how important is sex.

[sevenofnine]

I am in the groove once a week so far with the lady I see in this.

This week was a tough week personally a family bit of sadness, put me not in the mood actually, not in the mood for anything but maybe enjoying the sun in the back yard and a brew or two,


But we never cancel her and me,
first thing in the morning we text, and she says she is doing something first would I like to hang out with her,
so yeah what the hell beats getting drunk alone.

so we hang out, she is an incrediable women, spent the day with her ended in drinks, supper some white wine she selected.
talked things out my things and her personal stuff she has going on.

yeah we moved to the bedroom, just as a conclusion and after thought its what a man and a women do,

I don't know what im trying to say, but yeah sex is important,

its dam important,

but at some point,
what is important is,

is she ok,
am i ok,
or are we simply two dysfunctional people, one selling themself the other buying a few hours of her time.

yes i had an orgasim, and paid for it, but
there is so much more,

 

[Willingham]

did you pay for the whole day?

 

[Jackster]

Sex is important sevonofnine. I have been married a while and the wife and I just don't really have sex. I went through a while where I tried everything to get the passion back but to no avail. This new lifestyle that I have allows me to have that intimacy and I think that's what a lot of us crave.

 

[manni]

how important is sex?

as important as breathing and eating!
but I suppose it's not as clear cut as it sounds.
there are other factors in the equation such as age, marital status,
health/financial/emotional well being.

 

[Cami Parker]

Sex is VERY important, but even with your favorite SP, there has to be more than just sex

 

[PierreCoeur]

Sex is VERY important, but even with your favorite SP, there has to be more than just sex

I am wondering if you would elaborate Cami. I have visited a few SP's that advertise GFE but not many really provide it. And even those that do, it doesn't seem as genuinely real as I hope for.

 

[BORKO]

Sex is VERY important, but even with your favorite SP, there has to be more than just sex

I am wondering if you would elaborate Cami. I have visited a few SP's that advertise GFE but not many really provide it. And even those that do, it doesn't seem as genuinely real as I hope for.

You can't buy a feeling and I think people in this hobby,both client and SP, can get really confused about this.

Well, you could buy SSRIs, MDMA and viagra and that drug cocktail would give you a whack load of new and different feelings.

I would say that it doesn't feel real or genuine because it's not. The definition of GFE varies widely, some could say it's just sex with kissing and others it's a pretend girlfriend for the time you book, but the keyword there is that it is pretend. If both a SP and a client get confused about this, then wires are probably getting crossed and one party or both are probably sending "more than just sex" signals to the other when both parties should come in realizing that GFE is probably the worst place to look for a "GF/BF" or "more than just sex".

This does sound like a prequel to one of those "connecting with SPs" or "dating an escort" conversations though.

 

[sevenofnine]

I think you can't buy a feeling is 100 percent correct,

But I think at some point self esteem comes in, does she even like me does she hate my guts, am I that fucking pathetic the only one I can be with is one I am paying.

I think for both of us, sometimes, it comes down to self esteem, is that all I have to offer a man is what is between my legs.

And its not a question of love, but maybe it is, there are many different forms and expressions of love,


Its funny but, I think it starts with loving yourself. Doing the right thing for you, which would seem obvious at first blush, but it ain't that simply.

 

[Dickson]

As I have gotten older it is not about the sex. I do want that at time and a one hour date is fine. But I find I want what I don't have. I want that connection for 5 or 12 hours or over night. I tend now to do more over nights, dinner dates. I want to feel wanted, I want to feel loved. I know it is prent but I want to know what it is like to have a GF, a wife. But just for a few hours. I guess I am paying for the emotion.

I just took out a SP for a nice dinner limo ride to the theater spend the whole time looking at here thoughout the performance. I saw her laught, smile, cry and I just enjoy seeing the emotion. I like to find out what they like and I want to see them say WOW! I like seeing real emotions. So it is not always about the sex but the emotions that the sex brings.

In the end we all want what do not have. For me the few great hours with a SP is a blast. That is what I pay for. Crazy but true.

 

[Dickson]

As I have gotten older it is not about the sex. I do want that at times and a one hour date is fine. But I find I want what I don't have. I want that connection for 5 or 12 hours or over night. I tend now to do more over nights, dinner dates, travel dates as I want to feel wanted, I want to feel loved. I know it is pretend but I want to know what it is like to have a GF, a wife. But just for a few hours. I guess I am paying for the emotional connection.

I just took out a SP for a nice dinner limo ride to the theater spend the whole time looking at her thoughout the performance. I saw her laught, smile, cry and I just enjoy seeing the emotion. I like to find out what they like and I want to see them say WOW! I to see the WOW in her face. I like seeing real emotions. So it is not always about the sex but the emotions that the sex brings.

In the end we all want what do not have. For me the few great hours with a SP is a blast. That is what I pay for. Crazy but true.

 

[luvsdaty]

It's only important too me when I have a boner:thumb:

 

[lenny]

"Sex is one of the nine reasons for reincarnation. The other eight are unimportant.”

Henry Miller