I need your advice, Ladies and Men

[Feenix]

I would like both men and women to weigh in on this one. This is similar to, but not the same as, a recent post about recognizing an SP on the street.

I am a member of a fairly large business group that meets on a regular basis. One of the members of the group is a cute Asian female who I think I recognize as a well known SP. I am just about 100% certain that it is her. The eye contact over the last few meetings has been pretty intense and erotic.

I sat beside her at a recent meeting, but was reluctant to make the connection at that time. It is driving me crazy, as I would love to see her as an SP.

How should I, if I should at all, make the connection, and even ask her for an SP date? Ladies, if it was you, what would you want me to do?

Your comments please. Thx,

 

[FortunateOne]

I would suggest, if you would anyway, simply go ahead and book an appointment with her. You don't want to try to do outside of her sp booking policy, especially by bringing it up in a business setting as you describe. This could be sexual harrassment, and what if you are wrong. Put your curiosity to rest and book who you think is her. You will find out soon enough.

 

[TT300Z]

My first reaction, and I am just being honest here, was "Snap out of it!"

/close thread

 

[87112]

This feels like a penthouse letter kind of situation.

 

[ASHLEYM]

Be wise and learn to separate business from pleasure. Just think of the ramifications if shit flew, when it wasn't supposed to

By all means book a session with her, just not while you are at work

 

[DQ Guy]

wooooo, slow down here.. Bad situation could arise for this...

I personaly would see about hooking up on a strictly none SP basis.
Ask her to coffee/drinks. see what happens.
If you were to visit her as an SP, assuming she is one, work could become very, very tense. If after going for drinks, maybe more, you find out shes an sp, as in she tells you, Then I would book an appointment.
But why pay if you don't have to.?

Just my 2 cents

 

[Feenix]

Thanks for your input, everyone. The comments were helpful.

A friend, who knows the provider in question, has offered to contact her to see if she is a member of the association. If she is, she will be asked how she would feel about meeting me as a provider.

 

[Goldenrod]

My first reaction, and I am just being honest here, was "Snap out of it!"

/close thread

Do you REALLY have nothing better to do while you sit at home waiting for your next fix?

 

[Feenix]

THE RESULT... for those who are interested

Following a discrete inquiry by a friend who knows the provider in question, and the provider's reply to the friend, I wrote her explaining what I thought the business connection might be.

I have heard back from the provider, who expressed appreciation for the way I handled a delicate situation. She says that she is not my friend, and, until my inquiry, did not know of the group to which I belong.

Riddle solved!!

Thank you all for your comments.

 

[on_the_side]

Don't dip your pen in the company ink!!!

it depends on whether you're single or not. while i was a single guy @ a large accounting firm ... i dipped into a lot of different shades of ink. for better or for worse ... i've been out of that firm for about 2.5 years but everyone still knows who i am ... lol!