How much does an SP's age matter to you?

[tantalizeme]

Those of us who favorably review “aunties” routinely get ridiculed by young guns, and sometimes even by older Lolita lovers.

I suspect the stigma attached to being an older sex professional keeps many middle-aged ladies from taking up this noble profession—or drives some out of it.

Obviously, the male sex drive is evolutionarily geared toward a woman’s fertility. But that’s not the whole truth. Surely I can’t be the only guy strongly triggered by the "mature" category of porn sites with a huge volume of seasoned hotties?

I'm glad I'm not addicted to schoolgirl types. Not that I mind romps with lovely young spinners, of course—but, personally, I see MILFs with pretty faces and sparkling personalities as the sexiest type of women in the world.

Compared to younger women, mature ladies past their 20s, 30s or even 40s—often coming out of divorces—generally don't find themselves equally besieged by romantic suitors (which tends to make them less haughty).

Mature SPs can offer dimensions of sharing in an erotic encounter that a brash young SP usually can't. They're generally more in tune with their sexuality, possess superior erotic expertise and are capable of greater empathy for men.

Add to that a price point that's often more favorable than that of young hussies, and mature SPs look awfully good in my book.

Now that the legalities of escorting are easier, I'd love to see lots more divorcees in their 30s or 40s enter this field as a side line. Any chance of that happening?

 

[storm rider]

I myself like younger gals but I do have a line I will not cross.....and that line is 19 years old.

The one thing that truly pisses me off about this past-time (I refuse to call it a "hobby" as a "hobby" is constructive) is that gals will outright lie about their age......in a vain effort with regards to denial....I have seen one gal in person who says she is 38 but in fact she is most definatly in her mid 50's...hell if I booked a session with her based on her pics I would walk away when I saw her in person....mostly because I have seen her in person and I would not throw it into her if it was for free.


Short and sweet I dislike lies about age and I dislike photo-shopping of pictures even more.....if I dont see what I was attracted to when I see the gal I walk.....I walk right on down the hall.

SR

 

[PlayfulAlex]

I love your perspective, Tant...you just keep reviewing those aunties...

 

[MissingOne]

Your poll didn't have an answer I could check off. I prefer women over 30, and I avoid SPs who advertise an age under 25.

 

[normisanas]

Though the sex with someone under 26 might be fun, I usually dislike females under 26. Why? Because of their princess attitudes, which almost all of them have. The more desirable they are as well will make them even worse and learn life's lessons even later, if ever. Add lack of wisdom and general knowledge about crucial things for survival in real life, such as time management, punctuality, phone manners, finances, the law, the functioning of automobiles, the functioning of domestic appliances (such as toilets or stoves), the cost of gas, etc., and you have someone who is essentially a spoiled useless child - which unfortunately too many are.

It is not until the harder side of real life taking its toll that tames such attitudes, and produces a real woman. For that reason, I believe men tend to prefer SP's that are older even as their gonads compel them to younger flesh.

 

[violetblake]

I hate lying, in my personal and professional life, so I am definitely 22 (I'm also a bad liar even if I wanted to lie lol). I gotta tell ya though, sometimes I'm tempted to lie...that I'm older! lol. It really annoys me when people totally disregard me and my entire character and opinion just based on my age. Because literally everyone who talks to me says I seem much older. Now I hope I don't sound conceited, cause that's not at all what I'm trying to do, but seriously that's what everyone tells me (and like I said, I don't lie! lol). I understand how people have preferences, and pooning you're going to adhere more to your preferences, but in general you should assess people on who they are, not their age, it only takes 5 minutes to get a decent grasp of a personality. Because there are good and bad SPs in all ages.

 

[newatit]

Age does make a big difference. I have dated a couple of gals in the fifty to sixty age range and found it a truly great experience. They know their stuff, are patient, professional, more at ease and often way more giving. The princess attitude left them, and realism is way more evident.

Gals under 25 are often a crap shoot. Their are good ones but yes many leave you with the feeling that they did you a big favorite by seeing you, etc

You would think by late twenties that maturity would be setting in but this age group seems to contain a mixed bunch. Their are those who no longer find this an attractive deal, tired of the stress, lying, hiding and evasion, versus those who have committed to this being their lot in society, and those others ill prepared for life on their own, promiscuous and see this as a new adventure. This last lot are often very good because they know about sex and life and men and enter the trade with a higher degree of maturity and expectations and self confidence. They have experienced financial hardship, emotional and marital failure, so the outlook on doing business is much healthier than these brash young gals with big boobs and a short interest span. i am talking about gals in the 25 to 40 age span.

I am having an interesting time with one gal in this mid span who is slowly and with some pain realizing the long term effects of this business. Meanwhile my fifty plus gal would drop everything and move in with me.

Hell this life is so interesting.

 

[newatit]

And too Melina and Violetblake who definitely fit into the good younger group, congrats. What you both indicate is experience and or attitude beyond a lot of your own age group. Good thing.

As you both indicate there is not any age group that is all in any one classification. It does boil down to attitude experience and knowledge.

 

[Dickson]

This is a very interesting topic and one I struggle with. My pooning activities include more role plays and long dates I tend to like ladies in thier 40's. When I take ladies out I like to feel that the lady is my date or my wife. She is interested in me. If she is with in the 10 year window it is possible. Not likely that a 25 year old is going to find this 50 year old interesting, exciting, or attactive. Most SPs who I hire tend to telling me thier real age so that 1) we can travel as I need details to get airline tickets and cross borders. 2) So that they can fit the role as a possible wife.

If I hook up with a younger SP under 35 they normally play the role of my personal assistant or me playing the role as a senior mentor in thier life. Especially since I have done that in my life and I enjoy spending time with young people they regenerate this old soul at times.

Older SPs due to thier experiences in life make better role players. Someone like Sandi Laine or VV have always been good in this department. I guess with older SPs I have more in common and we can relate to each other. I perfer the older, classy, sophisticated, elegant, lady on my arm at functions and events. I have a German broadcaster in her early 40's who joins me to a lot of functions in Europe. She is a very classy lady who I am proud to take with me to events. She use to be an Escort, that is how I met her, but now only sees me because it is about the whole experience, sorry guys she does not take other dates or so she tells me.

I guess since I like taking SPs out to dinner, the theater, other events social norms come into play. Way too much explaining to snotty old people that this 25 year old could have a romantic interest in this old fart. Although I will say I have taken young SPs as dates to shake up a few formal fund raising events. I love watching the old guys eyes fall out of thier head and the little old ladies fall out of thier chairs in shock that my date is not wearing panties under her little black dress. Normally I do not get invited again to those fund raisers. So mission accomplished.

Young and old I love them all but for my needs it is ones closer to my age that I tend to hang with. Just being honest.

 

[neverwas]

Violet is one of the exceptions. She is very mature and interesting for a girl that young. Unless there are reviews stressing a girl's conversational ability, maturity or intelligence I will normally look for someone over 25. It may not be fair to younger SPs but, as an older guy, I am more comfortable with older women and feel that on the average, they are a safer choice for someone my age.
If I had unlimited time, opportunity and money I would take more chances with a variety of ages but with each experience of such impoortance it is better to have some easy criterion to start the selection process.
Now, if Violet returned to Victoria I would see her again without hesitation.

 

[Guardian Angel]

I didn't vote because the option I was looking for would say SP's 30 and up. I have been drawn to younger from time to time, even under 20, but my best experiences have been with over 30's. Especially with ladies who have been in the business for some time. They just know what to do and also seem to enjoy their time in the session more too.

G.A.

 

[Holly Taylor]

I hate lying, in my personal and professional life, so I am definitely 22 (I'm also a bad liar even if I wanted to lie lol). I gotta tell ya though, sometimes I'm tempted to lie...that I'm older! lol. It really annoys me when people totally disregard me and my entire character and opinion just based on my age. Because literally everyone who talks to me says I seem much older. Now I hope I don't sound conceited, cause that's not at all what I'm trying to do, but seriously that's what everyone tells me (and like I said, I don't lie! lol). I understand how people have preferences, and pooning you're going to adhere more to your preferences, but in general you should assess people on who they are, not their age, it only takes 5 minutes to get a decent grasp of a personality. Because there are good and bad SPs in all ages.

I would like to echo this sentiment.

I am genuinely 25, but I started escorting when I was 19. I was regularly dismissed and disrespected by perb members, and some even referred to me as a "child." When I was 19, I was in my 2nd year of university, running my own successful business, and living alone. Yes, I was a young adult, but I was still an adult. I really hated the feeling of being judged for being young.

Now that I'm 25, I get taken a lot more seriously, and I get a lot more respect, even though I feel like I'm the same person. So Violet, I can definitely see why you would want to lie and say you're older! I had that temptation many times.

All I can say is, be thankful for the respectful clients you have while you're young. All in all, I think you'll find that you get better treatment once you get into your mid-20s.

I know how frustrating it can be to be genuinely young in this business. Sigh!

 

[Elmore]

I think the answer to the question in this poll largely depends on the age of the pooner. It's just my opinion, but if my preference is under 25 when I am over 55, there is something wrong with me. It is one thing to go there and have sex with a starfish who can't wait for me to get off of her and it is something completely different to get genuine GFE. To get genuine GFE I don't think the woman should be young enough to be my daughter. That said, there is a young 45 and and old 45.

 

[violetblake]

Violet is one of the exceptions. She is very mature and interesting for a girl that young. Unless there are reviews stressing a girl's conversational ability, maturity or intelligence I will normally look for someone over 25. It may not be fair to younger SPs but, as an older guy, I am more comfortable with older women and feel that on the average, they are a safer choice for someone my age.
If I had unlimited time, opportunity and money I would take more chances with a variety of ages but with each experience of such impoortance it is better to have some easy criterion to start the selection process.
Now, if Violet returned to Victoria I would see her again without hesitation.

And too Melina and Violetblake who definitely fit into the good younger group, congrats. What you both indicate is experience and or attitude beyond a lot of your own age group. Good thing.

As you both indicate there is not any age group that is all in any one classification. It does boil down to attitude experience and knowledge.

Thanks you two

 

[MissingOne]

I understand how people have preferences, and pooning you're going to adhere more to your preferences, but in general you should assess people on who they are, not their age, it only takes 5 minutes to get a decent grasp of a personality. Because there are good and bad SPs in all ages.

Your comment about assessing people on who they are is absolutely true. However, in this activity, we pooners normally don't get that 5 minutes until we've shown up at the incall, and the five minutes is on the clock. At my age I know that chances are I'll be much more at ease and have a better time with an older woman. That's not a negative comment about young women; it's simply my own assessment of myself and of the odds. That said, I frequently see comments by young women on this board that are impressive and thought-provoking. I might well enjoy meeting them, but that doesn't necessarily mean I'd be at ease with them in a sexual situation.

 

[badbadboy]

I have seen some in their 20's, some in their 30's and a few in their 40's. Each group has or had their own merits.

Each group has their rock stars too :nod:

I have been staying with 2 or 3 of late which I am happy with and don't need to chase down the flavour of the day :eyebrows:

 

[sevenofnine]

i think it has nothing to do with a number, its about maturity level.
and i guess compatabilty

i have seen two women alot in this and they were more mature older,
but there were a couple of women who i enjoyed there company there maturity level there attitude and they were younger one of them alot younger,
i wish i could have continued to see them but one was a touring lady never saw her back my way again the other, was packing up her bags she was moving as i saw her,

to me its enjoyment that means the whole package, is she good company do we have chemistry can we talk etc etc,
sex is funny but one of the last things that enter into it,
i fiqure if were both willing we can work it out. so why worry about the easist part sex.

so many people worry about the sex part, but to me if i find her attractive in some way i mean she doesn't have to be perfect, and the next part is were both willing and interested it will come.

 

[Dgodus]

Yes you should judge each person individually and not by certain generalizations (ie age). Unfortunatly when selecting a provider we have a webpage to go over and that's about it (with the exception of the ladies who frequently post here of course), and there is the potential that webpage is being written by someone else (not to mention it is marketing). As a previous poster said we can't always get a good handle on personality until we show up (and consequently pay up). So for some of us the search is narrowed by such things as looks, services offered, and age; which truth be told aren't the most important aspects of a good session (again to some of us).

Personally I prefer those around my own age (early 30's), but it's not been a selling point up till now. I've booked with women in their early 20's, and I've had ciilians in their 40's when I was in my early 20's. So really it matters little to me, other than I tend to wonder about photoshopping and how recent are the pictures when I see someone advertise 40+.

Just a little side note on pictures. Really dig the candid shots people have been using of late (Melina , KC Hennesey, believe vanessa did as well). As even though the women I've seen are stunners, they tend not to look like their glamor shots.

 

[tantalizeme]

Lots of perceptive input, mostly in praise of more mature SPs!

I think the answer to the question in this poll largely depends on the age of the pooner. It's just my opinion, but if my preference is under 25 when I am over 55, there is something wrong with me. It is one thing to go there and have sex with a starfish who can't wait for me to get off of her and it is something completely different to get genuine GFE. To get genuine GFE I don't think the woman should be young enough to be my daughter. That said, there is a young 45 and and old 45.

Not surprisingly perhaps, the Lolita chasers so conspicuous in the reviews—who originally prompted my post—aren't chiming in here.

Totally agree: most pooners in their 20s understandably look for youthful beauty while most older pooners better appreciate the beauty of maturity. But I disagree that there's something wrong with pooners in their 50s enjoying rejuvenating romps with the occasional 20-yr-old SP.

Personally, I never think of an SP's face in isolation of her pussy. That's perhaps why I’ve never bailed, even when confronted with a serious discrepancy between an SP’s advertised and real age.

Also, having several long-term relationships with “average-looking” women—who were far better companions than the few stunning GFs I've had—probably primed me to be relatively forgiving of an SP’s looks or age.

Youthful beauty is, realistically, not often available to bottom-feeding patrons of Asian SPs like myself. Except for Korean students—whose service levels are typically iffy—stunningly beautiful young Asians seem hard to recruit for AMPs or micros.

The reasons are not far to seek. Given a choice, most Asian girls prefer to work closer to home and family, and of course young stunners have that choice.

Very beautiful young girls can generally find sugar daddies among China's affluent businessmen.

And, unless they get a student visa—which requires lots of bureaucratic formalities—they're probably hard to sneak by immigration officials.

No wonder pooners who don't care much about an SP's age as long as she's sexy have consistently better success than those chasing youth and beauty.

 

[cesar]

SP's age

I am an older gentleman and naturally prefer mature providers >30. I value the experience they bring to the encounter. They are often more committed to the profession. They are comfortable with the work they do and that attitude makes the encounter all the more enjoyable. I find that they try harder to ensure client satisfaction as well as enjoy themselves. I am sure there are lots of guys looking for the younger girls so I'll stick with the mature ladies. I do see the occasional younger woman and sometimes that works out fine (and is a refreshing change).

Not surprisingly perhaps, the Lolita chasers so conspicuous in the reviews—who originally prompted my post—aren't chiming in here.

Totally agree: most pooners in their 20s understandably look for youthful beauty while most older pooners better appreciate the beauty of maturity. But I disagree that there's something wrong with pooners in their 50s enjoying rejuvenating romps with the occasional 20-yr-old SP.

Personally, I never think of an SP's face in isolation of her pussy. That's perhaps why I’ve never bailed, even when confronted with a serious discrepancy between an SP’s advertised and real age.

Also, having several long-term relationships with “average-looking” women—who were far better companions than the few stunning GFs I've had—probably primed me to be relatively forgiving of an SP’s looks or age.

Youthful beauty is, realistically, not often available to bottom-feeding patrons of Asian SPs like myself. Except for Korean students—whose service levels are typically iffy—stunningly beautiful young Asians seem hard to recruit for AMPs or micros.

The reasons are not far to seek. Given a choice, most Asian girls prefer to work closer to home and family, and of course young stunners have that choice.

Very beautiful young girls can generally find sugar daddies among China's affluent businessmen.

And, unless they get a student visa—which requires lots of bureaucratic formalities—they're probably hard to sneak by immigration officials.

No wonder pooners who don't care much about an SP's age as long as she's sexy have consistently better success than those chasing youth and beauty.