How to last longer with Escorts?

[Juza4]

No matter what kind of service I go for: FS, CBJ/BBJ, HE. I can't seem to get fully erect and finish after a minute or so of stimulation. I've seen around 10 girls at this point over the last few years, but it's always the same story.

I've read tons of posts about the sessions you guys have had and I want a nice long session as well.

I can get it going normally with regular girls I meet on dates and such and last for a long time, but I can't with escorts.

Can anyone relate or share tips on how to perform better?

 

[appleomac]

I can get it going normally with regular girls I meet on dates and such and last for a long time, but I can't with escorts.

Can anyone relate or share tips on how to perform better?

I think the answer is in your post. Book a longer session and treat it as a date! A regular date there is no guarantee/expectation of anything other than the date itself - obviously it's a different dynamic for paid companionship - maybe that's somehow messing with your psyche or whatever. Hell, you might even want to book some simple "social time" with a lady for the first visit - again, creating the "normalcy" of a regular date/dynamic. That's all I got!

 

[masterblaster]

Too be honest most of them probably like the quick draw action.

 

[cruefan]

Start seeing less attractive escorts.

 

[pussy lover]

How about fantasizing about your SO. That may stop the overstimulation and stop you from finishing so quickly .
Disclaimer : it may work too well.

 

[Turrible]

See a girl that offers msog, book 2 hours or more. Book a nice person, let her know what’s going on and what your goal is. Blow your first one as fast as you want, or don’t, the pressure is off.
OR, see an edging specialist. Miss Hunter, Miss Beatrice, Maya Odelle, especially Natasha in Abby and/or a few others will take you to the edge, hold you there and end up making you beg for relief. I haven’t seen Miss Hunter or Beatrice, both are on this years list and come highly recommended/ reviewed. Maya will make your eyes pop out of your head. Natasha brings me to tears. Just say yes to the prostate option, trust me.

 

[ExpCharlee]

I’ve had guys literally call it magic that I can stop right before they come and keep them hard for longer. I swear I can smell it. ??‍♀

 

[BobbyMcgee]

No matter what kind of service I go for: FS, CBJ/BBJ, HE. I can't seem to get fully erect and finish after a minute or so of stimulation. I've seen around 10 girls at this point over the last few years, but it's always the same story.

I've read tons of posts about the sessions you guys have had and I want a nice long session as well.

I can get it going normally with regular girls I meet on dates and such and last for a long time, but I can't with escorts.

Can anyone relate or share tips on how to perform better?

two words spoken to me by Lucy Lake, you’ve got to

“STOP PORN!!!”

 

[Lefty]

hook up w a SP that promotes MSOG. Some are "willing" but some are really very good and understand you may need a 15-20 min recharge before round 2. The SPs that know what you want and want to work for the 2nd round are precious. Be upfront what you want. Get the first shot out of the way and then relax and let it happen. Dont think about it too much.

If you like mature MILFs, Jewel in Surrey is really easy to talk to and can fix you up.

Once you get over this hurdle you will be glad.

Lefty

 

[204fun]

When I first started seeing SP's this was one of my major concerns as I've always battled the issue of being a bit quick on the draw. The issue of only having a certain amount of time in a session also played into this as it creates a level of performance anxiety and I was always way too concerned with trying to maximize my time.

At this point I've come to realize that, for the most part, I can't really control what happens during a session performance wise and now just go into the session knowing that I'm going to enjoy myself. If that means one quick shot, two quick shots or I end up putting on a world class performance it doesn't really matter to me.

Sex is about a number of different things and doesn't need to follow a set formula so if you and your SP need to constantly shift from foreplay to FS or take a break from action to prevent you from popping too quickly then so be it. Most SP's won't mind this at all and frankly there aren't too many women out there that want you just pounding away on them in FS for 45 minutes.

I'd also say be careful about what you read in reviews here on Perb and other review boards in terms of guys talking about their own performance during a session. If you go solely by reviews, there seem to be a ton of guys here that would rival most pornstars in terms of their vitality and performance.

 

[PuntMeister]

Have you tried self-releasing a few hours before the session? Or maybe the day before.

Maybe go see the sensuous slow tease providers. Ask for light Touch massage before transitioning to member stimulation. No jackhammering until you are fully erect.

Hope you find ehat works for you.

