I wish I had the chance to be abused by a teacher that looks like this ...

[Tugela]

It is natural for a young boy/man to have the desire to have a positive sexual experience and relationship with someone who is attractive and interesting and who knows what they are doing.

Emphasis on the word "positive".

A positive experience and relationship with a teacher is unlikely, because of the power/authority relationship and the fact that a teacher who lets themselves get involved in such a relationship has some real problems with boundaries.

Emphasis on the word "unlikely".

There are a couple of teachers in my past who 1) I was really attracted to when quite young, and 2) who I became friends with when I became older. I am sure that they would have treated me very well if we had entered into a sexual relationship early on, just as I am sure there was no way in hell that they would have been so selfish as to enter into that early relationship.

Boys are boys, and that age they want to bang anything that moves, if they can catch it. Most of the people who get really uptight about this sort of thing (with boys) are women. I think the average man understands because they have been there themselves as youths, so they think it is no big deal.

I remember when I was at school there were a number of younger teachers who I am pretty sure every straight guy in class would have jumped at the chance of sex with if they got the slightest opportunity.

All this stuff about "damage" is strictly a girl thing. Boys do not have that experience. Actually, I'm pretty sure that girls don't either, but people like to think they do because they are supposed to be pure and unsullied. And if they are not, the guilt is laid on pretty heavily. The "damage" is really the fallout from when society finds out about it, not the act itself.

 

[clu]

All this stuff about "damage" is strictly a girl thing. Boys do not have that experience. Actually, I'm pretty sure that girls don't either, but people like to think they do because they are supposed to be pure and unsullied. And if they are not, the guilt is laid on pretty heavily. The "damage" is really the fallout from when society finds out about it, not the act itself.

I'd suggest it's more an age/maturity/power thing. I have a male friend who performed sexual acts at the command of his female babysitter. He was disturbed by the experience. He lamented how other guys he told (when older) would only give him "lucky bastard" kind of responses. Obviously he was younger than this guy.

I have a female friend who was wooed by a 20-something when she was 14. She thought he was awesome at the time when she was 14. Now she just thinks he was pathetic that he needed to find a 14-year-old so that he could be admired as the big mature man, she presumes because it was too hard for him to impress women his own age.