If you're married... Does seeing an SP constitute "cheating"?

[MisterMR]

I know this topic has probably been debated at length already, but I'd like to know what everyone thinks.

 

[Bad Santa]

I know this topic has probably been debated at length already, but I'd like to know what everyone thinks.

Only if your wife finds out dude!

 

[jdtipper]

yeah ask your wife what she thinks.

but she'll probably ask if her fucking the neighbours constitutes cheating too

 

[HankQuinlan]

The only opinion that would matter is what your wife thinks. If she is open-minded about such things and gives permission, then it is not "cheating." Otherwise, yes it is. Of course, cheating might be excusable depending on your situation.

 

[Papa Chongo]

I am!, and of course it does!

give your head a shake!

 

[storm rider]

I went through this debate on CAF...and some guys were of the opinion that getting a BJ from an SP was not cheating because their wives would not give them BJ's....pretty fucking lame excuse if you ask me.

Straight up....if you are married....and you do not have the expressed OK from your SO...then you are cheating...it matter not if it is an affair with a co-worker/random encounter/paying an SP....you are cheating plain and simple.

Fortunatly in Canada we have no fault divorce...meaning that a guy cant get hung out to dry because he got caught cheating....said guy will still split ALL marital properties 50/50 and of course be liable for child support if applicable.

SR

 

[LittleAsianGuy]

Wouldnt be cheating if your wife knew about it. Go ask her if you can pump a prostitute/escort and if you get her blessing then go for it!

 

[garfieldbd]

If you promised to be faithful and monogamous than any sexual activity with intent (excluding a hug) is cheating. SP's do count. Let me ask you this. How would you feel if your wife hired me to come over for an hour? Would you mind me face buried between her legs, my tongue in her pussy? Would you mind her riding my disco stick? Would that be cheating? LOL. Yeah, I bet it would be.

PS. If you're cool with this, send her on over. Bacardi Dark rum too please.

I'm sending my wife over to you right now.... if you figure out how to get past 1st base without begging, PM me and let me know. So far begging is about the only thing that gets results.

 

[whatisthis]

regardless of her or him being a SP
its cheating.
u shud be loyal to ur wife or hubby
if your sex life is gay or boring you both should talk and improve and work on it - remember you cannot make ur sex life heaven in one night or one session. shes ur wife man
dont u love her?

 

[MisterMR]

I'd either watch or join in the fun LOL.

I'm with ya, dood. Ditto.

 

[HubbaHubba]

Hmmmmm.....

One really has to wonder about the thread starters smarts if he thinks this is a legitimate question.

***shaking head***

This is usually a good time to use the standard line....Get your head out of your hunsperger (yes I see your back)

 

[Krustee]

One really has to wonder about the thread starters smarts if he thinks this is a legitimate question.

***shaking head***

This is usually a good time to use the standard line....Get your head out of your hunsperger (yes I see your back)

JEEEEEZUS KRIST!!!


I was thinkin the same thing.


Here is a standard wedding vow of which about 80% of the people in North America say during their wedding ceremony:

Wedding Vows
Male

I your unfaithful husband to be, take you a completely duped bitch, to be my wedded wife. To have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness or in health, to love and to cherish 'till death do us part. And hereto I pledge you my faithfulness.


Female

I, completely duped, take you a smarmy cheating unfaithful scumbag, to be my wedded husband. To have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, 'till death do us part. And hereto I pledge you my faithfulness.

I looked at about 30 wedding vows on the internet & not in any of them does the guy pledge to be unfaithful to his bride/wife.


SO - I gotta ask the OP -
What the fuck were you thinking?

 

[Krustee]

Wow, looked what strolled into PERB. Must be Parole day with Fred Zed & the rest of the mods. First it's "Methodman" then it's "douche bag", oops sorry I meant to say Krustee/Mr O. I mean for real mutherfucker, doesn't the world wanna fuck you in your eyes. Go find another forum to fuck up with your cancer asshole. Lemme know if you have a problem with my posts...I'll PM you my phone & address and you can come on over and tell me what a dickhead I am douche bag.

Check your mail Dumb Ass!

 

[FloridaGuy]

Don't be ridiculous. Women's lives are ruled by emotion. So, they don't consider sex with someone else to be cheating unless there is an emotional meaning to the act. Simply tell your wife that you don't have any feelings towards the SP you had sex with, that it was purely physical, and she won't have any problems with it.

 

[Krustee]

Awww. A tough mutherfucker huh? 403.719.3072 Waiting on your call douche bag.

A Shaw number from Edmonton AB huh?

Yeah - I'll be right over.

Just take another cock up yer ass while you wait for me.

Or give your partner another BJ?

 

[bigfred]

Don't be ridiculous. Women's lives are ruled by emotion. So, they don't consider sex with someone else to be cheating unless there is an emotional meaning to the act. Simply tell your wife that you don't have any feelings towards the SP you had sex with, that it was purely physical, and she won't have any problems with it.

Uh huh. Hang on to that thought as long as you can.

 

[Krustee]

Mr Tough Guy. No douchebag. 403 is in Calgary. You'll find me at 4th and 17th Ave. My phone ain't ringing nigga? Krustee the clown. Talking out his ass. RING RING RING.

Tell ya what little man -
pay for me to fly out & I'll happily give ya an attitude adjustment.

Otherwise -
go blow another sailor you disease infested gaper.



btw - that came up as an unused #
Chicken shit ain't ya?

 

[Krustee]

and don't give me not shit bitch in PM's. You wanna talk shit in public well I'm waiting. My PHONE still ain't ringing. Do you THINK I give a fuck nigga? I'll post my address and you can come over and talk shit about SP's to me. So let's start talking.

Have another drink -
take another dink
& I'll mosey on over.

Ring Ring!

I bet you were a bitch in jail weren't you?

C - block 'Bike' - everybody had a ride!

 

[postiepete]

What a fucking cock sucker you are asshole. My phone aint ringing. You wanna fire off yoru mouth well mutherfucker I'mma shut YOUR ass down. Come on over. And before you come get to the gym bitch. So I'm W A I T I N G on our call. I don't hear my PHONE ringing.

I am sure your phone will start ringing soon from ALL the IDIOTS off the internet.

 

[postiepete]

I know a person can get banned for posting personal info but i wonder if you can for posting your own info?