How many times do you email back and forth?

[ihatemyskirt]

Girls, I am wondering when you are returning emails, do you reply back and forth with a possible client through emails and to what extent? I noticed the number on an email I was returning last night was 17, now do I really need to be going back and forth with some dude who is on the fence like that? How many do you allow the guys and how many pics if any do you let them have of you?

 

[littlejimbigher]

If the guy needs 17 emails to make up his mind he is probably wanking off as he is jerking you off.

 

[ladysharah]

Once the date set!

Confirm by e-mail an hour before if you don't have a cell.
Pay-phone 30 minutes before rendez-vous.
Seventeen e-mails are a tad much.
The most is 2-3 at the least.
My Humble Opinion!

 

[Thais]

Depends on the purpose of the emails.
I always exchange several emails before the meeting getting to know each other. Sometimes I communicate for several weeks with a potential client before our schedules align.We talk about interests, hobbies, expectations, exchange stories. In the end, I usually end up spending a couple of hours just writing to each suitor before the first meeting.

I wouldn't have it any other way. Then when we meet, there is a feeling of familiarity that helps build intimacy. As well, sprinkling the conversation with some flirting helps build excitement. To date, I have received the most positive feedback on this strategy from the people I've met. The fact that it helps me to sustain my minimum of several hours at the top rate for Calgary (and I do not even have the model, "perfect 10" looks) also evidences that people are willing to pay a premium for seduction.

I never send additional pictures before a date.

 

[DeaAphrodite]

I would agree with everything Thais said.

Too many emails can signal a WOT, however, I very much enjoy a fellow writing to introduce himself, even if he's just thinking of "one day when he's in town", or similarly not quite ready to meet me. It is nice to have a feeling of already being acquainted, and also for each party to have an idea of what to expect when we do meet.

Emails are also a fantastic tool for special requests (ie. lingerie)... it is a really good idea to ask for what you want, so there's a better chance you'll actually get it.

By the same token, I can get a lot of information about a guy from his tone and his requests... it doesn't happen often but I can sometimes avoid someone I'd really rather not meet.

 

[snowmonger]

from a guy...

i think a few emails back and forth are a nice way to get introduced.
pix aren't necessary if you've already got a site or are otherwise well known on perb.
i've been emailing a CL advertiser and yikes we're not up to 17 yet but we're gettin' close. CL is sometimes different though kuz many of the SPs are not well known/reviewed...