I'm Giving Up Pooning

[Stoo]

Hey Perbies,

I am just dropping in here from Terb (planning a trip to your neighborhood to see Miss Roxxx again!) and this thread is almost a duplicate of one floating around on Terb a while ago. Some guy, with minimal posting history and apparently with "issues" given his loosely veiled threats against the ladies, comes on to say he's leaving.

To sum up the Terb thread, the response was roughly:

(a) who cares
(b) Dude, get help before you hurt someone
(c) Ban him
(d) Lock the thread.

Just sayin'

I've been at this a long time, and while I have had a few less than stellar experiences, the vast, vast majority of the ladies I have met are sharp, interesting, hot and generally amazing. So either the OP presents as an utter asshole, or a threat, and so is poorly treated by the ladies, or he just sucks at choosing his girls (which I suspect is more the case).

Over the years, I have met so many amazing ladies who absolutely blew me away.

I mentioned Josie earlier. I saw her in the spring and if I was totally honest with myself, she is the only reason I am flying from Toronto. True, I'm doing some other stuff while I am there, but I was so impressed with her, that I cashed in some points to make the trip.

So to the OP... Sorry for your crappy experience. Get some help. You sound a little creepy.

 

[Tugela]

double post

 

[Tugela]

I have been to all sorts of Asian micros, and none of them are involved in human trafficking. Not that there may one or more out there so involved, but I have not experienced any myself.
The girls are usually in their 30s, old by Asian standards, who come here on visitor visas to make some good money they could not make back home.

If they have come out here on visitor visa's to "make good money" they are working illegally. And they would not have organized everything themselves, someone did it for them, which means that they ARE trafficked. What the hell do you think trafficking means?

 

[storm rider]

Man you are clueless....you truly are.....the gals come here on a visitors visa and not a working visa as they cannot state they are coming here as a sex worker.....they come here to Canada to work...most if not all of the gals go on a tour from the east coast to the west coast....a friend of mine saw the same gal in BOTH Calgary and Montreal....why?....because she moved to a different city.

These gals come here for 6 months and they clear $60,000-$80,000 and that is after the cut to the mamasans who provide a clean(for the most part) safe place to work.
SR

 

[BuZZeD_]

Hey Perbies,

I am just dropping in here from Terb (planning a trip to your neighborhood to see Miss Roxxx again!) and this thread is almost a duplicate of one floating around on Terb a while ago. Some guy, with minimal posting history and apparently with "issues" given his loosely veiled threats against the ladies, comes on to say he's leaving.

To sum up the Terb thread, the response was roughly:

(a) who cares
(b) Dude, get help before you hurt someone
(c) Ban him
(d) Lock the thread.

Just sayin'

I've been at this a long time, and while I have had a few less than stellar experiences, the vast, vast majority of the ladies I have met are sharp, interesting, hot and generally amazing. So either the OP presents as an utter asshole, or a threat, and so is poorly treated by the ladies, or he just sucks at choosing his girls (which I suspect is more the case).

Over the years, I have met so many amazing ladies who absolutely blew me away.

I mentioned Josie earlier. I saw her in the spring and if I was totally honest with myself, she is the only reason I am flying from Toronto. True, I'm doing some other stuff while I am there, but I was so impressed with her, that I cashed in some points to make the trip.

So to the OP... Sorry for your crappy experience. Get some help. You sound like a creep.

You're right lock the thread and ban me.

You weigh in but I seriously doubt you have read even the begining of this thread let alone any other posts of mine. And I'm a creep? Ya but whatever I don't expect you or anyone else to care. With money I'll save maybe I can afford the help you seem to think I need. :clap2:

I don't know how anyone could see a fifty plus year old, pot smoking hippie as threatening? I show up on time, clean shaven and freshly showered, never haggle over donations or restrictions, never drunk or too high, always ready to share my pot and/or pizza and prepared to do exactly as agreed upon nothing more and nothing less. Is it too much to expect the same?

 

[Stoo]

I did edit my post a titch... Your suggestion that beating these girls would have somehow given you satisfaction, is clearly "creepy". To me, any guy who can even comprehend beating a woman is a fucking looser as far as I am concerned. I suspect that the ladies saw you for who you are, and did what they could to get away from you. (Although not knowing the details of your failed visits I suppose I shouldn't speculate...)

And I did read this thread. And I did have a look at some of your posts.

 

[InTheBum]

Hardly any of the Asian SPs working out of apts for Maggie etc. do drugs, and, if any do anything mildly recreational, they are far from being druggies.
Same goes for the young Koreans, similarly working out of apts. They are here, without work visas, to make money for themselves and for the boss.
Now, the girls who work for Maggie, etc. may not be at your visual standard, but the young Koreans are pretty hot.
Certainly the cost factor is very favourable for these gals.

If you're stuck on very attractive young white meat (Perb escorts excluded), then you do run the higher risk of fucking drug users and encountering rip-offs.

