How much is too much?

[Vito]

Hey fellas, I was just curious, how many times on average per month you would visit an SP? I ask this because I've been going atleast once a week and was starting to think that maybe I was going too much and maybe it might be a problem? How many times on average would any of you guys go so I could gauge this? You can PM me as well. Thanks.

 

[Dgodus]

If you feel you can afford to without spending money that you need or would be better served elsewhere I don't see an issue.

I look at it like any other vice, can I still get my golf membership, am I still putting savings away, can I still go out with buddies whenever i want, do I have an "in case shit" reserve (such as the massive f@&kin crack that appeared in my windshield driving home from SK), are all my bills up to date? If so, I'm good.

Took drugs habitually for too long when I was younger. You learn to recognize some red flags. Money that should be going elsewhere but is going towards your habit is a big one. A huge drop in mood when you go without is another. You know yourself better than anyone, but you have to be honest.

 

[Dickson]

Once a week is not bad. I can see one every few days if I feel upset. Or even three or four in one night. But normally it is like once or twice a week. Then there times when it is once a month. For me it depends on where I am. For some reason when I am in Vancouver I like to see more. Like i said Vancouver is my favorite play ground. I used to be like that in Toronto as well. But for me it is where I am and how I feel.

 

[sevenofnine]

it really depeneds on your finicial situation, and i guess your need,

i tend to look at this in long terms, i mean you have to be able to sustain it and enjoy, finicialy and emotional and well just having a life,

i have been there when all i could think about is this hobby who i would see next, its just a stupid place to be, you have to have a life away from this,

i guess for me i have a standing appointment every two weeks with one lady, it works for me, i can just get on with my life, and bingo two weeks go by i know i have an appointment with a certain some one,

and i keep that appointment no matter what, i mean sometimes you just don't feel like it, but i know the women and like her alot and its always an enjoyable evening, even though i might not feel randy or the need for sex, i still see her i never have cancelled
im older and i work in this building full of women, me and my wife aren't having sex, i just want to feel something sexual, feel part of it, feel like im not dead,

this lady provides that for me, every two weeks,
and we know each other along time, so sometimes holdiays or stuff happens, we will go to once a week, then drop a month because one of us is on holdiays
and its comfortable.


actually i feel like im pavlo and his dogs, i only get geared up to see this women the day of, and really enjoy it and look forward to it, get all wound up,
then its over and she is forgotten for another two weeks

 

[Vito]

Hey thanks for the info guys. Recently I was just wondering if I was thinking about or doing this too many times to the point where like anything in exess it becomes a problem, but you guys have some good points that I have taken into account.

 

[gasman]

If you feel you can afford to without spending money that you need or would be better served elsewhere I don't see an issue.

I look at it like any other vice, can I still get my golf membership, am I still putting savings away, can I still go out with buddies whenever i want, do I have an "in case shit" reserve (such as the massive f@&kin crack that appeared in my windshield driving home from SK), are all my bills up to date? If so, I'm good.

Took drugs habitually for too long when I was younger. You learn to recognize some red flags. Money that should be going elsewhere but is going towards your habit is a big one. A huge drop in mood when you go without is another. You know yourself better than anyone, but you have to be honest.

I agree if you can afford it and continue without meeting your needs all the power to you!

 

[WreckBeach]

I go maybe 1, 2 times a month. Not so much recently because of hectic work schedule but I've talked to some agency girls before who say there are guys that poon like 2, 3 times in one day, several times a week. It'd be nice to have a lot of extra cash to throw around but I don't think I could keep up like that physically lol.

 

[Vito]

Don't even worry about it there was a time where I was bangin at least 10 broads a week for about 5 years, I've managed to cut it down to 3-5 max nowadays. If I had my choice I'd like to bang about 3 a day but I already fucked away one house I aint doin another one!

Damn! lol and I thought I was going too much lol yea I guess once a week or a few times a month is good as long as you could afford it