How to walk away. Also, a good place to share experiences.

[nscamper]

First off, I'm a newb to the hobby.... not even a newb, but prospective newb. Forgive me if I am lacking in knowledge or etiquette.

Looking at ads and reading through the forums, I see that there is always a chance of being mislead which is why I am definitely gravitating to a well reviewed SP for my first experience. However, I am tempted to visit somewhere like massage parlor below but I have a real hard time believing their photos are real. (https://www.leolist.cc/personals/fe...100_natural_curvy_students-648403?source=list)

I've read forums posts where guys have the door opened for them and they end up walking away... but how does that go? How do you do it nicely? Do the SP get real mad? Can you be forced into a cancellation fee?

Can ppl please tell me their experience and give advice, for myself and other newbs, how to do this nicely without making a huge scene or losing money?

(I've seen other people ask this question within threads but never seen an answer and didn't see a post about it. Please let me know if the answer is already out there.)

Thanks!

 

[masterblaster]

 

[blakealridge]

Yeah definitely go there and don’t book someone like me

 

[nscamper]

Yeah definitely go there and don’t book someone like me

Thank you for the LOL, CharleeBeckett. I really do appreciate well-placed sarcasm and that was just lovely. (As are you!)

I did say I was "definitely gravitating to a well reviewed SP for my first experience", and that hasn't changed. In fact, it's the most common piece of advice for a newb and I do intend to follow it. It's mostly out of curiousity for myself and others who have asked the question that I started this thread.

 

[MixedDude]

First off, I'm a newb to the hobby.... not even a newb, but prospective newb. Forgive me if I am lacking in knowledge or etiquette.

Looking at ads and reading through the forums, I see that there is always a chance of being mislead which is why I am definitely gravitating to a well reviewed SP for my first experience. However, I am tempted to visit somewhere like massage parlor below but I have a real hard time believing their photos are real. (https://www.leolist.cc/personals/fe...100_natural_curvy_students-648403?source=list)

I've read forums posts where guys have the door opened for them and they end up walking away... but how does that go? How do you do it nicely? Do the SP get real mad? Can you be forced into a cancellation fee?

Can ppl please tell me their experience and give advice, for myself and other newbs, how to do this nicely without making a huge scene or losing money?

(I've seen other people ask this question within threads but never seen an answer and didn't see a post about it. Please let me know if the answer is already out there.)

Thanks!

Just say sorry and turn around and walk away. Be respectful but concise.

She's not going to make a scene unless she's on something or is a scammer.

 

[MixedDude]

Yeah definitely go there and don’t book someone like me

Though I haven't had the pleasure, I'm sure anyone booking or choosing you would absolutely stay!

 

[blakealridge]

Though I haven't had the pleasure, I'm sure anyone booking or choosing you would absolutely stay!

Someone left once actually 😂 he texted me and was just like “morally I couldn’t go through with it” and I was like “fuck your morals I now can’t pay rent you shit”

 

[MixedDude]

Someone left once actually 😂 he texted me and was just like “morally I couldn’t go through with it” and I was like “fuck your morals I now can’t pay rent you shit”

I wonder what it would be like to make sweet love to one's own morals 🤔

 

[Banged_Up]

When I go to an provider that isn’t reviewed or, I suspect may not be the person advertised I have the LL ad pre loaded on my phone.
When the door opens and it ain’t the girl in the pics I show the ad and ask “is this you?”
They babble on in some foreign manner and I walk away. Sometimes I very slowly say “false advertising“. But really it’s pointless because English comprehension goes out the window when they realize they aren’t going to be able to rip another guy off with poor service.
I have recently taken to using the filter on LL with “ethnicities“ and not choosing asian or cbc. They are all fake and I’m done with the B&S crap games. Now, the “woke crew” is going to pipe up and say I’m a racist and what I’m saying is racist. Whatever. I go by experience. When I see a pattern that affects my wallet I adjust. And no, I’m not a racist. I’m a gwai lo from way back. I have many Chinese friends, speak enough Cantonese to get my face slapped and I do most of my shopping at princess auto.
There are two reputable Asian provider groups that I’m aware of, Asian Fever and Rizas. AF provides a good looking crew, easy booking and the pics are accurate-ish. Rizas is true to the game. Accurate and no B&S.
Long and short of it? I look at it this way, if I goa tv store wanting a Sony and I get there and the sales person says we have Sany or Soni I walk. Same deal. If they are rude enough to try to fraud you in the door you can be polite and just walk away. No words are even required.

