
Anna, hell no. If you weren't the latest in a line of folks posting this kind of stuff I would not have even commented.

aww you most be having a bad day.. you should make a thread about this topic and post it in the lounge like...

METHOS LOUSY HABS FANS
I am not an SP. I am a client. I am paying for sex, so my pic is irrelevant. My point was not solely directed at you, but at all those who think the board gives a shit about their friends and their friends problems. It does not. And god forbid it's made up as a ploy for sympathy or charity. There's no call for it here, even if they are spelled correctly and don't butcher the english language like a chicken in a freshman meat carvers class.

If you want to talk about your troubles, call a chat line, get a shrink or find a friend. This simply is not the place for it is the point.

Back to my dearest friend, going to go see her pretty soon..

 

[smackyo]

why you complaining now?? i wrote alot more topics then just this thread. i think anyone on this board can post what ever they got to say. are you having a bad day?? wanna talk about it?

exactly, i hate it when people make negative comments on threads that they can choose to not read if they want. like what the fuck???? just don't read it.

keep posting what you want anna. co - incedently, is that your picture in your sig???

 

[chilli]

"He is avoiding her cause she left him over 2 weeks ago."

Anna - I'm having a hard time understanding why he's the ahole.

The fact is she should have had a ring on her finger and a marriage certificate when she decided to have this guy's baby.

When you are dating a guy for 5 yrs - theres a reason - he doesn't want to marry you!!!!!

He's not an ahole, it's obvious he didn't want to have a kid, it's obvious he never really was into her - and she my friend like most girls is living in deniel about who she chooses to be attracted to.

Girls hurt themselves by being attracted to men who won't or can't commit and then they whine about how men are pigs and they can't find a good guy.

Good lesson for her - too bad women never learn.

 

[Akitasam]

The problem with you telling these problems is that you take away the fantasy of the pooner/ sp relationship. Your supposed to be a sexgoddess and telling sad stories related to your life is a downer. Your making the term GFE a little to far. Sorry about your friend but I have my own problems, don't need to hear about hers.

 

[westwoody]

she my friend like most girls is living in deniel about who she chooses to be attracted to.

Why do so many women fall for "bad boy" types and then try to change them into something else? And then whine when they won't change? If they were going steady for five years and she still didn't know him very well she is either naive or stupid.

 

[Anna]

"He is avoiding her cause she left him over 2 weeks ago."

Anna - I'm having a hard time understanding why he's the ahole.

The fact is she should have had a ring on her finger and a marriage certificate when she decided to have this guy's baby.

When you are dating a guy for 5 yrs - theres a reason - he doesn't want to marry you!!!!!

He's not an ahole, it's obvious he didn't want to have a kid, it's obvious he never really was into her - and she my friend like most girls is living in deniel about who she chooses to be attracted to.

Girls hurt themselves by being attracted to men who won't or can't commit and then they whine about how men are pigs and they can't find a good guy.

Good lesson for her - too bad women never learn.

They planned to have a baby and she has the ring, he cheated on her. She found out she is pregnant recently after 2 weeks they broke up. So he is still an ASSH*LE.

 

[Anna]

keep posting what you want anna. co - incedently, is that your picture in your sig???

Yes that is me, I got it done in Fort Mcmuarray in May. Nice job hey!!

 

[CJ Tylers]

ah... if one is offended or dislikes the subject material, one can always look elsewhere for something that appeals.

Anna, that's a right shame your friend is in a bad way. As for the ex, well... most guys are terrified of having kids... do try to consider it from his perspective... not only is he dealing with being recently dumped, but now a potentially HUGE change to his way of life may be occurring.

You can't expect him to suddenly show up and be mr supportive of your friend, she did dump him after all. Now, from the sounds of it he was an idiot in the first place... better off he's no longer around.

On the STD's... that's a harsh thing to go through, especially at such a vulnerable time (pregnancy). Hopefully everything turns out alright... and once again, she's better off without the jackass... leave him out of this entirely. :|

 

[myselftheother]

I am not an SP. I am a client. I am paying for sex, so my pic is irrelevant. My point was not solely directed at you, but at all those who think the board gives a shit about their friends and their friends problems. It does not. And god forbid it's made up as a ploy for sympathy or charity. There's no call for it here, even if they are spelled correctly and don't butcher the english language like a chicken in a freshman meat carvers class.

If you want to talk about your troubles, call a chat line, get a shrink or find a friend. This simply is not the place for it is the point.

Butchering the English language? Have you checked your grammar? And isn't that a run on sentence? This is a forum, called the Lounge, where I believe the subjects here run the gambit. And, by the way, your grasp of sentence structure and the like may need some brushing up, that is, if you're going to throw stones at glass houses there, Meth.

 

[CJ Tylers]

"Men who live in grass huts should not throw spears"
- Zanu, of the Gary Larson tribe


That's my preferred take on the glass houses argument