how to convince my girlfriend to have anal sex with me?
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personally i never did see the big deal with anal,but anyway the more you bug her about it the less likely you are ever gonna do it with her,it ain't for everybody,my suggestion is leave for awhile,take it easy,try sometime down the road again and if you get the same response i would then forget it forever
Overrated Sensation...
Actually shak, it's an overrated sensation. I've tried it four or five times and found it to be "not-that-great". The anticipation you feel about it is just that. The sphincter is like a ring that once breached, loosens and all you're left with is the smoothness beyond. There are no varied textures like that found in the vagina. I always found myself finishing in the vagina because of this as I lost my erection due to the loss of the tactile feeling. Even a hand feels so much better than the anal cavity...
But if you really have to try it, good luck trying to convince her. You're going to need it. Most women are reviled at the prospect...
Actually shak, it's an overrated sensation. I've tried it four or five times and found it to be "not-that-great". The anticipation you feel about it is just that. The sphincter is like a ring that once breached, loosens and all you're left with is the smoothness beyond. There are no varied textures like that found in the vagina. I always found myself finishing in the vagina because of this as I lost my erection due to the loss of the tactile feeling. Even a hand feels so much better than the anal cavity...
But if you really have to try it, good luck trying to convince her. You're going to need it. Most women are reviled at the prospect...
Unfortunately for you and contrary to popular current belief, the ass is not actually a sexual organ....women who enjoy greek enjoy the *idea* of greek and therefore derive pleasure from it.
If it's been two years and she still finds the idea less than appealing, you have my sympathy - I'd say you're out of luck.
It's not unlike someone with a foot fetish wondering why his mate won't get achingly horny when he fondles her stilleto clad foot........just different strokes for different folks. Can't always expect to share turn ons.
If it's been two years and she still finds the idea less than appealing, you have my sympathy - I'd say you're out of luck.
It's not unlike someone with a foot fetish wondering why his mate won't get achingly horny when he fondles her stilleto clad foot........just different strokes for different folks. Can't always expect to share turn ons.
The question is a bit ambiguousshak said:
Perhaps if he were to buy a strap-on for her and got down on all fours.
always be gentle. be patient and use lube. place a wet digit there during doggie how does she react? if she doesn't tell you to stop it then next time do it again, eventually insert digit a little. or try during daty if you can get her to cum during anal teasing, your wish is more likely to happen... Good Luck!!!
Let her perform anal sex on you with a strap on...
Moan and thrash about like its the best orgasm youve ever had...
She'll get the hint.....
*grin*
Moan and thrash about like its the best orgasm youve ever had...
She'll get the hint.....
*grin*
Tell her from me that nomatter how numb a girl is or how uptight she may appear; a sure fire way to make her cum hard is by putting it in her ass. Mind you one needs to know the other things to go along with that to make it an enjoyable and not painful experience. And one needs to relax so best to try this at home and not at work!!
Well, if you buy her the strapon, the lube and promise not to cry... you might just get her to have anal sex with you.
Now, if you want to have anal sex with her... then perhaps you will have to either be very gentle in bringing it up...try to find a way to make it fun for the both of you... or forget about it. It's her body and she decides what goes where and when it happens. You can't force her to do something she doesn't want to do... and that goes for mental and emotional forcing as well as physical. ie, no blackmailing or guilt tripping etc
Now, if you want to have anal sex with her... then perhaps you will have to either be very gentle in bringing it up...try to find a way to make it fun for the both of you... or forget about it. It's her body and she decides what goes where and when it happens. You can't force her to do something she doesn't want to do... and that goes for mental and emotional forcing as well as physical. ie, no blackmailing or guilt tripping etc
If you want to have it seek out someone who really likes it. They are far and few between and having it with your GF may not be the right thing to do anyways. I have enjoyed some awesome experiences with a lady who enjoys it and has muscle control that has to be experienced. It is not for everyone but hey as they say, to each there own.
use numbing suppositories
You can go to any quality sex shop and purchase these little suppositories that numb the nerves in your anus. Many gay men use them & smart women who've learned the hard way!
Just make sure you don't go back & forth between the openings, even by 'accident' or you'll have a bad case of tuna helper for breakfast LOL
You can go to any quality sex shop and purchase these little suppositories that numb the nerves in your anus. Many gay men use them & smart women who've learned the hard way!
