Luxxxe Affaire

I poon because...

hectic

New member
Jul 19, 2016
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why do you guys see SPs? whats you guys' background are you married, single and not having any luck with the ladies??

im 26, not particularly a stud so i don't pull as often as id like. I always compare my sex life to when I had a girlfriend or FWB, had a sex life and the sex was good. So naturally when that consistent source of sex is not there anymore its too much of a shock to the system. Being single and having an inconsistent sex life is torture and its nice to be able to just be able to drop some coin and be with a hot SP that knows how to please. The $ id spend does not seem too much considering how much you would spend going out, spending your precious time and health getting drunk at clubs and bars, and with a low success rate. After a date with a good SP i feel a sense of clarity and can focus on the really important things in life.

why your guys' story?
 

InTheBum

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Dec 31, 2004
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why do you guys see SPs? whats you guys' background are you married, single and not having any luck with the ladies??

im 26, not particularly a stud so i don't pull as often as id like. I always compare my sex life to when I had a girlfriend or FWB, had a sex life and the sex was good. So naturally when that consistent source of sex is not there anymore its too much of a shock to the system. Being single and having an inconsistent sex life is torture and its nice to be able to just be able to drop some coin and be with a hot SP that knows how to please. The $ id spend does not seem too much considering how much you would spend going out, spending your precious time and health getting drunk at clubs and bars, and with a low success rate. After a date with a good SP i feel a sense of clarity and can focus on the really important things in life.

why your guys' story?
I'd like to know what are those, "really important things in life"????:focus:
 

uncleg

Well-known member
Jul 25, 2006
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why do you guys see SPs? whats you guys' background are you married, single and not having any luck with the ladies??

im 26, not particularly a stud so i don't pull as often as id like. I always compare my sex life to when I had a girlfriend or FWB, had a sex life and the sex was good. So naturally when that consistent source of sex is not there anymore its too much of a shock to the system. Being single and having an inconsistent sex life is torture and its nice to be able to just be able to drop some coin and be with a hot SP that knows how to please. The $ id spend does not seem too much considering how much you would spend going out, spending your precious time and health getting drunk at clubs and bars, and with a low success rate. After a date with a good SP i feel a sense of clarity and can focus on the really important things in life.

why your guys' story?

Son...if you wasn't livin wit yo mommy and daddy...you'd be able to do all the pullin' you want.:pound:
 

johnsmit

Active member
May 4, 2013
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I started seeing escorts
Because I lived in the attic suit of my parents home till I was 51.. never had a girl friend and watch porn.

I was the idea client that escorts are looking for ?
 

six1961xis

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Jan 2, 2013
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because my situation became this...
in my 50's
Split with my GF a few years ago
Busy; no time/funds/energy for hit-and-miss civilian dating.
life's too short to wonder: should I / shouldn't I.
figured I would regret not doing it
so took the plunge; glad I did.
 

Randyonefouru

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Sep 27, 2011
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Because I am a sexaholic. I need to cum daily... I only wish I could afford a SP daily lol... hell even every few weeks! I'm 50 and married. Issue here is that the wife's sex drive since going into full blown menopause is like once a month! The lack of sex on the home front forces me to look elsewhere. Agree with one point that @Aesthetics>all said... "don't catch feelings". If I have an affair, that's what I risk. This is nice and discreet. If I'm careful I don't get caught. Bonus.... damn HOT ladies.... But ya... sexaholic through and through. Can't stop, and don't wanna stop.
 

Lo-ki

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Jul 18, 2011
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Check your closet..:)
Because I can...:)
 

Craftset

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Dec 8, 2010
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Because it's fun, and as sad is it is to say picking up women at bars or clubs has lost it's charm for me. I also hear sex is good for you....so health benefits?
 

poorman

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Dec 11, 2003
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I'm not single. I see it as a hobby. I like to get with different females just like how I enjoy trying different restaurants. At times, I think I should stop doing it just b/c I'm in a relationship. I don't do it that often though just because it is easier to get caught when you're in a relationship
 

Kamloopsbc

Fast is over rated
Jun 19, 2015
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BC Canada
I'm single.
Fell deeply in love twice in my life, and married one of them.
Probably would have married number two if she had lived long enough.
Both died at a young age.
I am now very guarded of my heart.
No way I could lose another lady I love totally and deeply.
But I still like the company of ladies.
And i won't go to some bar or party, and lie to them about how great they are and how i care, just to get laid.
An sp is a great relaxer, nice time with a lady.
But there is no head games and lies.

She is there to do her job and make sure i feel great.
Then she leaves.
Sure we may go grab a coffee or text a bit if they become an acquaintance to.
But they are not going to break my heart.
And i don't have to lie or play some immature bullshit game.
Simple.....screw me silly....then let's have a nice talk and cuddle....heres your cash....text me sometime for a coffee if you wish....or i maybe back sometime.
Thanks and bye.
She can't break my heart if a drunk driver hits her or she flies into the side of a mountain.....likely I would not ever even know.
If I tried to reach her again and got no reply....i would assume she retired or is ignoring me....done deal.
 

