I'm a human ... Questions

[Dr_X_man]

I was inspired by a recent situation and experience to start this thread. The idea is we are both humans (men and women). We have feelings, emotions and we do make mistakes. Sometimes there are miscommunications or no chemistry or simply no luck.
Share with us without names critical things to have a better understanding of each other.
I'll share some thoughts from a hobbyist prospective:
Personally I hate pre booked incall appointments specially if I have to bre-book days ahead of time. I like to be instantaneous and spontaneous. That's part of the many reasons I prefer to see MP girls. Also, as I'm evolving in the hobby (more than decade). I'm looking for somethings more than pure measurements or pictures. When I go to MP's I meet the girls and if I do not like what I see or feel no chemistry then I move on.
That does not mean I do not see incall independents but my last two experiences made me feel like an object. Yes men have feelings too.
Please share without names those moments.

 

[popsicle]

I here you. I cannot stand pre-booked calls. A few hours isn't bad but a day or two, forget it.

 

[popsicle]

Pre-booking at a fine restaurant is a great idea. You know your going to be hungry. Booking an sp is
completely different. Men are not in the mood all the time. I might be in the mood today but two or
three days from now. Maybe, maybe not.

 

[the old maxx50]

I don't like pre booking ether , it is about spontaneity.. just like in a relationship .. when sexual desire come over people in relationships they don't plan thing they just act..
That is what i am looking for , if i am horny at some point and make a decision to act on it , then i would like to see some one as soon as possible it is not a mood i am going to keep for many hour or days .. I see regulars for that reason because yes there is some chemistry between us and a desire too see them over and over again.. so i can sutain the mood for a bit .. but still many time it is gone by the time i see them .

That is only human

 

[athaire]

Pre booking.......depends on who it is and how badly I have been wanting to visit her. Usually though I am an agency guy as I tend to a bit more spontaneous.....I usually go for the same day bookings if possible.

 

[dieselman]

Yes men have feelings too......

Oh no no no....no feelings allowed!!!! Your loosing your man perspective

I prebook weeks in advance. Once, even two months in advance, yes my ladies keep their appointments. I mainly only see two right now and I must say it works out very well.


DM

 

[Toon]

I'm new at this any only had two appointments so far. This last one I booked a month in advance. The anticipation leading up to the appointment was great. In retrospect, it was the best past. Got there on schelude and made the call to get the room number, but no answer even after several calls. 1/2 hour later, I finally get a return call. "Sorry - I was in the shower and then couldn't figure out how to get my messages". okay.... Go upstairs and smelled THC. hmmm... It's 11:00am for crying out loud. Stepping over the laundry and misc stuff all over the floor. Bed was open and not neat. hm.... Anyway. cute enough, but at this point, I'm not getting a good vibe.

Anyway.. you don't need the rest of the story; suffice to say we never really seemed to click. I don't think I got my money's worth. Super cute girl and I'd like to try again, but I don't know.

My other was only booked about 1 day in advance. She and I clicked and I had a great time. Giggling to myself all the way home.

 

[TheEmpress]

I was inspired by a recent situation and experience to start this thread. The idea is we are both humans (men and women). We have feelings, emotions and we do make mistakes. Sometimes there are miscommunications or no chemistry or simply no luck.
Share with us without names critical things to have a better understanding of each other.
I'll share some thoughts from a hobbyist prospective:
Personally I hate pre booked incall appointments specially if I have to bre-book days ahead of time. I like to be instantaneous and spontaneous. That's part of the many reasons I prefer to see MP girls. Also, as I'm evolving in the hobby (more than decade). I'm looking for somethings more than pure measurements or pictures. When I go to MP's I meet the girls and if I do not like what I see or feel no chemistry then I move on.
That does not mean I do not see incall independents but my last two experiences made me feel like an object. Yes men have feelings too.
Please share without names those moments.

Is it more about the newness of the lady in question and that first time chemistry feel? I would imagine for long time hobbyist that there would be many Sp's who would welcome a regular client, and perhaps make accommodations for one such as yourself. I'm sure that more than few of the lovely ladies in red on this board, might be able to give some suggestions, and find a better experience for you than the last two. Although if not booking in advance you might take the chance the lady be unavailable. Happy hunting

 

[luvsdaty]

Feelings???? Maybe if the ex smacked up my 65 mustang. Or if she says we need to talk during game 7 in overtime of the Stanley Cup playoffs. Other than that i'm not thinking about much of (or feeling) anything.Oh don't care much for pre bookings either, unless its someone that i really like & there usually hard to get a hold of.

 

[Dr_X_man]

You all had good valid points. I was trying to ask what makes you feel like an object? I'll give another example (without names as I think I got it sorted out). I call and book an appointment. I was told to wait in a specific location which I thought is a walking distance. 15minutes before appointment I call and I get the voice mail. Keep in mind I drove for hours in this freezing temperature. I call dozens of times without an answer and I leave a message that I'll call back. Just in case we are calling each other at the same time. I finally few minutes before appointment get through. She gives me detailed info. I ask while walking in this freezing temp am I late and she says a bit....I find with the details that she gave me it's block of walking so I decide to drive a bit closer....it's downtown with lots of traffic lights and to do the simplist task...it just takes time...I look at time and I'm getting nervous ....finally I park then walk to find that the building has more than one gate and that this gate is the wrong one...I walk around the building then finally I'm in front of the gate I call and she gives me the buzz number....I try the buzzer and it gets me a voice mail...call again then was successfull I look at my watch I'm 15:20 min late. She buzzes me in saying come up ...I thought from the numbers she is in the 1st floor, I take the elevator to the 1st floor but I can not find the appartment number the building is huge...anyway at that point I was frustrated...I think I lost almost half an hour ... she has never shown any concern or appreciation
The whole point is there times when men feel like an object too.

 

[Dr_X_man]

I am sorry to hear of your experiences...maybe more communication may help, Don't let negative steer you from independant SP;s there are some wonderful ladies out there you just have to research and find out. If one strikes your interest and you like her reviews try sending a PM to reviewer to get more insight. Any good SP should be more than willing to answer all your questions and give you decent directions.
Yes you pooners do have feelings and we understand that. At least I do, hope things look up in your world. .

Thanks, do not worry about me. I find my way one way or the other even that story I shared. She called me few minutes to tell me that I'm blacklisted. I apologized for the miscommunications and she hung up on me. Few days later "while she is not angery and I am not angery" I spoke to her and explained it all. She understands, now.
The point of this thread is for both boys and girls to share their thoughts and open up. My stories were just examples.

 

[jnewton]

The whole point is there times when men feel like an object too.

I suspect it is sometimes easy for the women involved in this biz to feel like men only think with their little head and don't really give a crap about anything other than satisfying a physical need. Although that may be true for some fraction of the guys, it certainly isn't for all of us. A little bit of emotional kindness and willingness to put yourself in the other persons shoes (or stilleto's) would go a very long way in making everyone feel less like an object and more like a human simply trying to fulfill basic human needs, whether physical, emotional, or both.

Yes you pooners do have feelings and we understand that. At least I do, hope things look up in your world. .

Yes Angie, you "get it" and it shows in your online persona.

 

[Dr_X_man]

So the question is what objectifies things for both boys and girls?