I myself would head to Japan or Korea as I am most attracted to those women there. Perhaps its the Korean SPs I've seen or Japanese Porn I watch :eyebrows:. Vietnamese is nice, some of the nicest women I ever meet were Vietnamese, just stay away from those that hang out at Casinos. And lastly my advice as a Chinese guy is never think about going to Hong Kong for a wife, they are considered to be the ugliest in all of Asia. They are all sterotypes I know.
If you were to go to Asia to find a wife where would you go?
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Haha! No money no talk, eh?
Very realistic. That's why those words to them like sing lui, kong lui, etc. :nod:If you're conservative sexually, go for Korean.
If you've got a kinky streak, go for Japanese - more likely than Korean for sexual adventure.
If you want to avoid an Asian woman who might be infatuated with Caucasians, avoid Japanese.
If you want a girl who will treat you like a king, and prefers to stay in her role, go for either Japanese or Korean.
If you want one who will take over for you if you can't handle things, go for Chinese.
Japanese girl will sacrifice everything including herself to make you happy - her life will be centered around you even at the expense of her family.
Korean girl will sacrifice everything including herself to make her family happy - her life will be centered around the family even at the expense of you.
The one to most likely cheat are Chinese.
The most ambitious one is the Chinese and the Vietnamese.
If you've got a kinky streak, go for Japanese - more likely than Korean for sexual adventure.
If you want to avoid an Asian woman who might be infatuated with Caucasians, avoid Japanese.
If you want a girl who will treat you like a king, and prefers to stay in her role, go for either Japanese or Korean.
If you want one who will take over for you if you can't handle things, go for Chinese.
Japanese girl will sacrifice everything including herself to make you happy - her life will be centered around you even at the expense of her family.
Korean girl will sacrifice everything including herself to make her family happy - her life will be centered around the family even at the expense of you.
The one to most likely cheat are Chinese.
The most ambitious one is the Chinese and the Vietnamese.
This thread sounds a bit trollish, but I'll bite...
How are you planning on finding this wife. In a bar? On a website?
Let's leave culture differences out of it. When you are paying for a service, you get a nice submissive provider who supplies your every need, because you are paying for it. There's no difference whether it is here or Asia.
Transform that relationship into a real girlfriend or wife, and you now have the same relationship issues that any couple have - compatibility, background, expectations, spend vs. save, etc.
Are you planning on bringing the future wife here? Can she handle being in a community with no friends? Are you planning on moving there? Can you take it there?
Then bring cultural differences into it. We have a nuclear family view. Husband, wife, a couple of kids, dog, cat. Depending upon the culture, her view maybe that she is part of a large family, and you are to be absorbed. You may be expected to support a lot more than just you and her, both financially and also with your time. You may have much less privacy. Some people embrace that culture. Others want the Canadian style single family unit cocoon.
There are many success stories, but also some dramatic failures. The successes come from people who have spent time in their targeted culture, learnt the language, and gone into things with eyes wide open.
How are you planning on finding this wife. In a bar? On a website?
Let's leave culture differences out of it. When you are paying for a service, you get a nice submissive provider who supplies your every need, because you are paying for it. There's no difference whether it is here or Asia.
Transform that relationship into a real girlfriend or wife, and you now have the same relationship issues that any couple have - compatibility, background, expectations, spend vs. save, etc.
Are you planning on bringing the future wife here? Can she handle being in a community with no friends? Are you planning on moving there? Can you take it there?
Then bring cultural differences into it. We have a nuclear family view. Husband, wife, a couple of kids, dog, cat. Depending upon the culture, her view maybe that she is part of a large family, and you are to be absorbed. You may be expected to support a lot more than just you and her, both financially and also with your time. You may have much less privacy. Some people embrace that culture. Others want the Canadian style single family unit cocoon.
There are many success stories, but also some dramatic failures. The successes come from people who have spent time in their targeted culture, learnt the language, and gone into things with eyes wide open.
Stereotypes are a survival mechanism that has served us well over the millenia. Fight or flight. When faced with danger, the brain doesn't sort through billions of pieces of data, it efficiently notes patterns, and draws quick conclusions based upon a very quick view of the data.
Sometimes it gets it wrong, but most of the time stereotypes help us.
Ethnic restaurants filled with white faces are usually not authentic
Beer that relies on sexy ads to sell is usually not real beer
Service industries with unionized staff, give lousy service
When faced with the leisurely task of picking a life partner however, it might be advised not to use the mechanism best suited for ordering us to run from three hooded figures in a dark alley.
Stereotypes can be offensive also. I don't imagine Chinese board members appreciated:
Sometimes it gets it wrong, but most of the time stereotypes help us.
Ethnic restaurants filled with white faces are usually not authentic
Beer that relies on sexy ads to sell is usually not real beer
Service industries with unionized staff, give lousy service
When faced with the leisurely task of picking a life partner however, it might be advised not to use the mechanism best suited for ordering us to run from three hooded figures in a dark alley.
Stereotypes can be offensive also. I don't imagine Chinese board members appreciated:
Yes they sure can be offensive, but they can also be useful provided it is right - and being a stereotype, the thing that trumps it is the individual. I always write assuming intelligent persons are reading. Therefore I write nuanced things, not things aimed at people who jump to conclusions, or jump to politically correct garbage without thinking, etc. Otherwise I would have to write to the lowest common denominator - and that's a shame for those who do because it never raises the level of understanding beyond the utter basic.
I said "likely" for a reason - in my experience, and also because I know something about the culture. It's like saying a Westerner is more likely to cheat than a Muslim.
Oh yeah, just as that would decrease cheating in Muslim countries, constant images of sex in Western society would lead to more cheating in the opposite extreme.
Something about how sex is treated in Chinese culture does lend women greater risk to cheating. The reasons are subtle and complex, and until people stop crying like babies at the very idea that this is suggested, I won't bother wasting my time explaining.
Even assuming you are right, it would be a shame if Honda ruled out a billion people (well half a billion if he's hetero), based upon a possibly inaccurate assumption.
Then again, they may tap into a stereotype of their own based upon the name Honda...
So that includes females aged 0 to 16, as well as those aged 65 and up? Wow, would hate to exclude them from possible wifedom!
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Choices in Asia.. Thailand, Viet Nam, Japan
Cambodian women are pretty hot too.
Japanese might be the best... Thai and Vietnamese women are so beautiful but the Japanese woman would probably be able to be more subtle about being motivated by money.
Bangkok or Hongcouver.
Bangkok...as it is the only city in Asia i am familiar with & Thai law does not know alimony, so one can change wives w/o financial ruin.
Hongcouver, already seems to be 50% Asian & soon to be 90%, with E. Indians, Chinese, Korean, Vietnamese & PI galore, from 4' midgets to 6' and up, speakie no Engli or fluent w/o any accent, take your choice in a wife, in the greatest city in the world.
Exactly! Why leave when half the city is Asian already?
Let me guess you want one that is submissive and as soon as you bring them over to Canada they change.
Just go to a local MP or micro and get a wife out of there. She's probably saved some bucks, you get to try her out no strings attached, and she knows how to make a man happy sexually. You could probably score a young Korean ESL student at the right micro... And she b probably comes from poor stock in Korea if she's doing this to make money, you'd be a big hero.
To the international terminal at the airport, while concentrating my search near to flights headed to the western hemisphere.