 

[RCJJ]

Someone left once actually 😂 he texted me and was just like “morally I couldn’t go through with it” and I was like “fuck your morals I now can’t pay rent you shit”

To be fair I had some moral wrestling to do before my first date, but i did it before my first booking. Once I commit I'd feel like a total douche to back out, even tho I was nervous as shit.

 

[blakealridge]

To be fair I had some moral wrestling to do before my first date, but i did it before my first booking. Once I commit I'd feel like a total douche to back out, even tho I was nervous as shit.

Is it cuz you realized you should have been paying women all along 😂

 

[blakealridge]

I wonder what it would be like to make sweet love to one's own morals 🤔

Boring for that guy

 

[RCJJ]

Is it cuz you realized you should have been paying women all along 😂

Probably, but hey I feel for him on a level

 

[grusse]

in texting I say I'll walk if the pics are fake, which often ends the correspondence.

like Bangedup I show the photo and say "this is the girl I booked, where is she?"
that starts a tapdance, i.e. "she day off" or some such.
then I say I'll come back when she comes back and I'm tailights.

often, it's the 1st time the girl has seen the photo cuz it's the handler who posts the b's' pics.

no need to feel the least bit bad when walking from dishonesty.

 

[Rollingstar]

If your the type of guy that doesn’t like to walk out on girls that’s fine. I am one of those guys. You just have to not put yourself in the situation by check this board (last four digits), reverse image search on tineye and google.…. there’s a pattern to those images and some times you’ll know it’s fake.

Of course you can’t catch them all and you will need to walk one day… but Banged_Up has a solid post.

 

[Fooker]

I have recently taken to using the filter on LL with “ethnicities“ and not choosing asian or cbc. They are all fake and I’m done with the B&S crap games

Yup, same. Have been doing that for years. Sorta sucks because I love bangingAsian chicks. Hard to find good ones though.

 

[MixedDude]

Yup, same. Have been doing that for years. Sorta sucks because I love bangingAsian chicks. Hard to find good ones though.

It doesnt help when people with no standards post overly generous reviews about said ladies. I get subjectivity and all but if she's a catfish using the same stock K Girl photo as everyone else and you say the pics are "similar" when they aren't, there's a problem...

 

[Fooker]

I have turned and walked away dozens of times at spas. It’s no big deal there really, like as long as you’re not there just to waste their time.

Just go in, they will ask how long you wanna stay, and then they’ll ask for either room fee or the all-in fee for your time. But tell them you want to see who is available before deciding and paying. They’ll tour anyone available through to show you, all the girls come say “hi I’m xxx” and flash you a smile. Or it will be just the one girl available who greeted you.

If you really don’t like what you see, just politely say “sorry not what I was looking for today” and get out of there as soon as possible.

This is the only way I’ve satisfied my craving for Asian pussy in like the last 5 years. I’ve learned not to call and book an incall with Asians ever any more.

I have only once ever walked away after an SP (white girl) greeted me at her incall, it was a motel and she opened the door and looked wayyy different than I expected. In her defense, the pics were probably her (but way old, and no face pics which was what turned me off), but in my defense she clearly stated in her ad that you can leave after saying hello if you don’t like what you see. She was super chill about it, she just said “so thanks for coming by, sorry you don’t want to stay”. I left her a $20 for her troubles, but she didn’t ask for it.

 

[kd75]

When I go to an provider that isn’t reviewed or, I suspect may not be the person advertised I have the LL ad pre loaded on my phone.
When the door opens and it ain’t the girl in the pics I show the ad and ask “is this you?”
They babble on in some foreign manner and I walk away. Sometimes I very slowly say “false advertising“. But really it’s pointless because English comprehension goes out the window when they realize they aren’t going to be able to rip another guy off with poor service.
I have recently taken to using the filter on LL with “ethnicities“ and not choosing asian or cbc. They are all fake and I’m done with the B&S crap games. Now, the “woke crew” is going to pipe up and say I’m a racist and what I’m saying is racist. Whatever. I go by experience. When I see a pattern that affects my wallet I adjust. And no, I’m not a racist. I’m a gwai lo from way back. I have many Chinese friends, speak enough Cantonese to get my face slapped and I do most of my shopping at princess auto.
There are two reputable Asian provider groups that I’m aware of, Asian Fever and Rizas. AF provides a good looking crew, easy booking and the pics are accurate-ish. Rizas is true to the game. Accurate and no B&S.
Long and short of it? I look at it this way, if I goa tv store wanting a Sony and I get there and the sales person says we have Sany or Soni I walk. Same deal. If they are rude enough to try to fraud you in the door you can be polite and just walk away. No words are even required.

You have issues my friend clearly...

 

[randomguy2817]

You have issues my friend clearly...

what's wrong with his comment, if you don't mind me asking