How to Get a Sugar Momma?

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I almost had one a few weeks back...she just ended up a lot older looking when naked than I expected :(

I'm sorry, there are limits to my attraction to "cougars". Pretty lady, but skeletal hands. Also, I swear I heard some bones crack when I put her legs over my shoulders :eek:

Anyways, I got a nice dinner and drive in her BMW...oh and some good sex out of it....just those hands were creepy :(
 
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Anica Green said:
They are rare, so don't hold your breath:cool: No one likes a mooch!
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you right no one likes a mooch.....unless the roles are reversed and it a girl with a sugar daddy. that's normal

well i guess the real question is, what qualities would a suga mama look for?
 
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twoblues said:
I almost had one a few weeks back...she just ended up a lot older looking when naked than I expected :(

I'm sorry, there are limits to my attraction to "cougars". Pretty lady, but skeletal hands. Also, I swear I heard some bones crack when I put her legs over my shoulders :eek:

Anyways, I got a nice dinner and drive in her BMW...oh and some good sex out of it....just those hands were creepy :(
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she can be all skin and bones as long as I get $$$ out of it.
 
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too blues, how old is your cougar? if she's below 45 and attractive, then it isnt so bad.
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Nah, definitely over 50.

Before her, the oldest lady I have been with was a 49 year old.

Both looked young, but it's things like the hands that can tip off the real age. I knew the last one was over fifty because we chatted for a long time over dinner and references she made to her history meant that she must have been over 50.

An exact age is unknown because it's not something I'd ask. Admittedly, she was quite hot, kept in great shape, some plastic surgery, etc...so it wasn't a bad experience.

As Anica says, though, she had expectations too, which most "sugar mommas" should. I keep in excellent shape, can keep up a great conversation and make good arm candy when I clean myself up ;)

In the end, I just don't think I am in the mood to be an older woman's (50+) boy toy ;)
 
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forget about age

as long as she has the $$$ and is hygenically clean.......I'm game
 
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yeah when it comes down to it men are going to look for women for reproduction value (is she good enough to have my offspring?)

women are going to look for men with survival value (would he be able to take care of me)

so this is why a woman can be totally broke and uneducated, but if she is very pretty can get by in life, and why most macho alpha males get the ladies over the nice guy.
 
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Not sure how much luck you will have finding a sugar momma. I have been looking for the right girl to be her sugar daddy for a long time since moving to Vancouver and no luck yet. I am assuming that finding a sugar momma will be even harder than my search for the right girl for me to be sugar daddy to.
 
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My daddy always told me!

Yes this is the one peace of advise my dad gave me . Marry a women that can pay for the next twenty years .. and after twenty years or so . trade her in for two twenty years olds. . I never really under stud that until now.
When i wish i had enough money to keep one twenty year old.. and her girl friend could come over some time too. Just did not take my dads advice LOL:(
 
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Where to find a sugar mama
Once you've decided a sugar mama is the prey you're after, where do you do the hunting? The most obvious target-rich environments are places that attract wealth.
Estate sales, auction houses, charity benefits, yacht clubs, top-end jewelry stores, cultural events, and quality casinos are good places to start. Every city has certain bars and restaurants that are favored by the wealthy. It might dent your wallet a little, but frequenting these places will increase your chances of meeting a potential sugar mama.
What to do to attract her
What the sugar mama mainly finds attractive is your youth. But you'll have to do more than adopt the fresh-faced look and naïve mindset of an 18 year old.
Physically, you'll have to look good. Dress well, take care of yourself, and radiate youth and energy. Don’t make the mistake of believing that women's standards slip as they get older; on the contrary, they know what they really want more than ever.
More importantly, though, you need to convey the attitude of youth. Display a “go anywhere, do anything” outlook, a lust for life and an infectious enthusiasm that will sweep her along. Your role isn't to highlight how old she is now, but to make her feel young again just by being around you.
What to talk about
The one subject you definitely shouldn’t bring up is her wealth and your aspirations of benefiting from it. Just like their male counterparts, sugar mamas are often plagued by young gold diggers who only want cold, hard cash.
Instead, use conversation to demonstrate that you possess the qualities she is looking for. Highlight your virility and lust after her. She's probably used to the more restrained approaches of older men and will likely find your youthful enthusiasm much more flattering.
Be careful not to let the age gap intimidate her; constantly showing her that you live on the cutting edge might push her away. Make sure she doesn't feel out of touch by picking conversation topics she can relate to. If you're at an art gallery, talk about the art and use that to set up a date.
he sugar mama may talk about her wealth to flirt with you. Don't dismiss it, but don’t dwell on it. The aim, as with all dating endeavors, is to separate yourself from the pack. If she brings the conversation around to money, acknowledge it, but change the subject. Suggest coyly that she could use some of it to buy you a drink, then move on to something else that will pique her interest. This will establish that you are interested in benefiting from her wealth, but that you have more to offer than the others.
How to seduce her
As opposed to most relationships, in this type of situation, the woman is the one expected to do most of the pursuing. As a rich woman, she's probably used to going after what she wants and getting it. And if you're lucky, she doesn't care what it costs.
Once you've caught her eye and established that you're interested in her, let her do the chasing. Unless you're on the run from the cops, this is probably the only chance you'll get to feel “pursued.”
Enjoy it. Remember that she wants something from you just as much as you want something from her. Let her take you out for dinner, pick up nice little gifts for you and basically do everything that you normally have to do.
Once you think you've been pursued enough, move in for the kill. To her, you represent all the things men her own age have lost. Use the passion and spontaneity she wants so much to your advantage. Kiss her passionately, give her sensual massages and spend a lot of time pleasuring her in order to make her feel special.
How to maintain the relationship
Now that you've bagged a sugar mama, you have to hang on to her. You need to display the youth she finds so attractive while maintaining a certain level of maturity so you fit into her life. This type of relationship differs from most others in one key way: It's unlikely a sugar mama will want you to talk about settling down.
Your main task is to make her feel young again -- not necessarily by taking her to all-night raves, but by injecting fun back into her life. Youth is a time of endless possibilities and she wants to feel that all over again. Suggest exciting events like attending the opening of a new bar or whisk her away for a romantic weekend in the country -- all on her tab, of course.
it pays in more than one way
There's more to these relationships than living the easy life. Women hit their sexual peak later than men, so you’ll find yourself in bed with a woman who has the winning combination of enthusiasm and experience. Even if you feel you are being paid for sex, it could be some of the best sex you’ve ever had.

One of the major benefits of this relationship is that she'll never want you to grow up. She could get all the “grown-up” things -- responsibility, commitment and security -- from a man her own age.

So go find yourself a sugar mama. She's more than just a meal ticket.
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i should make a trip to granville island one of these days
 
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