Very good advice...stick with the asians...:clap2::nod:

 

[BuZZeD_]

I humbly apologize if my opinions have been seen as inciting violence. That is not my intent expressed or otherwise. I am and always will be a pacifist and advocate a non-violent approach to conflict resolution. I can't repeat that often enough.

If for whatever reason I'm not banned I will moderate my comments in the future and try to only make positive and happy posts and no more reviews since I'm stopping that destructive behavior.

I do have a great sense of humour and don't take shit too seriously so I get over everything and just keep on laughing at this crazy thing called life. :crazy:

I'm not even sure why I am bothering to defend myself to a group who do not even know me since Stoo is right, who gives a flying fuck, why should I? ound:

 

[BuZZeD_]

Your suggestion that beating these girls would have somehow given you satisfaction, is clearly "creepy".

Again I don't see that suggestion in my posts?

 

[sevenofnine]

i have pretty much stuck with my regular sp for years and years
my one recent venture to another sp younger and newer, was nothing to write home about

i found her at arrangement seekers young nice, for like two sessions then just was off the wall , drunk really drunk out of control

i personally would only see an sp who has been around for awhile and has a quality reputation on one of the boards out there. and there are lots to chose from

i really don't see how sp's are supposed to police themself, i mean there is no professional association they belong to or anything,
if they did try to police it, some white night would defend the girl, she would just change her name or advertize else where.
you would just start a big mess,
im sorry but you can't lay this at the feet of sp;s
and sp's have enough to worry about from us guys,

i kind of think its part in parcel in the way you poon.
i mean i found a lady i liked almost eight years ago or so,
and i stell see her regularly

not to say there is not a lot of great ladies out there i have found several

but if you want it cheap and want to bounce around from girl to girl, your going to get what you get.

 

[BuZZeD_]

If you are referring to them as "young white meat" I'm pretty sure you don't fall into the "nice guy" category.

The "young white meat" comment is derogatory and should not have been repeated by myself but it was a reference from a previous post by Sonny, so please direct your comments according. It was he who suggested that was what I was looking for. His name not mine, just sounded like a good description to me at the time of writing so I borrowed it without thinking.

 

[Tugela]

Man you are clueless....you truly are.....the gals come here on a visitors visa and not a working visa as they cannot state they are coming here as a sex worker.....they come here to Canada to work...most if not all of the gals go on a tour from the east coast to the west coast....a friend of mine saw the same gal in BOTH Calgary and Montreal....why?....because she moved to a different city.

These gals come here for 6 months and they clear $60,000-$80,000 and that is after the cut to the mamasans who provide a clean(for the most part) safe place to work.
SR

Exactly. They are illegal. And their trip is allmost certainly being organized by someone else (unless you believe that somehow a peasant who can speak little or no English is somehow sophisticated enough to come out here and set themselves up all by themselves).

This is exactly what trafficking is dude, what do you think it is?

Like I said before, a lot of you guys are either clueless or are intentionally sticking your heads in the sand ostrich style.

 

[mimi]

*sigh*, sorry, have to chime in...

Back in the eighties girls from Canada were going to Japan and working as 'hostesses' in bars. They used visitors visas and had help getting the job..in fact, advertisements were always popping up in newspapers.

There were rumours that when you got there they took your passport and forced you to service clients. The two women I knew who went to Japan knew the score, worked hard, and came home with good bucks.

I suppose there was some trafficking going on there, too, right? These women I knew were not dummies and most came home...some still live in Japan.

Anyway, whatever country has the best dollar rate is going to be the recipient of women from other countries...just the way it is. Someone actually told me that as a senior white gal I would do well in China, and I've been giving it some thought...we women are tough. We know what life holds for us and we know what we have to pay to get by...nothing has changed in thousands of years (except automatic washers, dishwashers and the like)

O.K...back to your regular scheduled trolling...

 

[vancity_cowboy]

Exactly. They are illegal. And their trip is allmost certainly being organized by someone else (unless you believe that somehow a peasant who can speak little or no English is somehow sophisticated enough to come out here and set themselves up all by themselves).

This is exactly what trafficking is dude, what do you think it is?

Like I said before, a lot of you guys are either clueless or are intentionally sticking your heads in the sand ostrich style.

here's how human trafficking is defined:

The Trafficking Protocol defines human trafficking as:

(a) [...] the recruitment, transportation, transfer, harbouring or receipt of persons, by means of the threat or use of force or other forms of coercion, of abduction, of fraud, of deception, of the abuse of power or of a position of vulnerability or of the giving or receiving of payments or benefits to achieve the consent of a person having control over another person, for the purpose of exploitation. Exploitation shall include, at a minimum, the exploitation of the prostitution of others or other forms of sexual exploitation, forced labour or services, slavery or practices similar to slavery, servitude or the removal of organs;

(b) The consent of a victim of trafficking in persons to the intended exploitation set forth in subparagraph (a) of this article shall be irrelevant where any of the means set forth in subparagraph (a) have been used;
(c) The recruitment, transportation, transfer, harbouring or receipt of a child for the purpose of exploitation shall be considered “trafficking in persons” even if this does not involve any of the means set forth in subparagraph (a) of this article;

(d) “Child” shall mean any person under eighteen years of age.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_trafficking

exploitation means the following:

Most often, the word exploitation is used to refer to economic exploitation; that is, the act of using another person's labor without offering them an adequate compensation.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Exploitation

as usual, your diatribes against asian micros and massage parlours make absolutely no sense whatsoever. it is you, sir, that is the clueless one... :crazy:

 

[BuZZeD_]

i kind of think its part in parcel in the way you poon.

but if you want it cheap and want to bounce around from girl to girl, your going to get what you get.

