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NDog090

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Hey all,

I'm confused about something. So I've been planning to see a regular SP in my area who I've seen a few times with no problems. Well, today she asked me if I have braces on my teeth, which is a yes (had them for 1.5 years already). Then shes like, "oh ok#", then she stopped responding to me. I seriously don't get it, I brush my teeth and braces 3xs a day and use mouthwash as well. Ladies, is it because some may find it to be a turnoff or what?
 

westwoody

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I had my jaw wired and lots of metal in my mouth. My breath was horrible no matter what I did.

Maybe you don't notice it because you are accustomed to it.
 

Caramel

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If you are doing kissing & DATY, then it probably causes her discomfort and pain, and like westwoody says, bad breath. If I were you I'd move on, and possibly refrain from those activities until you get them removed.
 

Stamkos

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Hey all,

I'm confused about something. So I've been planning to see a regular SP in my area who I've seen a few times with no problems. Well, today she asked me if I have braces on my teeth, which is a yes (had them for 1.5 years already). Then shes like, "oh ok#", then she stopped responding to me. I seriously don't get it, I brush my teeth and braces 3xs a day and use mouthwash as well. Ladies, is it because some may find it to be a turnoff or what?
Maybe it's not your braces....maybe it's something else...maybe it is.....who knows?!?

Either way she's obviously sending you a message. Take it, move on, there's plenty of other great women out there.
Don't obsess over it, she doesn't necessarily owe you an explanation.
 
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As reasonable as the potential issues you raise and excuse are, there is one that you do not seem to consider: That perhaps there was a problem with your last visit and you confirmed who you were the guy with the braces she had an issue with.
Ding ding ding! The braces were likely the identifying factor, not the issue.
 

NDog090

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She texted me back and said shes not into guys with braces, but she said she'll still see me. Like, there's thousands of people who wear braces for a reason. There not permanent. I'm sure we all at least once in our lives have visited a woman who has braces. And the BJ part feels better sometimes if she has braces on.
 

Caramel

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She texted me back and said shes not into guys with braces, but she said she'll still see me. Like, there's thousands of people who wear braces for a reason. There not permanent. I'm sure we all at least once in our lives have visited a woman who has braces. And the BJ part feels better sometimes if she has braces on.
Ouch! I can only imagine what that must feel like to tuck in your gums against sharp metal wires :hopelessness:
 

resercher

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She texted me back and said shes not into guys with braces, but she said she'll still see me. Like, there's thousands of people who wear braces for a reason. There not permanent. I'm sure we all at least once in our lives have visited a woman who has braces. And the BJ part feels better sometimes if she has braces on.

be prepared to get charged more look if for whatever reson a person does not want to service you . your best option is to not go to them,

Here is a personal story that may help you.
I was in a situation with a sp a couple of years ago and like you I do not get subtle hint's . The sp quoted me a huge amount for her services After i agreed to pay her she said" but it is so much money" Are you shure you want to do that she repeted the phrase "but it's so much money" several times I did not get it . I used her services and I felt like i was rapeing her. The look on her face told me she was almost suffering from some form of psycological pain .

I know I am not the most atractive person and I wish she would have told me she did not want to service me . I did not understand why she acted that way . Till a couple of years later I asked a plumber to fix a leaky tap for me late on a weekend. I could tell I had just woke him out of bed and he qoted me a very high price . I got the message I f figured out. that the sp was doing the same thing . and why she kept on saying " but its so much money " over and over again . This is not what you say to a customer you want to make a sale to .

let me give you an analogy
It.s like this imagine your the cook at a resterant you have been working for 16 hours or more you have burned youself multiple times you work for minimum wage. Your closing the resterant and it is 5 min to closing all you want to do is go home and sleep. When your boss tells you you have one more customer to cook for . Yes you are a profeshonal and you will do a good job but tell me how much extra effort are you going to put towards that last unexpected customers meal ? you are that customer think about it .


This is not something you can reson with using logic. she has told you she does not like the idea of serviceing you so my advice do not go to her . I wish in my situation above the sp had said to me " your fucking ugly and gross I do not want to have sex with you" If a sp tells me that I would say thank you and move on .
I would not try to convice her as to why i was not ugly etc. She would be doing me a huge favor much better than feeling like I am rapeing her. or getting substandard service becase I repulse her .

do not use this persons services that is my advice dont say i did not warn you .
 

UhOh

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She's probably just playing hard to get, tell her you won't take no for an answer. Woman love a man in charge.
 

bcneil

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Yeah I think she doesn't like you for some reason. She was asking about the braces as an identifier.
Braces aren't that big a deal, to turn down a regular with no other issues.
 

resercher

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read again what I have written read what the sp who have advised you in this thread are telling you I honestley think unoh's coment was ment as a joke .


It does not matter what service she is offering you . Also if you are saying that just becase a sp offers submissive services for bdsm play .She is ok with being bullied and abused you really need to understand how with bdsm you have to negotate a scene and be carfule etc.

There is a saying in the bdsm scene " if you break your toys you do not get to play with them again" Which means if you do something that your submissive or the person your playing with does not like or causes perminant physical or psychological injury you do not get to play with them again hence the need for negotating a scene . I agree with the idea that this had nothing to do with your braces you where just identified as the guy with the braces . I have no idea what you did but whatever it was she does not like the idea of serviceing you .

For example if you where doing some sort of vebal humilation play. Quite often people who are into verbal humilation are ok with verbal coments related to there morals. but not ok with verbal coments related to there body for example she may be ok with being called a slut . But not ok with being called a fat cow. hence the need for negotiation .


 
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