I Have Finally learned my Lesson

[Unpossible]

Hate to break it to you, but you are in business providing a service. You can romanticize what you provide all you want, the same as many customers do, but you get paid to provide a service. A more personal service that most others, but a service nonetheless.

A reliable provider is a professional provider.

Hate to break it to you but they can sit around main-lining black tar heroin and not miss you.

 

[Alix Turner]

sex is not a doctors appointment. I hate to think of the kind of stress some guys seem to experience when they aren't going to be on time to meet me. I tell people its fine, I don't see multiple clients in a day, planes are delayed for de-icing, meetings go on longer than can be predicted, and wives need you to pick something up while you are out. I don't romanticlse what I do but I refuse to make it clinical. I get it, we are charging a lot of money and it isn't much to ask, I agree but I just don't see why anyone would take it personally.

 

[Jackster]

Just thought I would chime in.

I recently asked a guy to wait a few minutes because he arrived early (which I pretty explicitly say NOT TO DO on my website - I hate being rushed). He figured something sketchy was up and decided to just leave without telling me. In fact I only wanted him to wait so I could put the final touches on my hair and make-up, to look my best for him. So yeah, waiting not always = something sketchy!

For you, I'd set up a tent and wait....

 

[LADY-VIA]

I agree. A lot of SPs don't seem to think of themselves as a business, but that's what they are. Otherwise, they'd be doing it for free. The same standards should be applied to them as any other kind of business one would use that bases it self on personal reputation, like a lawyer or an accountant for example. This is why I don't think arguments like "wanting to look their best" really doesn't hold any water. Unless the appointment was short notice or they have a particular or elaborate appearance request, I would think most ladies who have done this awhile can accurately gauge how much time they need to get ready for a "standard" session and be ready on time. If you have been given 24 hours notice for an appointment, you should be able to determine 1. if you can take the appointment and 2. Manage your day so you can be ready fo it. No client should suffer for a vendors poor time management.

I CAN SEE WHERE YOU ARE COMING FROM... sometimes life happens though... on a personal level when life happens to me.. and I have to cancle I do feel really bad I care about myself as a business and dont like wasting peoples time at all.. I KICK MYSELF IN THE BUT FOR IT.

I DO ON THE OTHER HAND have several repeat offenders for being late.. but after seeing them for quite some time.. I know their habbits.. and always have extra time for them to be a bit late.. unless there is something out of my control!!! Does it bother me that they are always late ???? and please POONERS ON HERE dont think im super slax about tardyness I DO SPANK

However Does it bother me ? in regards to the repeat offenders.. NO !!!! like I said, I know their habbits I have been seening them for a while.. I know its tough for them to get out of meetings and have hectic schedules ect ect ect... they are habitually late.. so because they are so consistant with their lateness.. they are if fact pretty much on time when they arrive..

as for me I try not to be late... first thing in the morning depending... I ask for 5-15 minutes extra OCCASIONALLY... thats only because I do travell pretty far to get to my yaletown apartment... I DONT live anywhere near Vancouver.

LV

 

[AA_Train]

I CAN SEE WHERE YOU ARE COMING FROM... sometimes life happens though... on a personal level when life happens to me.. and I have to cancle I do feel really bad I care about myself as a business and dont like wasting peoples time at all.. I KICK MYSELF IN THE BUT FOR IT.

I DO ON THE OTHER HAND have several repeat offenders for being late.. but after seeing them for quite some time.. I know their habbits.. and always have extra time for them to be a bit late.. unless there is something out of my control!!! Does it bother me that they are always late ???? and please POONERS ON HERE dont think im super slax about tardyness I DO SPANK

However Does it bother me ? in regards to the repeat offenders.. NO !!!! like I said, I know their habbits I have been seening them for a while.. I know its tough for them to get out of meetings and have hectic schedules ect ect ect... they are habitually late.. so because they are so consistant with their lateness.. they are if fact pretty much on time when they arrive..

as for me I try not to be late... first thing in the morning depending... I ask for 5-15 minutes extra OCCASIONALLY... thats only because I do travell pretty far to get to my yaletown apartment... I DONT live anywhere near Vancouver.

