The sheer disrespect. I cannot handle it. Where have the good clients gone?
How to lose a date with me 101
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He's about as charming as a construction site porta potty.
If people only knew how wonderful sober sex is, and that they don't have to lean on intoxicants to "make it better" or "more fun" or for calming nerves.
I, too, was ignorant until I started seeing providers, and, sadly, had few prior sexual encounters that weren't partially fuelled by pot and/or booze.
It's like night and day.
I, too, was ignorant until I started seeing providers, and, sadly, had few prior sexual encounters that weren't partially fuelled by pot and/or booze.
It's like night and day.
Looks like he had already been drinking with that sentence structure.
I’m surprised he didn’t request a spittoon to be placed near the bed.......
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Yeah...homework guys....wtf are you thinking out there? This is like blowing smoke into the face of a lung cancer survivor.
I can't imagine bringing hard liquor to a date with Charlee, which is not to say I don't bring something else that's hard . . .
I can't imagine why guys want to fuck while being intoxicated. A little alcohol helps you to talk to a lady in clubs, sure, but thinking that being intoxicated will enhance the sex is absolute bullshit. Learned it the hard way before I discovered this hobby. Back then, like most horny young dudes, I went clubbing every weekend just hoping to get laid. The only time I successfully picked up a girl, we both been drinking, I was walking her back to her place thinking yes this is finally happening!! Well, guess what, I got whiskydick, alcohol just made me wanna relax once I was on her bed, it not only took a while for my junior to get up, I blew after a few seconds of blowjob and then she went to sleep and I was laying there dead inside.
Ever since then I never have sex not being sober again. And I discovered that I performed the absolute best when I smash sober. Having sex, in my opinion, requires a clear head, because a clear head helps you to control your rhythm while you thrust, and it heightens the experience because your senses are awake, you can feel her body and sense her body scents so much better compared to when you are intoxicated, where most of your senses are either numb or asleep and you won't remember as much once you become sober afterwards.
If you require alcohol to have sex because you are nervous, that's understandable but get over it. I am paying for a good attitude that makes me relaxed already, I walk into seeing a SP already knowing I won't be rejected. I don't have the anxiety when I visit a provider anymore, because I already know they will be professional and nice to talk to, unlike girls in clubs that give me attitude 90% of the time before I even open my mouth. Note that I am only talking about alcohol because I don't have sexual experience that involves weed, but it seems like it does enhance the experience according to what some members mentioned here.
Ever since then I never have sex not being sober again. And I discovered that I performed the absolute best when I smash sober. Having sex, in my opinion, requires a clear head, because a clear head helps you to control your rhythm while you thrust, and it heightens the experience because your senses are awake, you can feel her body and sense her body scents so much better compared to when you are intoxicated, where most of your senses are either numb or asleep and you won't remember as much once you become sober afterwards.
If you require alcohol to have sex because you are nervous, that's understandable but get over it. I am paying for a good attitude that makes me relaxed already, I walk into seeing a SP already knowing I won't be rejected. I don't have the anxiety when I visit a provider anymore, because I already know they will be professional and nice to talk to, unlike girls in clubs that give me attitude 90% of the time before I even open my mouth. Note that I am only talking about alcohol because I don't have sexual experience that involves weed, but it seems like it does enhance the experience according to what some members mentioned here.
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You didn't lose anything of worth. Don't ever cease to stand your ground.
Oh, and I admire anyone who can conquer alcohol!
I have luckily and proudly only had sober encounters, and I only plan to.
If you read his texts out loud to yourself....you’ll sound like Fog Horn Leghorn ,that just tied into a bottle of Southern Comfort.
The sad thing is.....when he sobers up, there‘s a high probability he will still be a shithead.
CB has the right to refuse service for her own reasons.
Way too often I see SP accounts "on Twitter..." saying the same thing about potential clients who are rude, don't follow SP rules etc and they refuse service. And of course the "fuck you " back from the now non potential client. Scary the way some men will treat SPs (and that is just verbally).
As for the intoxicated person having sex. BigRawd made some excellent points. Sobriety.
Alcohol and drugs lower will lower your inhibitions to having sex. Plaintively talking about the nite-club/bar scene if this is where young people learn/get sex from, kinda says shit about our society.
Guys go to bars, have a few, want to find someone but can't pick up a lady, so turn to the SP to provide them with sex. Would you say alot of escort agencies use this as a business model?
Bar scenes are blurred. Society rules are blurred. Drugs and alcolhol blur it even more. Have to wonder how a young person navigates their way thru it....
Way too often I see SP accounts "on Twitter..." saying the same thing about potential clients who are rude, don't follow SP rules etc and they refuse service. And of course the "fuck you " back from the now non potential client. Scary the way some men will treat SPs (and that is just verbally).
As for the intoxicated person having sex. BigRawd made some excellent points. Sobriety.
Alcohol and drugs lower will lower your inhibitions to having sex. Plaintively talking about the nite-club/bar scene if this is where young people learn/get sex from, kinda says shit about our society.
Guys go to bars, have a few, want to find someone but can't pick up a lady, so turn to the SP to provide them with sex. Would you say alot of escort agencies use this as a business model?
Bar scenes are blurred. Society rules are blurred. Drugs and alcolhol blur it even more. Have to wonder how a young person navigates their way thru it....
Ugh. Sounds like you made the right choice!
With booze, you lose. I’m 555 days alcohol free myself 😌 don’t miss the breath, being stuck places or hangovers.
I am not entirely sure if you agree or disagree with my points here. I discovered escorting after I had been going clubbing and had nearly no luck picking girls up, and I am happier this way.
Before I discovered escorting, the only ways I knew that I could get to have sex with a lady were, one, I try my best to impress a girl, hook up with her and dump her, move onto the next. Two, dating apps. Three, going to clubs and bars, or parties. I soon realized lying to get into girl's pants won't work for me, for moral reasons. I am not comfortable lying frequently about myself to impress girls and get laid, because I get along with girls well as their friends, and I have the tendency to care for women I'm close to. Dating apps don't work for me, that's just how it is, I don't know the game. As for clubs and bars, it's not the environment I felt comfortable in. I prefer chatting with women in a quiet and cozy café, get to know her and let her get to know me. In a club I always felt somewhat awkward and it was really difficult to have an actual conversation with girls, which is how I impress women, by chatting with them, if they give me the chance.
I navigated my way from clubs, dating apps to seeing escorts. And I am happier now. I don't have to pretend and lie about myself to get laid, and then hurt someone's feelings when I want to move onto the next. I don't have to force myself to be in uncomfortable situations like clubs to get laid. I don't have to waste my time on dating apps. I am more confident, content, calm, and as a side bonus, I quit alcohol and weed. I only did those things to fit in and get girls, now I am sober, sexually satisfied, and I think I dodged a bullet by staying away from parties and hard drugs. And there's a myth that escorts are less risky because they are aware of their health and test themselves regularly. It's a win for me.
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