Ideal Age of SP or Client?

[thodisipagal]

Remember too, that just because someone is above the industry average doesn't mean she's been in the industry since Jeebus left Moose Jaw! I advertise now as '49 & holding': anyone that is seeking my true age can find it on my PERB profile. I didn't start working as an escort until I was 47: it will be 4 years next month! As for client age: I like my clients slightly older than their teeth & slightly younger than their hair! (But prefer women younger than me! ;D)

That's what I call the best of both worlds: the experience, maturity and character of a "49 & holding" and an attractive persona with a pretty face and a hot body (just look at those pics).

 

[thodisipagal]

I changed my mind I love men 40+

Anna, Anna, Anna... I just heaved a sigh of relief. Thought pretty ladies went for younger guys. So glad you like more mature guys. Thank you.

BTW, been a while, but I know you don't know me by this handle.

 

[Sibar]

Cause I had the most wonderful 40 year old EVER hahaha I've never been treated so amazing!!!

Sounds like a challenge for rest of us guys over 40.:eyebrows:

 

[yasmine]

I appreciate you making the exception for me. Might I add ..... we are all the same length laying down.

Agree with you there.. I was more thinking of Vancitygfs. Would I go to CL or BP? for a 19? NO WAY!

Also, if were to book longer then 1 hour, I'll be leaning more towards late 20's and over. Another deal breaker for me, shorter the better. Then again if I had Yasmine (5 foot 9?), I wouldn't say no to her.

 

[AnnaSteel]

I should post a review... Hahaha but I won't.. ... Hey I put 40+!!!! And I love older men they always appreciate and enjoy... Where as I do as well

 

[Aellyn Rose]

Interesting thread... I agree with Claire. Maturity, life experience, chivalry and depth are definite turn-ons which would make it more likely that gents 35+ be a good fit. It is an all the more pleasant surprise when a 20 yo man displays those traits, and a shock when a 55 yo doesn't.

I love that the Vancouver scene appreciates and celebrates women at all stages of life - especially 35+. I haven't seen it much in other communities.

 

[FreeG]

Tho I'm not super picky on age, I overall prefer time with someone at least in their late-20's, and often have better connections with SPs in their 30's or 40's, someone who has seen the world, if often more professional, and can better relate to my challenges & trials. Not that an early 20's person can't be a good conversationalist, but I find it easier to connect with someone closer to my age.

Tho I do sometimes act like I'm in my teens or early 20's....

 

[Kamloopsbc]

24 to 38 for me.....so advertising as 19 to 27 :thumb: Before the hate mail starts I am joking on the advertised age part.

 

[voodooking]

I am down with this too.

I will no longer " age discriminate " when it comes to booking an SP.

20-40+
doesn't matter really, so long as she looks good to me.

 

[MrBrown]

I'm in my mid 40s and gravitate to SPs in their late 20s / early 30s since they are typically confident and take initiative, experienced and know what they want.
It's hard to find the unicorn:
- Good looking
- Low volume
- Independent
- Service oriented: value the client's time and understand that the client is paying a non trivial amount.
- Under $300/hr.

 

[rlock]

Sure, there's biological reasons why youth is attractive, but I can get turned on by any attractive girl / woman from 18-50. The number means very little compared to how sexy she is, and what I find attractive is variable. A healthy well-maintained 40 year old MILF is often better than a sketchy 20 year old.

 

[Ed69]

I keep my search criteria set at 19-21, figuring they're more like 21-26 in reality. Makes things difficult, as there aren't many girls to choose from in this age range.

Most guys don't seem to be as fixated on youth as I am though.

 

[badbadboy]

I prefer women that are mature and highly intelligent, likely in the mid-30's to late 40's

My experience with women under 25 has generally been poor (with a couple of amazing exceptions who were wise beyond their years ). Therefore, I will usually do a ton of due diligence now on anyone under 30 before taking the plunge. Most often i do not.

Sorry to generalize but, to me, it increasingly seems that under 25 there is a strong correlation between being very pretty and being a disappointing SP (likely because they are too self-aborbed, entitled and fawned on their whole life to be client-centred).

These young women might make good fashion models, but they likely make terrible SP's. (in my opinion...unless you're attracted to plastic dolls).

Older women are more experienced, have lived their lives, have likely faced challenges, and therefore i find them more appealing and interesting. That life experience makes them more opinionated, more intuitive, better able to adapt to what their client is thinking/wanting/needing. Younger girls don't seem to have a clue.

Moreover, given how health conscious ladies in this business seem to be now, most of the mature women I've met in the 35-50 range stay in great shape, look amazing, are youthful, sexy and (likely a reason why they are still SP's) they love sex and it shows). For example, Catherine James is an amazing SP. Beautiful, smart, sexy, intuitive but very athletic, health-conscious and in great shape. She puts 20-year olds to shame....and likely will for many years to come.

Give me that over some pampered teenager who's been worshipped all her life for being pretty, but doesn't have a thought in her head...yet. (with no disrespect meant to Celina Rai or Scarlette Rose - you girls are incredible and the exception that proves the rule)

Although I respect your opinion on your own choices it's important to note a lot of the 20 something ladies are highly educated having completed degrees, Masters etc and can go toe to toe in any discussion one may wish to offer. The generalizations are not necessarily correct because I have encountered some 30 - 40 yr old SP's who would not be in the same league conversationally as the 20 somethings I have met.

SP's such as Blonde Brynn (mid 20's) comes to mind (not sure if she has retired or ?)who has a wide area of knowledge about social justice, wines, Asian cultures etc etc. She is off completing her education now.

Talisha Cruze (25 +) completing a Masters and has five languages she speaks fluently as an example.

The list goes on with several I have met who are working to put themselves through Masters etc .

Although Celina is mid 20's and Scarlette is early 20's; I wouldn't refer to them as girls. Awesome women perhaps but definitely not girls

 

[badbadboy]

Point taken Lance and IMHO it's really the old YMMV scenario.

You have great success with the demographic you enjoy and I have my own too.

We both have our own successes that make this an enjoyable hobby.

I will say personally, I have on one occasion only met a young SP who was the conceited type as you have described. Chalk that one up to my own inexperience back in the 2009 era. Luckily, I am older and wiser now

Cheers