I need a good divorce lawyer.
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Hehe, no. I haven't pooned to much over the years I was married. Although, by the end of it I did poon more.Did the spouse find out about your pooning?
Still looking for recommendations though!
I do not know you nor your situation so I apologize if I seem rude but I've seen it from both sides.
My ex and I just decided we shouldn't be married any more. We wanted whatever was best for our daughter and of course to retain most of our money. On the other hand I have a friend who is in the middle of a nasty one where his ex is mad and has a wealthy father so he's gong through hell and spending every cent he has just so he can see his kids.
So I ask...What do you mean by good?
Do you want a lawyer who will work in a collaborative fashion, allowing both parties to work through this like adults, sparing your children the drama and fighting and in the end leaving you both with most of your assets?
OR
Do you want one who will fight, argue, file motion after motion, etc., all the while trying to make your ex's life miserable because you're mad and you think this acting this way will make you feel better, but in the end all it will leave you is broke and your lawyer with all your money and your kids hating you?
My ex and I just decided we shouldn't be married any more. We wanted whatever was best for our daughter and of course to retain most of our money. On the other hand I have a friend who is in the middle of a nasty one where his ex is mad and has a wealthy father so he's gong through hell and spending every cent he has just so he can see his kids.
So I ask...What do you mean by good?
Do you want a lawyer who will work in a collaborative fashion, allowing both parties to work through this like adults, sparing your children the drama and fighting and in the end leaving you both with most of your assets?
OR
Do you want one who will fight, argue, file motion after motion, etc., all the while trying to make your ex's life miserable because you're mad and you think this acting this way will make you feel better, but in the end all it will leave you is broke and your lawyer with all your money and your kids hating you?
I guess my answer would be, a lawyer who can go either way and is good at it.I do not know you nor your situation so I apologize if I seem rude but I've seen it from both sides.
My ex and I just decided we shouldn't be married any more. We wanted whatever was best for our daughter and of course to retain most of our money. On the other hand I have a friend who is in the middle of a nasty one where his ex is mad and has a wealthy father so he's gong through hell and spending every cent he has just so he can see his kids.
So I ask...What do you mean by good?
Do you want a lawyer who will work in a collaborative fashion, allowing both parties to work through this like adults, sparing your children the drama and fighting and in the end leaving you both with most of your assets?
OR
Do you want one who will fight, argue, file motion after motion, etc., all the while trying to make your ex's life miserable because you're mad and you think this acting this way will make you feel better, but in the end all it will leave you is broke and your lawyer with all your money and your kids hating you?
You have been PMed good sir!
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I tried to PM you, but maybe I don"t know ho to do that. Let me know. Seems damnably hard to initiate a PM here and to know it was sent!I guess my answer would be, a lawyer who can go either way and is good at it.
You have been PMed good sir!
not to make light of your situation sir but isn't this section supposed for escort service reviews . Unless this is a form of escort I have not heard of I do know people who have dealt with there exes divorce lawyer have felt they have gotten screwed but that is in a different context . I am guessing you did not decide to get a prenuptial agreement which one should always get before one gets married .
On the subject of Divorce lawyers I used to know one as a co worker of a friend of mine . The 6 words that The Divorce lawyer loved to here was the following " It the principal of the thing " This would ensure a long and costly divorce She ( the divorce lawyer) had once couple who had spent thousands of dollars arguing over a pair of candy dishes that where worth about $2 each and another couple who fought over a set of lawn furniture . Because " it was the principal of the thing "
good luck on your search sir .
On the subject of Divorce lawyers I used to know one as a co worker of a friend of mine . The 6 words that The Divorce lawyer loved to here was the following " It the principal of the thing " This would ensure a long and costly divorce She ( the divorce lawyer) had once couple who had spent thousands of dollars arguing over a pair of candy dishes that where worth about $2 each and another couple who fought over a set of lawn furniture . Because " it was the principal of the thing "
good luck on your search sir .
Don't fight it! Figure out how to settle your differences amicably and save thousands! My sister did her own divorce, no lawyers, but then tere were no children to fight over only assets and in all reality everything is 50/50!Anyone know who a good divorce lawyer in town would be?
Thanks!
Well, the portion she put in was more than what I put in, so I have lots of room for negotiation. As far as Kids, well... she doesn't have reason to cut me out of that picture. But you never know what the other person is capable of, so I want to cover all my basses. Since I'm getting a bigger pie than what I came in with I have no complaints. Fuck, she can have the $2 dishes. haha
