I just can't get the sex-for-pay game right (I guess)

SeekSteadyRegSP

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Say what you will about the streets, but those streets do a very economic job of bringing together those interested in buying with those interested in selling, at any given point in time.

My difficult experiences elsewhere hint that a long-pre-arranged appointment is necessary if one wants to spend personal time with many SP's. Outside parameters make it extremely difficult to find the sort of female personality working the streets who would inspire the relaxing good time I most enjoy. (this comes as no surprise to anyone, I'm sure)

The dilemma is the question of what to do when the mood for sex with a woman comes suddenly, perhaps on a weekend night, and the streets are one option, but I am simultaneously intrigued by the idea of meeting a woman who is far more 'settled' into her profession, and who has as one of her goals the idea of my becoming a repeat customer.

Other than the streets of Vancouver, my alternatives seem to be to peruse the escort ads in publications like the Georgia Straight, to browse through the telephone directory, or to turn up at Madame Cleo's or the like to see what sorts of women might be available then.

I don't like the blind faith needed to dial most or any of the numbers in ads in the Georgia Straight or the phone book, and I haven't a clue what criteria should be used to choose one of those ads vs. the other (that really is a reason why I've never dared one). Madame Cleo's could certainly bring forth a woman suitable and then some in terms of appeal, but it seems that weekend nights would be their busiest times and, truthfully, it is probably a seller's market under such conditions. Plus the prices there are gen-er-al-ly just a tiny bit too steep when the women of PERB speak of one-hour sessions for $200 or $250.

The term "call girl" came from the situation where you would call, spontaneously, when you wanted to share her company. With schedules being booked so far in advance, and with PERB lacking the feature of the streets where presently interested sellers are seemingly on display in direct view of presently interested buyers (with only the law hurrying you along), I just don't know what to do on a Saturday night when the mood strikes.

I have functioned quite well in the past when on the list of regular customers of women in the biz, but I would like to see a sort of woman vastly different from those who work the streets, simply in terms of how confident, earthy and interactive they are during a session.

At times I have found the occasional gem out there working the streets, and maybe it was a woman in need near the end of the month, or someone with financial deadlines approaching. Perhaps someone not out there five nights a week, but someone who was an interested seller at the moment I happened to be an interested buyer.

The internet has been great for the purposes of the sex trade, in being able to add whole new dimensions to what was otherwise a woman's photo and a phone number in paper ads, but PERB doesn't have anything geared toward who is available right now, when women are on my mind, and I don't know how to compile a list of phone numbers to run through on those Saturday nights which are so busy, as I seek the sincere company of which I speak.

When it comes to specifics, I am not at all fussy about hair color or height or even chest size. Someone who presents herself with confidence and who arrives or hosts with a shared objective of true relaxation would be an excellent match for me. I do like DATY a lot, but it isn't even a requirement if I'm with a woman who simply knows that I'm enjoying caressing her pleasurably, and who is enjoying it to some degree as well.

I'm never the guy who wants the shortest time period you offer, and I really like the chance to spend some time simply getting close to a poised and attractive woman.

Ideally I would book for two or three hours at a time, and I have a great appreciation for the chance to continue building trust with the same SP vs. going through all of the uncertainties again in seeking a new one.

My question for the guys is:

"What SP's/numbers do you dial first on those nights when the mood strikes and you expect there might be time available with a particular SP? "

For the SP's out there in PERB land:

"I'm looking to begin (a) working relationship(s) with women who offer their time by the hour (and not by the 'SOG') and who are sincere in honoring the full extent of the agreed upon period of time. I will be trustworthy, respectful, agreeable and appropriate in every way, and you get bonus points for being the sort of person who does take some personal, physical pleasure from your time with a sincere customer. Please feel free to PM me (and enhance what would otherwise be a name, number and possible photo in an ad) with aspects of your personality."

Logically I don't believe it will be too difficult to find the comfortable SP-client interactions and business relationships I've been trying to describe.

Thanks for reading.

