After being seriously freaked out by waiting outside a door hanging out looking suspicious as fuck, and after running into an SP literally the next morning at a coffee shop, I made some rules that so far years later have worked.
- discrete entrance and if not I wait no more than 10 maybe 15 minutes - in my car.
- 10 to 30. 10min closest and that's a main drag drive plus side streets, 30-ish min furthest. Some exceptions but not many.
- If I had an appointment with a new SP, and the address was in my immediate neighbourhood I'd have to think about it but probably would go and make it a one time gig. After all don't we all look the same with our pants off
Anyway that post about don't shit where you live is sage advice on this particular topic in particular if you are in an SO relationship.
- discrete entrance and if not I wait no more than 10 maybe 15 minutes - in my car.
- 10 to 30. 10min closest and that's a main drag drive plus side streets, 30-ish min furthest. Some exceptions but not many.
- If I had an appointment with a new SP, and the address was in my immediate neighbourhood I'd have to think about it but probably would go and make it a one time gig. After all don't we all look the same with our pants off
Anyway that post about don't shit where you live is sage advice on this particular topic in particular if you are in an SO relationship.





