Mick, most people lose sight actually.Sometimes some SPs on this board seem to lose site that they are providing a service for the large amounts of cash that we give them, and not the other way around.
I can't remember the last time a musician or actor wrote a review about a critic because he/she didn't like what they read about themselves. Can any of you???
Again, this goes back to what you are trying to BUY with your "LARGE SUM of MONEY" (seriously, do you talk in session about how much you are spending, or think about it constantly, becasue if you do, I think you are going to be hard pressed to ever be satisfied with a session).
Spend your money, think of it as a facilitator to 45min - an hour of time you can have fun with a girl.
She is deciding to spend time with you based on X sum of money. You might actually have to work for it a little. You are trying to buy a personal service.
If you just want a hole, go buy a fleshlight, but otherwise realize that it is an very complicated thing, that you are trying to purchase.
What you don't realize is that some of the girls are better actors than others, some can pretend to like you, no problem at all, others can't fake it to the same level.