LV

I do understand life happens and I do know that the best laid plans can sometimes go sideways. I'm not unsympathetic to that. I also appreciate the amount of time and effort that you ladies put into creating a really fun session. My point and I think the point of the OP is that sometimes, from a client's perspective, it seems some SPs think there time is more important than the clients and can use this as an a crutch to fall back on if they are unorganized or tardy. I know there are clients who act this way too and it is just as wrong when they do it. Time management works both ways.

If a lady is running late for a 4pm appointment and at 3:30pm contacts me and says I may be a little late because i need some more time to look my best ,I'm OK with that. HOWEVER, I don't think I should be informed of this at 4pm as I arrive at your building because its disrespectful to just assume I'll wait. Maybe I have a tight schedule I have to maintain and waiting 15 or 20 minutes just won't work for me. The same thing also works for clients. With all the options fro communicating these days, there is virtually no excuse why either of the two parties can't communicate any snags along the way prior to a session.

As to Jessica James comments about me, I have to take some exception to that. I am sorry if you took offense to my comments but they were not directed at you or anybody here in particular. I was trying to boil something down to brass tacks and in no way was I trying to dehumanize anybody. I have tremendous respect for women in your line of work and in general. I have been fortunate to share some great experiences with some great ladies, most of which who were on time . I can also tell you that with some of them I became a favourite of theirs and not just because they knew they would make bank. I don't think it is prudent to make blanket statements about people based on a lone statement you disagree with. But you are entitled to your own opinion.

 

[Cock Throppled]

I DO ON THE OTHER HAND have several repeat offenders for being late.. but after seeing them for quite some time.. I know their habbits.. and always have extra time for them to be a bit late.. unless there is something out of my control!!! Does it bother me that they are always late ???? and please POONERS ON HERE dont think im super slax about tardyness I DO SPANK

However Does it bother me ? in regards to the repeat offenders.. NO !!!! like I said, I know their habbits I have been seening them for a while.. I know its tough for them to get out of meetings and have hectic schedules ect ect ect... they are habitually late.. so because they are so consistant with their lateness.. they are if fact pretty much on time when they arrive..


LV

Good for you, Lady Via for not getting upset at your clients who are always late, and maybe you're doing it to keep their business, but if you're just doing it to be nice, ask yourself why should you and every other client bend to their will?

I have a few words for people who are chronically late for appointments, and one of them is "asshole." People who are always late think the world revolves around them and everyone else has to adjust their schedules to accommodate them.

Ain't gonna happen with me. If you want to be a douche to show you have some power over me by forcing me to accommodate your tardiness I'll walk, leave the appointment or refuse to do business with you.

Lady Via - have you ever bothered to ask your clients who are perpetually late why they can't manage to respect you by respecting your time? Once in a while a meeting might go late, but if it's regular behaviour it's just a power trip.

 

[Sharky66]

Wow, we’re not only on different pages, but different books.
I guess we are both looking forward to the others better days.
Peace




Why I’m so happy you decided to join in and reference what is and is not a debate. It is truly appreciated mate.

I would prefer to be thought a long winded old coot then misunderstood and especially misrepresented by having my meaning twisted. Forgive me if I don’t share in your drive-by posting philosophy (yes, I remember some of your others “Posts”).

Lecture – About respecting time, like ANY OTHER business, really?
Insult – Well, I’d say selfish and petulant are a level or two below asshole, but I guess that’s a subjective opinion.
Let their guard down and be intimate with me – You got me mate! I’ve always found that arguing is the best way to get into someone pants. It has been especially useful in getting free sex from SP’s. I wish you hadn’t uncovered my evil master plan. Well, back to the drawing board I guess.