 

[OneLuckyGuy]

No matter what kind of service I go for: FS, CBJ/BBJ, HE. I can't seem to get fully erect and finish after a minute or so of stimulation. I've seen around 10 girls at this point over the last few years, but it's always the same story.

I've read tons of posts about the sessions you guys have had and I want a nice long session as well.

I can get it going normally with regular girls I meet on dates and such and last for a long time, but I can't with escorts.

Can anyone relate or share tips on how to perform better?

Alternate between stimulating her and letting her stimulate you. Sometimes if I am getting overstimulated I take a break by giving her DATY and then when I settle down I let her continue with me. Seems to work with me.

 

[Asian Fever]

A note of caution, be careful with prescribed enhancements. They can raise your body temperature and cause you to fail the temperature check. Just an FYI.

 

[Maybee]

I used to suffer from premature ejaculation when I first became sexually active. With anyone not just escorts. I would be done with 30seconds of a BJ or came within 5 pumps inside. It came to a point where I needed to bring msog money for a second shot which was better (5 to 8mins).

Honestly I felt embarrassed every time I met someone new/escort and this just made the problem worse. Took me around a year and a half to realize the cause to my problem. It was all inside my mind, I would get overexcited at the experience and have performance anxiety which resulted in me ejaculating very quickly. Then later on I went in with a different mindset and sex became more and more normal to me. My problem went away.

Since you are able to have normal performance with girls you know. I would rule out that it's a physical thing. I feel that you might be more excited at the experience of seeing an escort and while being in that position your mind panics. I suggest that you try and imagine like you are on a real date with some girl and put her experience first as I think someone has also stated above. Hitting one before going is also useful sometimes it offered like a few extra mins during my PE.

DO NOT TRY pills, I did and they did not benefit me in any way while other people online said it would extend your time by a surprising amount. I also had side effects of headaches, chills, and nausea. It's better to just pay the extra $ for the second shot.

 

[Poon Raider]

Just want to throw in another vote for longer appts that allow for MSOG. I rarely do 30min sessions anymore because i worry about the 1st one going off before i want it, plus i enjoy the conversations which is hard when you have to fit 1 or 2 quick showers in the half...way too much pressure on yourself.

 

[Bridge]

The Doors lyrics might help, "Go real slow, you like it more and more, take it as it comes, specialise in having fun" and the chorus, "Take it easy baby, take it as it comes, don't move too fast, and you want your love to last, oh you've been moving much too fast!"

 

[80watts]

A good nite sleep and add 4 hours to your usuall time.... And no masturbating for 4 days before....

 

[georgej]

How to perform better: the nice long sessions include pleasure for both parties. Lots of foreplay and exploring her body. Make her have on O before you even get to you. Maybe don't even start a hj/bj till 30 min in. Now some guys don't have any interest in the women enjoying it sexually and that is totally ok with escorts, we don't really care. It's just nice when it happens. But since you asked how to perform better I thought I would add this. Focus on the whole experience of meeting and connecting with a woman, not just the release.

I agree with the others advising to stay away from the pills if you are not a senior. You don't want to become dependant with all the negative side effects.

I'm 79, used pills (prescription) for a while but didn't see a difference other than headache. I go the Electra model - lots of foreplay, focus on her, then some more of that, finally one great shot. Cuddle, chat, see you soon.

 

[sybian]

No matter what kind of service I go for: FS, CBJ/BBJ, HE. I can't seem to get fully erect and finish after a minute or so of stimulation. I've seen around 10 girls at this point over the last few years, but it's always the same story.

I've read tons of posts about the sessions you guys have had and I want a nice long session as well.

I can get it going normally with regular girls I meet on dates and such and last for a long time, but I can't with escorts.

Can anyone relate or share tips on how to perform better?

An old Cowboy tip that works for me to last longer.....When you feel yourself getting close, just picture in your head Mimi from the Drew Carey show.

Works every time.

 

[angry anderson]

No matter what kind of service I go for: FS, CBJ/BBJ, HE. I can't seem to get fully erect and finish after a minute or so of stimulation. I've seen around 10 girls at this point over the last few years, but it's always the same story.

I've read tons of posts about the sessions you guys have had and I want a nice long session as well.

I can get it going normally with regular girls I meet on dates and such and last for a long time, but I can't with escorts.

Can anyone relate or share tips on how to perform better?