If you give you number out to someone

[bcneil]

You said she works near your home. Are you going to move too?

 

[87112]

No problem everyone, I put myself out there at least for a bit and could not take the punches.
So at this rate it will be 2020 before I try again.
Thanks everyone for the comments.

 

[Larry Storch]

honda...do you know why I poon? No of course you don't. I poon because I got burned really bad in a previous relationship. But even before the relationship I always had trouble approaching women, too long of a story to go into here. I've had women express an interest in me and I've made a point of not reciprocating. Big mistake. Too many regrets and what-ifs. You're quite a ways ahead of me in the fact that you gave someone your number. You know where she is, maybe go see her and tell her you had to change your number for "what ever reason". Ask her if she tried to text/call you. If she says no, it's gonna sting; but you'll live. At least you'll know. If she says yes, then. . . Holy Crap, Dude! YES!

And if anyone wants to take a shot at me for this post, go for it. I've had Dommes do things to me that would keep you awake nights. . . . and came back for more.

 

[Cami Parker]

I would never take a mans number, unless I wasn't interested and wanted to get rid of him. If I like a man, I give him my number because I want his inner hunter to pursue me.
That's just me though, and I'm old fashioned.
Sorry honey...
Your favorite SP will ALWAYS call you back! xx

 

[Cami Parker]

No disrespect to Rick, but please don't do this Honda. I promise you, from a woman's perspective, it's a very bad idea...

I would drop into work and just ask if she lost your number or something like that. She might have been busy or something unexpected came up. The worst you'll get is a no.

 

[Cami Parker]

That's really sweet of you.
Nothing more attractive than a genuinely nice guy. :thumb:

back off...honda was sincere and open about the situation
if you want to take a sucker punch....do it on the street...see how that goes

 

[87112]

I would never take a mans number, unless I wasn't interested and wanted to get rid of him. If I like a man, I give him my number because I want his inner hunter to pursue me.
That's just me though, and I'm old fashioned.
Sorry honey...
Your favorite SP will ALWAYS call you back! xx

She is Vietnamese. She is probably 27-28 yo and in her culture the men ask for the number and call. So that's a mistake on my part. Not sure if Western women do the calling/texting 1st. Why is it so hard to just ask " what to go play some tennis sometime?" without all these rules!