And no filmgeek, you’re not crazy.
When they come for you, there will be no NCR option available.

Yeah, not quite getting the hostility aimed at you. I didn't think you were insulting or attacking JessicaJames at all. You were wondering where she was going.

And I am quite amazed at the legs this thread has developed over a simple concept -- do what you said you would do - be on time.

 

[badbadboy]

I DO SPANK




LV

That does it, now I gotta see LV



I do like to return the favour too

 

[LADY-VIA]

Good for you, Lady Via for not getting upset at your clients who are always late, and maybe you're doing it to keep their business, but if you're just doing it to be nice, ask yourself why should you and every other client bend to their will?

I have a few words for people who are chronically late for appointments, and one of them is "asshole." People who are always late think the world revolves around them and everyone else has to adjust their schedules to accommodate them.

Ain't gonna happen with me. If you want to be a douche to show you have some power over me by forcing me to accommodate your tardiness I'll walk, leave the appointment or refuse to do business with you.

Lady Via - have you ever bothered to ask your clients who are perpetually late why they can't manage to respect you by respecting your time? Once in a while a meeting might go late, but if it's regular behaviour it's just a power trip.

hhmmm.. no I have not bothered to ask them... I have a couple people in my personal life who are always late as well.. and I mean always... even if they leave early some how they end up late..... I see it more as a simple character trait than a power trip. SOME PEOPLE tap the tables.. some people shake their legs.. some twirl their hair.. some aggressively chew gum loudly.. some never pick up after them selves.... .... and some people are habitually late.. I dont see it as something that they try to do....... its just something they do...

 

[BallzDeep]

And you're at risk for being taken for a long winded old coot who rambles on endlessly. This isn't a debate. You guys seem to think you can lecture these women, insult them and then get them to let their guard down and be intimate with you. Somebody's crazy here, and it ain't me.

what is this then? the place where its your word and only your word and no one else can retort? long winded sure, but i see the vailidity to his argument. to yours? not a chance.

 

[Cock Throppled]

hhmmm.. no I have not bothered to ask them... I have a couple people in my personal life who are always late as well.. and I mean always... even if they leave early some how they end up late..... I see it more as a simple character trait than a power trip. SOME PEOPLE tap the tables.. some people shake their legs.. some twirl their hair.. some aggressively chew gum loudly.. some never pick up after them selves.... .... and some people are habitually late.. I dont see it as something that they try to do....... its just something they do...

Other than maybe being annoying, character traits don't affect other people.

It's completely a power trip because other people put up with it, adjust their own schedules and let them get away with it.

If it doesn't bother you, fine, but they are playing you. YOU are the one that always has to adjust and THEY do whatever they want whenever they want because you allow them.

 

[rickoshadows]

Habitually late people are one of my pet peeves. At least when I was still in the service, I could arrange for some counselling at a great rehab center in Edmonton. I understand that "shit happens" and no one ever ended up a the Captain's Table for a first time offence, but anyone who made a habit of tardiness would find them self cleaning the bars of his/her cell with brasso.

Now I have to choose to continue to deal with these people, or not. If their other qualities make up for always having to wait delay, then I manage it or put up with it, if not, I cut them out of my daily life. Their loss or my loss makes no difference, being retired means no one is paying me to deal with aggravation.

 

[luvsdaty]

Ah so this is the secret to happiness as an SP? So my method of puppies, horses, sunshine and music doesn't work for everyone

PS needles leave too much evidence, I believe smoking is the preferred method by SP's.

Sadly, smoking can lead too Toxic leukoencephalopathy.Very deadly(40% of people who get this die) & it is not a nice death :-(Guys & girls, don't smoke heroin! 1st showed up in the Netherlands in the 80's Doctors don't know exactly what causes it but they think it's something in the aluminum foil.
My apologies for going off topic.

 

[blazejowski]

Habitually late people are one of my pet peeves.

Try being married to one... drives me up the fucking wall...