How to do better with A and S to become an R?

[LovesGourmetDining]

So I see reviews of escorts / sessions and often there's [L]ooks? [A]ttitude? ervice? and whether someone would [R]epeat.

As a CLIENT, suppose you don't even score 6+ on Looks because you don't look like Brad Pitt and don't have fireman abs.
What are winning Attitude and Service pointers so that you can top an escort's hope-he-Repeats list?
If Ron Jeremy can be a famous porn star, surely there are things that ladies like which will make you a client they are excited to see?

(Other than adding a $1000 tip each time -- I'm sure Ron Jeremy didn't pay to be a porn star; and that would make it hard for clients to repeat with anyone...)

 

[giaebonyprincess]

So I see reviews of escorts / sessions and often there's [L]ooks? [A]ttitude? ervice? and whether someone would [R]epeat.

As a CLIENT, suppose you don't even score 6+ on Looks because you don't look like Brad Pitt and don't have fireman abs.
What are winning Attitude and Service pointers so that you can top an escort's hope-he-Repeats list?
If Ron Jeremy can be a famous porn star, surely there are things that ladies like which will make you a client they are excited to see?

(Other than adding a $1000 tip each time -- I'm sure Ron Jeremy didn't pay to be a porn star; and that would make it hard for clients to repeat with anyone...)

Maybe he has a massive cock? I'm not sure I haven't seen any of his porn movies. To score high for me; mutual respect, a connection, remembering a couple things about me and buying me milk chocolate(always a bonus). Just treating someone right and not like a piece of meat.

Everyone has a different vibe with each person, our connection will not be the same as the one you may have with another SP. So lets cherish the time and moment we have together.

Simple...no??!!

 

[ddcanz]

Treating a woman with respect, decent hygiene, punctuality and not quibbling over rates.
Looks have pretty much NOTHING to do with it. This is a business.

 

[LovesGourmetDining]

Treating a woman with respect, decent hygiene, punctuality and not quibbling over rates.
Looks have pretty much NOTHING to do with it. This is a business.

Sure it's a business, but the ladies are still human and I figure they'd still respond to looks. That's just human. It's no mystery why every dating site has pictures.
The business side might be "I'm happy to have an appointment" but I'm looking for tips on getting to "I'd really love to see that client again".

 

[LovesGourmetDining]

Maybe he has a massive cock?

I suppose there is that. Prior to viagra and other ED meds, being able to keep it hard to film an adult movie was important and not that easy.

 

[VanessainVictoria]

Sure it's a business, but the ladies are still human and I figure they'd still respond to looks. That's just human. It's no mystery why every dating site has pictures.
The business side might be "I'm happy to have an appointment" but I'm looking for tips on getting to "I'd really love to see that client again".

I love the young ones looking for their hot, young guy discount. If anything I crack the whip a bit harder.... LOL

But seriously, as an Indy, don't ruin the session asking for extras. Major turn off. Do it before you book.

 

[Ms Erica Phoenix]

So I see reviews of escorts / sessions and often there's [L]ooks? [A]ttitude? ervice? and whether someone would [R]epeat.

As a CLIENT, suppose you don't even score 6+ on Looks because you don't look like Brad Pitt and don't have fireman abs.
What are winning Attitude and Service pointers so that you can top an escort's hope-he-Repeats list?
If Ron Jeremy can be a famous porn star, surely there are things that ladies like which will make you a client they are excited to see?

(Other than adding a $1000 tip each time -- I'm sure Ron Jeremy didn't pay to be a porn star; and that would make it hard for clients to repeat with anyone...)

Ron Jeremy was short, fat, sweaty & hairy, but he had an enormous schlong...
Attitude & Service? Be courteous, show up on time (not 20 minutes early, not 30 minutes late), bring a small, thoughtful gratuity/gift, SHOWER when you're asked to (or without being asked!) leave when your time is up, & book again!

 

[Aesthetics>all]

I love the young ones looking for their hot, young guy discount. If anything I crack the whip a bit harder.... LOL

But seriously, as an Indy, don't ruin the session asking for extras. Major turn off. Do it before you book.

majority of escorts 2hr rate is cheaper than a haircut, night of drinking and a hotel room in DT van, that is the discount

 

[take8easy]

So I see reviews of escorts / sessions and often there's [L]ooks? [A]ttitude? ervice? and whether someone would [R]epeat.

