I can't cum
- Thread starter Jack_jack
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There are so many factors that come into play and finding the right balance of sexyness/comfort/trust along with an environment supporting this is a rarity. Condoms also inhibit that wonderful exchange of connection, and if you're accustomed to having bare sex w/your SO you'll miss that physical intensity.
I haven't been participating in this activity for too long, but have come to realize that it takes a special SP that can break-through the initial barriers and create an almost 'natural' flow within the context of this absurd arrangement of 'pay-for-play'. I can count on one hand how many times I've been able to finish during the act...and I've literally had hundreds of experiences (I don't keep an Excel Spreadsheet like T8E).
Most often I require a combination of manual (both her and I working it) and some choice words...it also helps to have a very vivid and varied 'highlight reel' to get across the finish-line
I haven't been participating in this activity for too long, but have come to realize that it takes a special SP that can break-through the initial barriers and create an almost 'natural' flow within the context of this absurd arrangement of 'pay-for-play'. I can count on one hand how many times I've been able to finish during the act...and I've literally had hundreds of experiences (I don't keep an Excel Spreadsheet like T8E).
Most often I require a combination of manual (both her and I working it) and some choice words...it also helps to have a very vivid and varied 'highlight reel' to get across the finish-line
