"I Love You"!?
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I have had this happen a few times,where they say the L word or even want to go out for dinner or movies....I think they think men are pretty stupid and if they make us feel special,we will only see them....Maybe some guys doo fall for this ??? I am not saying that she or they dont have these feelings !!! But in my honest oppinion...
You would have too be one f**k of a special man too take on a hoe for a g/f or more....I use to drive for an escort agency and a few of the girls there had b/f's (one was even married ) and they loved there job....Had the old man at home convince it was just a job...But there stories to me in the car where straight and true....Some good and some bad,but most of them like the good f**k by good looking well hung men.....
Anyways,,,,,,,,if this is happening too you,just remember wut it is-is wut it is-and that is all it will ever be....Pooners and sp's can make awesome friens off the clock,but dont do well in relationship....Both know wut each other is and never seem to have that very important ingredient in a relationship ( TRUST )
You would have too be one f**k of a special man too take on a hoe for a g/f or more....I use to drive for an escort agency and a few of the girls there had b/f's (one was even married ) and they loved there job....Had the old man at home convince it was just a job...But there stories to me in the car where straight and true....Some good and some bad,but most of them like the good f**k by good looking well hung men.....
Anyways,,,,,,,,if this is happening too you,just remember wut it is-is wut it is-and that is all it will ever be....Pooners and sp's can make awesome friens off the clock,but dont do well in relationship....Both know wut each other is and never seem to have that very important ingredient in a relationship ( TRUST )
I don't think it's common. Maybe she really does like you. I'm guessing that saying "I love you" is bad for business because it can confuse us poor pooners and make us think there's free sex in the future, or think that we can start spending way more time...BC_Boy said:
You could be on the brink of strings-attached sex and a complicated relationship with responsibilities and things... not saying that's bad, but now you need to wear a brain-condom. Play safe and think smart.
she called you a lesbien?BC_Boy said:
despite funnyguy's comments, sp's are people too ... she may have some feelings for you but the onus is on YOU to decide if your ego is up to the task ...
bottom line to successful relationships is that you either accept people
for who they are and what they do (there is a diff funnyguy) or you walk away.
guys who date hookers are no different than women who date guys who fuck everything that moves and believe that they can change him/her! has not and will not ever happen.
if you can't handle the truth of the situation, then find someone else.
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In my experience, I've only had that happen a couple of times and both times it was with Asians with limited English skills. Is English the SP's native language? If not it might just be a language barrier thing.BC_Boy said:
I like the phrasing! Great advice too...afterplay said:
In my experience, Chinese ladies who have limited English language skills confuse love with like. In this case the lady in question is probably saying that she likes you, not loves you.
You could be right. A few years ago, I picked up a Chinese working girl at the Hard Rock Cafe in Beijing. She was a moonlighting nurse, and I had a great time with her. Two nights later, I was back at the HRC, and she saw me. She came up to me, kissed me, and said, "I love you". Frankly, it spooked me a little - I was afraid she would try to get me to bring her back to Canada with me or something like that, so I blew her off as gently as I could and picked up another lady instead. Maybe it was just a misunderstanding.Expat said:
