How much have you spent this year on SPs?
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enough to put a few kids through university.....overseas 
You must be pulling in tariffs like Donnie Drumpf LOL
I set a budget of about 1k-ish per month, so this year it will be around 12k
I'm just rounding my first year ever seeing companions so I just did some quick math and Nov-Nov it's about 34K. Yeah, it's a crazy number all by itself but it's well within my budget so I'm not upset.
That goes both ways. The SPs are scoring on two fronts then - having sex and getting paid a pretty fee. I'd say they're one up.
I am at least a $K per month and i am generally in denial on how much.
Throw in at least 10% for tips, taxis, and wine.
A good health investment in the one good life...
The question i need to answer is: "will i regret doing this, or regret NOT doing this?"
The spend speaks for the answer.
Throw in at least 10% for tips, taxis, and wine.
A good health investment in the one good life...
The question i need to answer is: "will i regret doing this, or regret NOT doing this?"
The spend speaks for the answer.
I moved to Vancouver from Houston in June this year. Vancouver seems to have a hell of a lot more options and that increased my pooling expenses a lot. Pulled last 6 months atm transactions which is usually the only reason I use an atm lol. $7k so roughly 1k/month. Been doing this hobby for last 7 years all in the US and averaged ~5k USD per year. High numbers but low enough from my income <5% that I am comfortable with all of other life’s expenses
For 2026? $2500 plus travel, wine, dinner and dancing the night away. I'm taking the weekend off.
In 2025 I must have spent at least 12.5k. I've already spent $600 in 2026 so the years off to a great start so far!
Compare to Arbutus Club (or other country club) fees. And jackets not required.
Remember this ...Just went through my bank statements to see the damage of my debauchery for the year.
15k.
Not as terrible as i thought
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Honestly, I spent way more back when the prices were actually reasonable.
But since most places started raising all their rates, I’ve slowed down significantly.
Beach bunnies upping the costs of every extra was a bit of a punch to the wallet the last time I went.
It use to be about $450 to $500 every two weeks last year.
Unless I was doing 2 hour visits.
But now I’ll only let myself spend around $600-$700 a month.
But since most places started raising all their rates, I’ve slowed down significantly.
Beach bunnies upping the costs of every extra was a bit of a punch to the wallet the last time I went.
It use to be about $450 to $500 every two weeks last year.
Unless I was doing 2 hour visits.
But now I’ll only let myself spend around $600-$700 a month.
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Having seen this topic, I got curious for myself how I spend. Unfortunately I wasn't quite tracking every appointments accurately but started to in late October last year. Initially just jotting down the appointment dates and cost, but then I thought since I like data that I'd track things on a spreadsheet to track not just the dates and cost but also duration, the provider and their ethnicity. With enough the data over time, I'm thinking I can find some trends.
Anyways I thought it's good for me to do this to see if I'm over or under budget. I'm budgeting $5K per year at an average of $300 per visit.
Anyways I thought it's good for me to do this to see if I'm over or under budget. I'm budgeting $5K per year at an average of $300 per visit.