(now feel free to bash without restraint)
 
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travel guy

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At times I have found the occasional gem out there working the streets, and maybe it was a woman in need near the end of the month, or someone with financial deadlines approaching. Perhaps someone not out there five nights a week, but someone who was an interested seller at the moment I happened to be an interested buyer.
If you're saying that you're happy with street level action, but just can't seem to find a sw that can be counted on to be perpetually desperate enough, then I suspect you're going to have exceptional difficulty finding a sp via the internet that would be chronically hard up enough for your liking.

If you're looking for something regular, you'll have much better luck with a mistress than with a sw or sp, but you'll pay for the convenience and it won't be sw prices.

Good Luck
 

SeekSteadyRegSP

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Travel Guy:

I guess I didn't spell it out clearly, but I'm really not entirely happy with street level action. The main problem is that so many SW's are used to availing themselves for a "faux-deposit" and that's it.

I'm thoroughly convinced that "SP's" are far more suitably motivated with perhaps most honoring the agreed upon time commitment, regardless of what occurs during that time.

My puzzle is how to get from the few positives that SW's offer, to a point where I know who to call on a random Saturday night without hitting the streets. SW's are always available immediately and you can get at least some vague sense of their aura/flighty ways before committing yourself.

PERB helps us to gain some sort of ideas about persona beyond the vague image of a mere name, photo and phone number on an ad, but the immediately available part is a big wipe-out in the PERB world, usually.

With regard to the SW's. Complete desperation is a trait fairly recognizable from two lanes away and it usually detracts from whatever satisfaction can be had out there.

I am looking for someone regular, and will in time be easily associated with the low-risk, no-worries category of clients.

Just trying to figure out how to get from here to there.


Westwoody:

Was that your line, originally, about needing to schedule being horny a month from Tuesday? I almost used it in my thread, it was right on target with my frustration.

Also, it sounds like you do have the right sort of a SP-client relationship with that secret someone. Even a situation like that would be a step up from not knowing who to call.
 

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What you seek is known as a "GEM" The only way to find it is put in yer time. Wade through tons of Sp's and SW's (in yer case) and thousand's of dollars spent to find a chick that measures up. 24hrs wait time is as much as I could bare when the mood strikes. Best setups are the call in afternoon and set up for that night. Then you have something to think about all day to keep you motivated at work.

I have found SW's to be be far more spontanious than SP's. Find one out that's not a pig, and has her own place. Take her out a few times to verify her WOT factor and score her number, and before you know it your at her place and bypass the street altogether on a Saturday night. Sure there might be a "can you give me an hour" here and there, but WTF, I need time to get ready too.

A chick named Sarah who lived on 29th ave just off Kingsway was one hell of a GEM in my days. Must have seen her close to a hundred times. It was just to friggen convenient to go over there and piss away and hour or two.

With 2,3,4 day or a week pre bookings and the 30 emails to get to know some chick your gonna shag for 60 min......well fukk that. To much work for something that should be simple.
 

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SeekSteadyRegSP said:
I have functioned quite well in the past when on the list of regular customers of women in the biz, but I would like to see a sort of woman vastly different from those who work the streets, simply in terms of how confident, earthy and interactive they are during a session.

At times I have found the occasional gem out there working the streets, and maybe it was a woman in need near the end of the month, or someone with financial deadlines approaching. Perhaps someone not out there five nights a week, but someone who was an interested seller at the moment I happened to be an interested buyer.
SeekSteadyRegSP,

Re paragraph 1, i am wondering if it is the type of girl that offers the
GFE, if not a real girl friend {RGF}, perhaps PT or occasional, that you
are looking for. If so, then compiling a list of those who offer this, such
as Sarahbelle in Surrey, is suggested. Then, after weeding through
these to rate them as to your preferences, whenever the mood arises
you can make the calls to see who is available.

Re your paragraph 2, if you have not already done so, why not share
your contact info with these women as well as asking for their phone
number and address? This would be a means to possibly establishing
a steady relationship.

Best of luck.
 

lenny

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PM me if you'ld be interested in a couple of women whom i think
might be suitable for you, or worth your time to check out.
 
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