Kamloopsbc

Fast is over rated
Jun 19, 2015
183
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BC Canada
If that seems cold to some of you I do apologize.
Not trying to be an asshole.
Just not strong enough to fall in love again , since there is no guarantee that they will come home every night for the rest of my life....instead of me getting a call telling me they died.
 

jamasianman

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Dec 5, 2015
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I poon because I never got into dating and would now but I kinda hate drama and I still have to get over two sexual dysfunctions and finish my bucket list of: asian, latina, threesome and anal
 
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I am 30, married for 4 years + 3.5 years of living common law relationship prior to getting married.

Three Main reasons for me:
1) Minor 7 years itch
2) Feeling sense of lost since my wife tightened her grip on my finance and activities in the past year, though we since reconciled on the activities part.
3) Hearing pooning activities from my long time friend (current roommate) and that ignited me to try other ladies. He has an ATP plus he likes to try various ladies through different channels (Leolist, CL)

I have actually never tried to pick up ladies at clubs. I only dated 3 women (including my wife) in my life and I met them through general social outings or events. In terms of sex life with my wife, I think we are pretty normal and our frequency is average (once or twice a week). I have moved to Victoria for work since last November and most of the time we see each other either when I go back to Van every two/three weeks, or when she comes to visit.

Obviously, I would want this activity to be an NSA affair. I don't think I am similar to a lot of others on this board, which the goal is to go around and try with many ladies. However, I wanted a much more personal, GFE experience right off the bat. I picked a well-reviewed lady and I felt very comfortable with her. I tried another lady and just didn't feel the connection. Therefore, I went back to the first lady I met and I definitely would continue to see her. Mainly I believe I was looking for something to freshen up/spice up my life without making too much commitment.

It feels very refreshing to date with another lady and yet do not have to attach too much emotions.
 

Cami Parker

Beautiful Blonde Dream Girl
Mar 7, 2013
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Vancouver, BC
www.camiparker.ca
I think your reasoning is fantastic. You could surely preach to non-liberated gents about the beauty of partaking.

why do you guys see SPs? whats you guys' background are you married, single and not having any luck with the ladies??

im 26, not particularly a stud so i don't pull as often as id like. I always compare my sex life to when I had a girlfriend or FWB, had a sex life and the sex was good. So naturally when that consistent source of sex is not there anymore its too much of a shock to the system. Being single and having an inconsistent sex life is torture and its nice to be able to just be able to drop some coin and be with a hot SP that knows how to please. The $ id spend does not seem too much considering how much you would spend going out, spending your precious time and health getting drunk at clubs and bars, and with a low success rate. After a date with a good SP i feel a sense of clarity and can focus on the really important things in life.

why your guys' story?
 

Cami Parker

Beautiful Blonde Dream Girl
Mar 7, 2013
2,109
59
63
Vancouver, BC
www.camiparker.ca
That's really beautiful, and much more common than you might think

I'm single.
Fell deeply in love twice in my life, and married one of them.
Probably would have married number two if she had lived long enough.
Both died at a young age.
I am now very guarded of my heart.
No way I could lose another lady I love totally and deeply.
But I still like the company of ladies.
And i won't go to some bar or party, and lie to them about how great they are and how i care, just to get laid.
An sp is a great relaxer, nice time with a lady.
But there is no head games and lies.

She is there to do her job and make sure i feel great.
Then she leaves.
Sure we may go grab a coffee or text a bit if they become an acquaintance to.
But they are not going to break my heart.
And i don't have to lie or play some immature bullshit game.
Simple.....screw me silly....then let's have a nice talk and cuddle....heres your cash....text me sometime for a coffee if you wish....or i maybe back sometime.
Thanks and bye.
She can't break my heart if a drunk driver hits her or she flies into the side of a mountain.....likely I would not ever even know.
If I tried to reach her again and got no reply....i would assume she retired or is ignoring me....done deal.
 

sevenofnine

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Nov 21, 2008
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my child hood was a fucking mess, father in and out of jail

any way got married way to soon for the wrong reason. and had kids before I new it.

but somewhere down the road I realized I was messed up, something missing in my life. I was dysfunctional and desperate for something.
I knew I needed help, even talked to a few shrinks,
but it seemed like it was all about advancing there career or how much money can they soak me for, or in their opinion they were the best thing in the world and I so needed them. any way it just didn't feel right.

and some point my wife said were not going to have sex again, and I thought good for you but not me,

I met the lady I still see in this, she was my second adventure and I saw her lots because I needed to for me,
not many people will understand that, but she was good for me, we talked lots and had sex. I needed her, was desperate for her.
in many ways she saved me, because I was headed down the wrong road. no one will understand that.
but I feel its true.

I still she her now, saw her yesterday, as a matter of fact, not at all any more because I need to, but because I want to.
were friends, vacation together etc etc,
and yes I paid her, but almost didn't was out the door and to my car, and went back and paid her, she never asked never mentioned it only shrugged,

we have been together to long and laughed and cried together to let something come between us as silly as paper.
we all need money to live
but there are more important things,
 
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