Just make sure you don't go back & forth between the openings, even by 'accident' or you'll have a bad case of tuna helper for breakfast LOL
What? We can't blackmail our girlfriends into greek? Well that's it, I'm outta here. Seriously though, I've had girls that will only do it that way. My favorite is when you get the bowling ball thing going. Fingers in each hole, and toss them onto the bed! As far as getting a strap on, well, keep in mind that you'd have a little bit more control with the wood than she would. Start smaller on each of you, use the fingers first and work your way up.
In this case I think LOL should stand for Lots Of Luck!Marvin said:LOL!!
Mental note to self: Remember not to ever ask Julia for Anal Sex.
BraD Lee, is this advice or ...
a Review (LOL)!! Either way, I am getting excited. Bottom line on anal is that his GirlFriend must be anal-curious about it to even make your well thought out plan work. It is not enough for her to just do it to please him.
If she thinks it is:
1. Taboo
2. Too painful because of a bad experience
3. Unrightous
4. Wrong
5. Like fitting a square peg into a round hole
he should just move on to other equally enjoyable endeavors and avoid straining the relationship.
a Review (LOL)!! Either way, I am getting excited. Bottom line on anal is that his GirlFriend must be anal-curious about it to even make your well thought out plan work. It is not enough for her to just do it to please him.
If she thinks it is:
1. Taboo
2. Too painful because of a bad experience
3. Unrightous
4. Wrong
5. Like fitting a square peg into a round hole
he should just move on to other equally enjoyable endeavors and avoid straining the relationship.
When I was 19 I was dating a Girl who was really into figure skating and had an Ass on her like a bowling ball.
She was 5'9" brunete and fit beyond believe (small tits but I was not complaining). One night we were at a party and the Greek thing came up and everyone was laughing and joking about it. When we got home she was litterly losing her mind she was so horny. We were watching TV and her head was on my lap and slowly she moved up until I was massaging her butt thru her jeans. She was pushing and arching her back like crazy then undid her pants slid them down below her Ass and just with her panties on. Then she licked my finger and started to rubb her Asshole with my finger. Then slide my finger into her pussy then back to her butt until it slide in. SHE LOST IT! Then after doing this for a while we got Vasoline and broke her Cherry. It did not hurt it was just lots of fun. The point is if she lets herself get into it and WANTS to do it and you take your time there is nothing else like it. Everything can be fun if you let it be.
She was 5'9" brunete and fit beyond believe (small tits but I was not complaining). One night we were at a party and the Greek thing came up and everyone was laughing and joking about it. When we got home she was litterly losing her mind she was so horny. We were watching TV and her head was on my lap and slowly she moved up until I was massaging her butt thru her jeans. She was pushing and arching her back like crazy then undid her pants slid them down below her Ass and just with her panties on. Then she licked my finger and started to rubb her Asshole with my finger. Then slide my finger into her pussy then back to her butt until it slide in. SHE LOST IT! Then after doing this for a while we got Vasoline and broke her Cherry. It did not hurt it was just lots of fun. The point is if she lets herself get into it and WANTS to do it and you take your time there is nothing else like it. Everything can be fun if you let it be.
Dude...if it's been 2 years and she hasn't agreed to it, it's not likely that she will ever agree to it ESPECIALLY if you keep asking her.
This is not about the act itself and all about the psychology that you're employing. Even if she were likely to experiment, constantly bringing it up is going to make her feel pressured to do it and will likely be damaging to your relationship.
And don't even think about trying the "If you loved me you'd try it" crap because that's a sure way to get yourself single in a hurry.
If anal sex is THAT important to you, find another g/f. If you truly love her, respect her decision to NOT want to partake and don't ask her again. If she wants to try it let her say so on HER terms, not yours.
This is not about the act itself and all about the psychology that you're employing. Even if she were likely to experiment, constantly bringing it up is going to make her feel pressured to do it and will likely be damaging to your relationship.
And don't even think about trying the "If you loved me you'd try it" crap because that's a sure way to get yourself single in a hurry.
If anal sex is THAT important to you, find another g/f. If you truly love her, respect her decision to NOT want to partake and don't ask her again. If she wants to try it let her say so on HER terms, not yours.