As a CLIENT, suppose you don't even score 6+ on Looks because you don't look like Brad Pitt and don't have fireman abs.
What are winning Attitude and Service pointers so that you can top an escort's hope-he-Repeats list?
If Ron Jeremy can be a famous porn star, surely there are things that ladies like which will make you a client they are excited to see?

(Other than adding a $1000 tip each time -- I'm sure Ron Jeremy didn't pay to be a porn star; and that would make it hard for clients to repeat with anyone...)

If SP's started to pick and chose their clients based on looks, they would be out of business before you can spell Brad Pitt.
Like Ms Erica so wisely put, just be extra attentive to be punctuality, price, physically hygiene, politeness. Many SP's are either accepting of your looks or they have other ways to go past that like dim lights, or just avoid looking at you. The latter, I have noticed, applies a lot in case of younger girls. I am not going to name names here but it was clear that they just kept their eyes closed. I read the same thing in a porn star's interview. She said that if the guy was not attractive enough, she would focus on something else and just wait till it was over.

 

[LovesGourmetDining]

Many SP's are either accepting of your looks or they have other ways to go past that like dim lights, or just avoid looking at you. The latter, I have noticed, applies a lot in case of younger girls. I am not going to name names here but it was clear that they just kept their eyes closed.

Which leads to the SP scoring low on S and becoming a no-R, I suppose. Hmm.
Maybe I need a stylist. -_-;

 

[ddcanz]

Sure it's a business, but the ladies are still human and I figure they'd still respond to looks. That's just human. It's no mystery why every dating site has pictures.
The business side might be "I'm happy to have an appointment" but I'm looking for tips on getting to "I'd really love to see that client again".

Here's your tip- respect, hygiene, punctuality and not being a cheapo or pushing boundaries.
"Good looking" may not hurt, but it doesn't necessarily help either. Easy on the eyes is generally better than repugnant. Duh! And what exactly does "good looking" actually mean? Is there some sort of standard?
These ladies' business is to make sure that you enjoy yourself enough to want another ride. If you don't contribute to their feeling of well being and comfort level as noted, then you won't be on any "I'd really love to see that client again" list- if such a list actually exists.
Ms. Erica sums it up just as succinctly.
And there is ZERO correlation with any dating site, as you mention.
Many clients and SPs "click" on certain levels, which typically leads to YMMV. But make no mistake- the vast majority of pooners are simply paycheques to the ladies- handsome or otherwise.

 

[badbadboy]

On the looks thing. Really? This is a biz and unless I'm mistaken being GQ good looking may help if you are dating but given the nature of this biz, it's not really important so I'm told.

Respectfulness rules. Don't be the douche who calls them dirty little whores while in the act. Treat them with respect, kindness and be a generous partner not thinking of yourself first. I've seen some really nice young women who all have a common theme that the younger set "don't really need to see escorts" but they do and treat these women quite appallingly. It just adds to their appreciation of seeing a mature guy who is happy to be in their company. Pushing limits; if your hand is pushed away more than once, it's clear they do not like what you are doing.

Be generous if they have gone the extra mile to make you happy. Some gift, wine, chocolate are all appreciated but best of all is getting an extra 'red' or couple of 'greens' in their envelope.

I think the hygiene discussion has been done to death here many times but seriously, guys seem to think their junk is always fresh and clean no matter that they have spent 45 minutes with their sweaty ball sacks while driving to see the SP. Immaculate grooming can not be understated! We expect the ladies to be fresh as a daisy when going down on them and they too have the same expectations of us.

No matter if I have showered 30 min before arrival, I always opt for the shower. Sometimes I'm richly rewarded and they hop in with me too. Especially during the heatwave it was showering heaven for me.

 

[westwoody]

Shower fun is mega fun.

Seriously it is amazing how many guys whine and bitch about being asked to take a shower.
If you start the session arguing over something so trivial the session is going downhill from there.
Some guys even turn on the taps and pretend to be showering...
Just do it.