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[Vagabond007]

Hi all

Hope everyone here is having a goodnight. Anyway...I have a question to put to the public. How do you best pursue an interest with friend that you have had for over 3 years. She has even been my friend when I was with my ex fiancee. It would seem that we have one of those forbidden chemistries since she has ended her relationship with her boyfriend of some time. The situation is that we do share a fair amount of activities such as league pool with each and a very good solid friendship with each other...but I don't want to endanger that with the wrong move....however...with the two of us having a few drinks too many a couple of times we have shared a couple of cuddling sessions at her place...I'm usually not one to be afraid to stick my neck out...but with her its something different...Anyway...thanx in advance to all responding

Vagabond

 

[michel]

Honesty is the best policy

I think honesty is the best policy. Since she is your best freind why not be honest with her and express your most personal feelings. But be respectful. Better yet qualify before hand what you are about to express should not endanger your very special friendship. What ever she said you have to ensure and be very respectful of her feelings.

Good Luck

Michel

 

[n2supersymmetry]

The evidence you state about her liking you the same way is circumstantial at best. You should just ask her out on a formal date (just the two of you) like you would with any other woman you are interested in.
Watch her reaction when you ask her ... if she already likes you in "that way" then she will be thrilled and off you two go into the sunset. If she acts surprised, confused or otherwise feigning ignorance on why you would ask her out, then you know she is definitely not interested. I can almost GUARANTEE you she knows you are interested in being more than being a friend. Men are not that complicated to figure out.
Now it's time for you find out about her. Best of luck.

 

[mustangjoe]

Just grab her tits and see what her reaction is.