I'm a Slut!! (Our rape culture: Part II)
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If these are indeed factors in rape prevention, I think it even more important to impress on society the damage and social costs of rape.
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i agree with you all we are in the 20th century women are equal if not more. i would love to have a women run canada for one. i just feel they would do far better then the males with no balls. i would love to see the day when women can walk down the street without a shirt on. but first i would have to give up my licence so i don't kill anyone because my eyes would be every where looking guaranteeing me prison time. not good. lol
i seen this story on the web called the slut walk. i'm proud of you all.
i seen this story on the web called the slut walk. i'm proud of you all.
my father was a convicted rapist, twice that he did jail time any way that we know about,
he was also violent abusive and a drunk,
all my life i sort of wanted to understand and was confused about my sexuality and desire ok
my mother was abused ok, and i was just this scared little kid, she told me to beat the shit out of my father
i was to small i couldn't protect her.
latter i did when i got bigger,
but when i couldn't protect her, she got angry with me, every time when i was young and growing up looking at girls,
my mother would remind me about my father, and tell me i was just like him meaning horny
any way i was really fucking confused by sex
in all honesty pyshology didn't help,
because if yo listen to popular pschology i should be like my father,
a raging alcoholic abusive violent. and horny.
well im horny,
but i have never really been comfortable with being horny or my sexuality never actually
but any way,
its funny my father he was religious we went to church every sunday, he would sit and kneel and say the rosary, sunday church was the only time i never saw him drunk
he was moral, didn';t beleive in abortion or living in sin, shacking up. believed in the sanctiety of marriage and the church.
he also felt poor him, he believed he was a smart man stuck in a dead end job
oppurtunity stolen from him when he was a child. poor poor him the world wasn't a fare place not at all for him.
interesting that he never once apologized to the victims or the family theirs or his own.
never really admitted he did anything wrong.
in his mind
he felt he had the right, to hurt to hit to abuse his family violently and emotionally
in his mind it wasn't rape, he had the right, in his mind he didn't abuse his wife his kid,
he had the right because poor poor him
the two girls he raped,
were handicapped, their families were neigbhours and friends. the ones we know about any way.
evey one tells me i should forgive my father and move on,
how can i forgive some one who never beleived they ever did anything wrong.
i don't know.
you can say whatever you want
but to me its just evil
when you believe you have the right to hurt someone, even your wife your own kid
and he did on a regular basis
but in his warped mind he did, because poor poor him the world so wasn't fare,
and he was horny he had needs. and his needs were more important then anyones
i think its just that simple.
he was also violent abusive and a drunk,
all my life i sort of wanted to understand and was confused about my sexuality and desire ok
my mother was abused ok, and i was just this scared little kid, she told me to beat the shit out of my father
i was to small i couldn't protect her.
latter i did when i got bigger,
but when i couldn't protect her, she got angry with me, every time when i was young and growing up looking at girls,
my mother would remind me about my father, and tell me i was just like him meaning horny
any way i was really fucking confused by sex
in all honesty pyshology didn't help,
because if yo listen to popular pschology i should be like my father,
a raging alcoholic abusive violent. and horny.
well im horny,
but i have never really been comfortable with being horny or my sexuality never actually
but any way,
its funny my father he was religious we went to church every sunday, he would sit and kneel and say the rosary, sunday church was the only time i never saw him drunk
he was moral, didn';t beleive in abortion or living in sin, shacking up. believed in the sanctiety of marriage and the church.
he also felt poor him, he believed he was a smart man stuck in a dead end job
oppurtunity stolen from him when he was a child. poor poor him the world wasn't a fare place not at all for him.
interesting that he never once apologized to the victims or the family theirs or his own.
never really admitted he did anything wrong.
in his mind
he felt he had the right, to hurt to hit to abuse his family violently and emotionally
in his mind it wasn't rape, he had the right, in his mind he didn't abuse his wife his kid,
he had the right because poor poor him
the two girls he raped,
were handicapped, their families were neigbhours and friends. the ones we know about any way.
evey one tells me i should forgive my father and move on,
how can i forgive some one who never beleived they ever did anything wrong.
i don't know.
you can say whatever you want
but to me its just evil
when you believe you have the right to hurt someone, even your wife your own kid
and he did on a regular basis
but in his warped mind he did, because poor poor him the world so wasn't fare,
and he was horny he had needs. and his needs were more important then anyones
i think its just that simple.
To "sevenofnine": In my professional work, I dealt with many sexual deviants. A significant commonality was in their refusal to address their own problems or even to admit to their crimes. The rehabilitation of sexual deviants, in general, is not normally successful in spite of the huge efforts made on the part of the health professions. Sexual deviancy including, but not limited to, violent rapists and pedophiliacs, seems to be a core property not unlike psychopathy and psychopaths. It is very difficult to comprehend such characteristics for those of us who do possess flaws (everybody else)and occasionally act upon them but are still able to change and also come to clearly recognize our faulty activities and subsequently feel regret and remorse. Because you are grappling with a significant problem in your own personal life, I was hoping that the professional comments I have made would be of some help. Whatever your father did, it had to do with his own core characteristics and nothing to do with you. Not only are you in no way responsible for who he was but none of these core characteristics are inheritable. How they come to arise in certain individuals, such as your father, is not readily understood by the social and psychological sciences.
