How much is (not!) enough ...

[rockyy]

Question for the pros: I've often heard that pooners aren't always totally upfront with their service providers about what their dirty little fantasies are. But then a day later they're ranting on Perb about how Jane Doe wouldn't do this or that or the other thing, and Jane Doe is thinking, 'WTF?!?!? - This is news to me!'

So my question is ... what percentage of guys IYHOs could have had more from the session if they'd only had the balls to ask ...

I hate the idea of walking away and leaving something on the table ..

 

[rockyy]

Better to leave it in the girl......

Hey wise guy, I thought you retired ..?

 

[rockyy]

about 20%..... i try to make it clear that i am an open minded person and to tell me what you want BEFORE the session. I get just as disapointed as my client does if he's not had a good session.

that's what I thought ...
does the guy get annoyed because you're not a mind reader?

 

[curvy_nympho]

Please Ask!

I realize that for some people, it can be uncomfortable to actually ask for exactly what they want, but SPs aren't mind readers! Trust me, I have heard just about everything under the sun. I would never laugh at someone or make someone feel badly about their requests. Hey, I definitely have my own kinks and wouldn't want a lover or boyfriend to laugh at me when I say what I want.

I know that I would much prefer a client to tell me what his fantasies, kinks and fetishes are so that he has a good time. I simply adore making someone leave my place with a grin from ear to ear because I fulfilled his wishes.

Take a deep breath and tell your SP that you like your balls sucked on or that you want to wear her panties or whatever else you so desire! You will be much more satisfied!

Bella