"I'm just doing this to pay for college"...for real
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The average sugar baby is 26 years old and receives $2,600 in monthly allowances from their sugar daddies.
if I were to use the K-girl rate of $200/hr, a sugar daddy only gets to bang that 26-yr old hottie 13 times/mo.
I'd say that's money well spent.
if I were to use the K-girl rate of $200/hr, a sugar daddy only gets to bang that 26-yr old hottie 13 times/mo.
I'd say that's money well spent.
My experience was that 2 times a week is about what to expect. A person I know was paying much more than $2,600 a month for 2 days a week and every second weekend. I was paying more than $2,600 a month for 2 days a week. Remember the week when Aunt Flo is visiting is off limits. You also spend money taking her places and helping her with "emergencies". Some, quite real. UBC charged more than expected for textbooks one year. If the guy is smart but generous, the relationship can last for years - but I found that it's hard to sustain a sugarbaby relationship with a lady that hasn't already earned her first degree. Basically, if you aren't allowing $5,000 a month for all costs you are going to find the relationship falls apart in a few months.
A lot of sugarbabies step into the world of escorting when they find it's a lot less hassle to "see" different men 3 or 4 evenings a week. Less time for her, no arguments about exclusivity, no arguments about her worth, no excessive knowledge/interference with her life. Young attractive escorts with a handle on reality and good business sense turn down potential clients and easily accomplish their goals as long as they don't get into drugs and consumerism.
For a Sugar Daddy to spend $2,600/month, that'd be 30% of a $100,000/yr income, 15% of $200,000/yr income. Unless the Sugar Daddy is a single or a millionaire, that kind of monthly depletion would probably be easily noticed by his spouse or partner.
Not quite....
$100 000 year is $72 000 year take home or $6 000 month
$2 600 month is 43% of take home income
After tax take home pay calculator
This is a great little tool to show the value of avoiding the tax man
Thank you. You put the issue in sharper perspective.
Spending $2,600/month a sugar baby is like seeing a $260/hr SP every Mon, Wed, Fri, much like attending those 3.0 credit-hour classes at Sauder School at UBC.
I can certainly believe this to be accurate. Vancouver is very expensive to live in and people don't know everyone's situation.
There are thousands and thousands from east to west who are registered members on escort forums, so why would this article be a surprise?
Just so you know, where I work, I work with many part-time sfu students and they constantly mention how expensive everything is. Some of them live at home and still find it tough.
Nothing should be a surprise to anyone in this world, and life nowadays.
my two bits on Seeking Arrangements
Girls will ask for the moon. But it doesn't take a lot of negotiations to get them down to reality. Girls cost money there is no way around it. SB relationships can get out of hand very easily. It is not just the monthly stipend it is all the other stuff on top that you have to figure in. Dinners, trips, clothes, liquor, presents, groceries all this can really pile up. There is also the enviable "shark week" to contend with, so you know you may not be getting anything more than a bj during those time periods. If they are old enough to have a kid or kids they will eventually become involved at some point which can be good or bad depending on your point of view and how much do you want to become involved in these girls lives.
The Good: Usually amateurs and easy to impress if you have experience. Many girls have not even been given flowers once in their life! Many girls have never had a positive male role model in their lives and they really yearn for one. There will be absolutely no clocks, over nighters are a given if you pick the right girl. They will often give you a booty call. Multiple visits a month are negotiated and very doable. Your direct costs can be less.
The Bad: There will be drama. They can fall in love or become clingy. They may be doing other guys too so you may or may not be exclusive. If you are married, there is potential to be outed to the wife if she gets really wrapped around the axle. You may not get as much pussy as you think you will, there are loads of excuses. Family visits, shark week, girl friends coming to town, trips, lots of stuff. And strangely they never seem to want to make up the short fall once they have the money in their account. The extras will kill your budget, dinners out, trips, gifts, bills, car repairs, groceries this all must be factored into your costs. It can be very time consuming, you will be talking to many girls at once and have girls you are working up, girls that you are presently involved with and girls that you are in the process of ending the relationship with, all at the same time. You will be multitasking. If you really want to do this successfully you will be managing a stable, as these relationships don't often last very long for many reasons.
So SA girls come in all types, at one end, escorts looking for income stability to girls just looking for a guy that has an actual job, and use SA as a filter.
You will need to be articulate, patient, and disciplined. SA leads these girls to believe they can ask for the moon and get it and their are enough foolish guys with more money than brains out there to lead them to believe that it is true. A reality check is part of the process as most guys put their pants on one leg at a time and have financial constraints that need to be addressed.
If you have the time and the discipline the rewards can be great.
Girls will ask for the moon. But it doesn't take a lot of negotiations to get them down to reality. Girls cost money there is no way around it. SB relationships can get out of hand very easily. It is not just the monthly stipend it is all the other stuff on top that you have to figure in. Dinners, trips, clothes, liquor, presents, groceries all this can really pile up. There is also the enviable "shark week" to contend with, so you know you may not be getting anything more than a bj during those time periods. If they are old enough to have a kid or kids they will eventually become involved at some point which can be good or bad depending on your point of view and how much do you want to become involved in these girls lives.
The Good: Usually amateurs and easy to impress if you have experience. Many girls have not even been given flowers once in their life! Many girls have never had a positive male role model in their lives and they really yearn for one. There will be absolutely no clocks, over nighters are a given if you pick the right girl. They will often give you a booty call. Multiple visits a month are negotiated and very doable. Your direct costs can be less.
The Bad: There will be drama. They can fall in love or become clingy. They may be doing other guys too so you may or may not be exclusive. If you are married, there is potential to be outed to the wife if she gets really wrapped around the axle. You may not get as much pussy as you think you will, there are loads of excuses. Family visits, shark week, girl friends coming to town, trips, lots of stuff. And strangely they never seem to want to make up the short fall once they have the money in their account. The extras will kill your budget, dinners out, trips, gifts, bills, car repairs, groceries this all must be factored into your costs. It can be very time consuming, you will be talking to many girls at once and have girls you are working up, girls that you are presently involved with and girls that you are in the process of ending the relationship with, all at the same time. You will be multitasking. If you really want to do this successfully you will be managing a stable, as these relationships don't often last very long for many reasons.
So SA girls come in all types, at one end, escorts looking for income stability to girls just looking for a guy that has an actual job, and use SA as a filter.
You will need to be articulate, patient, and disciplined. SA leads these girls to believe they can ask for the moon and get it and their are enough foolish guys with more money than brains out there to lead them to believe that it is true. A reality check is part of the process as most guys put their pants on one leg at a time and have financial constraints that need to be addressed.
If you have the time and the discipline the rewards can be great.
B
BrokeBastard
That's not even taking into account girls from all the colleges, trades, and other various educational institutions.
Hard to say - it really depends on the individual. I think that once the guy comes to realize that he's in control and there's always a new model literally just a click away, he might be more conservative about extending his commitments. If he allows her to manipulate him ("There's NO one who will love you like me!"), then it's all over.
tim, most of us think in terms of the traditional attitudes about relative ages of dating participants - but i can assure you that there is a subset of society that doesn't live by those attitudes - successful sb's fall in that category