Absolutely, I understand the inherent danger in pooning the way I did it. I don't like to repeat very often unless I really connect with them on a personal level. I'm not getting any younger and I want to experience many different girls after wasting my youth in a monogamist relationship. What is the saying, "variety is the spice of life"? As far as sex goes I concur. I don't always assume drug usage is a bad thing, not everyone gets out of control. I prefer younger ladies if I'm paying for it, I don't need to pay for sex with ladies my own age but not many twenty something civies are jumping my bones lately. So I present as an easy mark, which sadly is true. You and many others have pointed out my poor choices and I except that. However that does not in any way excuse their behavior or mean that they should not be exposed for what they are which is what I thought I was doing.

But everything is great and life is wonderful all rainbows and puppies, I'll never complain here again.

:yield:

 

[lenny]

I can understand the frustration at not getting what was agreed to out of a session.

I simply move on to try someone else who is worthy, who then becomes a keeper.

If you see enough ladies you are bound to find this type of gal, sooner or later.

After a lousy session it may be best to chill till the pooning bug hits you again.

 

[mackeral23]

But with all the constant name changing and new numbers, it is difficult to gather information about the sps. A few so so reviews and they change their names, numbers and incalls. So it is better to stick with a well reviewed lady then always tofft.

Agreed, I am a newer and younger client (hobbyist) and I recently decided to go back to school. As such I don't have a wealth of disposable income but when I feel the need to seek some companionship that's when I really appreciate this resource. Perb is great for getting some info before I dive in and allows me to ensure that my time and money is spent relatively ideally. When I decide who to see I decide to see those Ladies with real websites, real reviews and real pictures.

This resource is great and amusingly if you read the TIPS section on Erslist they recommend that we do our homework before selecting an escort.

Cheers to all those who honest and help the community make informed decisions with their time and money. I'm not saying we don't need some trailblazers, but when you're in the unknown I'm going to go ahead and say that you're assuming the risks.

 

[Alix Turner]

Hmm.... all my reviews and threads, really? That seems a little exaggerated IMO. I wonder if others see it that way. If so I am profoundly sorry. And yes I am angry right now I think anyone would be?

You seem to think I am threatening or something when if you knew me you would know that I personally am not threat to anything except injustice and the status quo. This relates to life in general as I am one of the people trying to make the world a better place for everyone particularly the marginalized.

Ms. Sarah, you are certainly are entitled to your opinion but what you have done with your reply post is give a false impression. I believe I have only echoed what I have seen in many posts and that is that behaviour of that kind can expect to be met with violence at some point and does nothing to improve the reputation of the hobby.

...juniper, is that you?

 

[lenny]

But with all the constant name changing and new numbers, it is difficult to gather information about the sps. A few so so reviews and they change their names, numbers and incalls. So it is better to stick with a well reviewed lady then always tofft.

I wasn't suggesting otherwise.

My personal preference in Canada, with online advertising escorts, has been to seek out well reviewed ladies.

Though even with that you may run into drug users, rip offs, or otherwise frustrating experiences, such that it takes a number of attempts before you find a keeper or two.

But perhaps the OP is the type of customer who doesn't like to repeat with anyone.

 

[stevieknickers]

Dear Buzzed,
Argh i just finished typing up this beautiful essay and then wasn't logged in for some asinine reason and so i lost it all!
So i will try once again.
I would like to ask you why you continue to allow these leeches to rent any space in your head>? You are letting them control you. You have allowed them to influence you to the point of coming off almost violent.You are nothing but a gentleman and deserve the respect and kindness that you always show your SP.
But of course we are all guilty of allowing them to take precious moments of our lives spent thinking about them that we can't ever get back! So we have all fed these little leeches more then any monetary gain they had hoped for.
Ok nuff said.
I would also like to offer you some insight. I think that you are on the right path with your decision to quit pooning. I feel that if you take a break from sex in general and force yourself to interact with women. Any and all women that is. That eventually you will come to find different women attractive for different reasons.I am sure you will always be attracted young, Caucasian females, who can blame you they are superior lol j/k But by allowing yourself to explore all women then you will discover all sorts of sexual desires you didn't know you had.
Ok I am sorry if I am out of line at all here but I only want whats best for you!:cheer2::cheer2::cheer2: