Idle Curiosity, or...?

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

I wanted to share something with the community at large, because this is something that's been on my mind since I woke up at 6:30. I should never look at my email before my first cup of coffee, but I did. There was only one email in my work inbox, but it was short sweet & to the point. All it said was "Aren't you (Real Name)?".

It got me wondering. What was the purpose of this email? To shake me up? To freak me out? Idle curiosity? A burning desire to fuck with me, or just to fuck me...I'd like to hear your thoughts. I'm feeling just a little bit violated by it all...

 

[SteamedCarrotInMyAss]

Reeks of suspect intentions. If I had recognized someone on this site or other similar sites, I would have at most chuckled a bit to myself and moved on. I'd be nervous this person thinks they have some sort of leverage.

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

Looking back in my email history, I see that this individual also contacted me about seeing me in July & we exchanged several emails. I will be reporting the email address to the moderators here.

 

[Equity Market investor]

The real question is, how did this person find you out? If its someone you know, then this person has similar interests. If this person doesn't ......then to me, that could be potential " stalking " ? Very creepy :crazy:

Are you outed on the Dirty.com ? That site is known for outing peoples name.

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

The real question is, how did this person find you out? If its someone you know, then this person has similar interests. If this person doesn't ......then to me, that could be potential " stalking " ? Very creepy :crazy:

Are you outed on the... site is known for outing peoples name.

FTFY

I am not named there, no...

 

[Dick Ford]

That's a totally creepy and dick move which reeks of bad intentions. I mean, why else email you? Unless he's just giddy that he knows your secret identity, but I think there would've been more to that email if so. It's tough to say with so little to go on, though.

What a shitty way to start your day. Erica. You must be frazzled. I sure hope I'm wrong and it turns out to be nothing. I'll be sending positive vibes your way today.

 

[here4fun]

Most likely harmless, probably thinks he is being cute or clever. As opposed to a creepy troll. It is sometime fairly easy to find out someones real name, even when you are not overtly looking.

I would not worry about, just keep an eye on future correspondence from him

 

[girth-brooks]

I would delete it and forget about it.

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

Not worried so much as 'unsettled'...

 

[Dick Ford]

Sounds like a disgruntled punter flexing his puny muscles. Most likely he's harmless, like most bullies. Let's hope this is the end of it.

 

[resercher]

I would delete it and forget about it.

Agree with what girth brooks said . would not worry about it to much Most likely the person / most likely male . Somehow found out your real name off of another Website or whatever . My guess is that they think by telling you that they know your real name. You will then ask how they found out and you will be so happy. For them for giving you this information that because" in there mind "They are the Olney person who knows this "special" information . Outside of your immediate family and personal friends . After they tell you about where they got the information they think you will form some type of bond with them and Get use of your services for free . Anybody who has the time to try to find out the real name of an escort .Spends way to much time on the internet and is not that much of a threat.
The Olney way to prevent it. Would have been to decide in high school that you are not going to get any pictures of yourself taken ever .That would end up on the internet. or say anything about your personal life ever.
it would be rather difficult to do this.

If for example your company volunteers for habitat for humanity and the boss wants you to get your pictures in the paper. You very well would not want to say could I not get my pictures taken I do not want my escort clients to know my real name .


In summery this person is most likely not dangerous. Probably does not live near you . The Olney thing they may know about you is your real name . The reason for that would be you posting an aswer to the email in this thread. Do not worry about it.

If you have pictures in the newspaper of you volunteering for habitat I swear I have never seen them and it is just a coincidence.

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

I'm not entirely understanding why you are so concerned Erica.

If you had several email before with him and feel there is a creepiness factor then by all means take some precautionary steps however if he might just have said the wrong thing by accident and it's being taken out of context; maybe jusy warn him this is not cool and he's crossed a boundary.

Not knowing the person you're speaking with makes it near impossible for us to speculate what his intentions are. You know of course that guys 'think' much different than women so it's more likely he isn't tryoing to fuck with you in a negative or scary way. H'es just saying hey I know your real name and this email gives us an opportunity to talka bout it and have a conversation. He possibly does not understand or know that what he said has raised a serious concern or startled you.

He contacted me on July 11, 2016 from the same address. He asked about details of my anatomy about which he had heard great things (in great detail). For some reason (I can't quite recall), my final message to him was "Unfortunately I am no longer available today due to a situation that has arisen at home I must take care of." Some tingly spidey sense? I don't remember, but it feels like maybe that was it. I heard nothing further from him, as far as I can tell, until this morning at 3 am. To receive an email exactly 60 days later from the same address no longer seems quite so trivial or harmless. Why am I so concerned??? In a word, SAFETY. Not mine, necessarily.

If it was a casual inexperienced pooner mistake, it's a whopper.

 

[Cock Throppled]

Sounds like someone trying to fuck with you (not in the good way).

Do not respond to any further communication.

 

[newgirll]

creeper be safe girly always be on the side of caution

 

[clu]

A friend who was a stripper has run into people she knows while working. If they went "X, is that you?" it was invariably accompanied by "it's me, Y, from high school" or whatever. Point is if the guy is identifying you without giving any indication how he knows you (or perhaps even who he is) that's by no means casual or innocent. That's a power play.

 

[sevenofnine]

I don't think you can be to cautious.
most people are harmless when all is said and done, but just the same they can give you a big head ache, and a lot of fucking worry,

who ever it is when they cross over the line, your done with them, ignore them but document everything. I mean everything,
you can actually sue them latter or threaten to, should they themselves have something to loose or hide.

if he knows who you are, you should make an effort to know who he is.
an sp I know did in fact sue some one who was harassing her. as it turned out he had a lot to loose.
and he paid up.
people are just fucking stupid.

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

Your face is out there for all to see, it's not a stretch that plenty of people know who you are. He doesn't know you but may have found out who you are, for some geeky Tard playing with his PC it's likely his cheap thrill for the day and by contacting you this way he got another cheap thrill. Woo hoo, now he wants his brownie points as well, just flick the gnat off your shoulder and don't worry about it reacting to him will in only encourage him go for more. Some people just have no Life!

You're right. I am not ashamed of what I do; it's why I made a conscious decision to show my face in my pictures. My concern is what he intends to do with that information.

 

[Atticus]

If you find out who he is you can probably do more damage to him than he can to you. He is likely a little twerp who can be easily intimidated.

 

[Boobfetish]

I think you are right to be concerned. Not freaked out hopefully, but concerned for sure... and yes, at least document it, and if possible, do some casual digging to figure out who he is, as sevenofnine suggested. Not so much for retribution just for your safety.

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

A friend who was a stripper has run into people she knows while working. If they went "X, is that you?" it was invariably accompanied by "it's me, Y, from high school" or whatever. Point is if the guy is identifying you without giving any indication how he knows you (or perhaps even who he is) that's by no means casual or innocent. That's a power play.

Thank you. I appreciate the support.