How important is money for women?

[BonerHardBiceps]

had session with escort than we started talking for like an hour (i was her last client of the day and drove her to skytrain station)

had a huge argument over how much girls care about money (dating wise) especially in vancouver and she disagreed completely. What do the females on the board think of this?

 

[NoSoundRain]

How important is air to humans. Do we require food and shelter or is it a myth?

 

[VanessaofBC]

had session with escort than we started talking for like an hour (i was her last client of the day and drove her to skytrain station)

had a huge argument over how much girls care about money (dating wise) especially in vancouver and she disagreed completely. What do the females on the board think of this?

Ha ha. I hope you are exaggerating when you say "huge" argument.

It's all about looking like you have money. If you look like you have money then people think you have money. You don't need it. (it=money)

Well, money is important to everybody. If you want to be a provider than money is very important. It comes down to maintaining the lifestyle to which you have become accustomed. If your lifestyle is extravagant money might be very important.

If you have a car(s), mortgage(s), credit card payment(s)..... you need to have money if you have all those things.

imo

edit: It was not until going to a third world country and seeing New Orleans after Katrina could I really appreciate what I have and adjusted my "lifestyle" after those events. For whatever reason they had a huge impact on my life/mind/beliefs.

 

[kenchorney]

You should stop spending your money on escorts and start seeing a shrink. You have a completely fucked up view of life and until that stops you'll spend all of your time being a useless troll here.

 

[*emmanuelle]

Of the guys I've met who think women are money-hungry beasts (relationship-wise) I tend to see pattern. They're often guys who have been dumped or turned down by a lot because of their own personality (or lack thereof), but then go on to use the line "women only want rich dudes!" as a scapegoat/justification for their own dating failure.

#sorrynotsorry

 

[amigo67]

had session with escort than we started talking for like an hour (i was her last client of the day and drove her to skytrain station)

had a huge argument over how much girls care about money (dating wise) especially in vancouver and she disagreed completely. What do the females on the board think of this?

You never stated your position or hers... so it's hard to comment. Please elaborate.

 

[vancity_cowboy]

If you want to be a provider than money is very important. It comes down to maintaining the lifestyle to which you would like to become accustomed.

lol... oh vanessa, that was just too low-hanging to resist!!! no offence...

 

[VanessaofBC]

lol... oh vanessa, that was just too low-hanging to resist!!! no offence...

Xox to u 2. Have a good night!:-D

 

[thebuttdance continues]

Of the guys I've met who think women are money-hungry beasts (relationship-wise) I tend to see pattern. They're often guys who have been dumped or turned down by a lot because of their own personality (or lack thereof), but then go on to use the line "women only want rich dudes!" as a scapegoat/justification for their own dating failure.

#sorrynotsorry

Damn, you're wittiness and candor is sexy

 

[yazoo]

Those people with hourly jobs and a guaranteed 40 hour week with a paycheque that stays the same week after week regardless of the ups and downs of the economy can afford to not fret about money.

If you are in any job where if you have a slow week you miss getting paid (i.e. you are self employed or the employer) then you do spend a bit more time thinking about cashflow.

 

[uncleg]

 

[PlayfulAlex]

Those people with hourly jobs and a guaranteed 40 hour week with a paycheque that stays the same week after week regardless of the ups and downs of the economy can afford to not fret about money.

If you are in any job where if you have a slow week you miss getting paid (i.e. you are self employed or the employer) then you do spend a bit more time thinking about cashflow.

True true...I love my freedom but I've gotta be careful with the cashflow thingy.

 

[VanessaofBC]

Is that a "T" Card!?!? What the heck is that!?!? Is that Russian on the card....wth!?!?

 

[vancity_cowboy]

Is that a "T" Card!?!? What the heck is that!?!? Is that Russian on the card....wth!?!?

the letters look greek to me... no, seriously

 

[VanessaofBC]

the letters look greek to me... no, seriously

O M G.. that is even funnier.....

 

[Tugela]

Of the guys I've met who think women are money-hungry beasts (relationship-wise) I tend to see pattern. They're often guys who have been dumped or turned down by a lot because of their own personality (or lack thereof), but then go on to use the line "women only want rich dudes!" as a scapegoat/justification for their own dating failure.

#sorrynotsorry

In their minds the reason women turn them down has to be money, because could not possibly be due to their scintillating personality, charisma or looks or anything else. It is basically narcissism. It has to be the woman's fault (not theirs), and the only thing they lack (in their eyes) is money, therefore the logical conclusion (to them) is that most women are shallow and money grubbing.

The women these guys meet, however, are collectively going "huh???"

 

[sevenofnine]

Money has a different value ,meaning, to everyone I think.

I sometimes hang around with some very rich dudes successful guys, its interesting their approach, one guy you would never even know, another throws it in your face,

Hanging around with rich friends and me just a walmart greeter made me think about,

Its who I am, all of them own their own company, Tend to be aggressive to an extent take charge.
Me I just want to be one of the guys, I have worked since I was a very young age and supported myself, not at all worried about money since I feel I will always work,
and in a sense Im a thinker a ponder, one guy was a very good artist but stopped to make huge bucks, now in my leisure time, I find myself drawing and writing.

And the end of the day, its who you are or who you want to be, think you need to be.

 

[chilli]

I watched an interesting TV show that did a study on what attracted women.

First they had a guy drive up to a coffee bar in a regular car, dressed in regular clothes with little to no jewelry. Not one woman raised her head to take a look at the guy.

10 minutes later the same guy drove up in a very expensive sports car, he was wearing expensive clothes and wearing a Rolex.

The very same women were falling all over themselves.

It was quite eye opening for me.

A lesson I'll never forget.

The irony is every man knows that money will bring him hot chicks; lots of them.

He also knows that if they ever marry, that the kind of woman he attracted with all that money is going to rape him hard if they ever divorce.

 

[Poseidon]

I watched an interesting TV show that did a study on what attracted women.

First they had a guy drive up to a coffee bar in a regular car, dressed in regular clothes with little to no jewelry. Not one woman raised her head to take a look at the guy.

10 minutes later the same guy drove up in a very expensive sports car, he was wearing expensive clothes and wearing a Rolex.

The very same women were falling all over themselves.

It was quite eye opening for me.

A lesson I'll never forget.

The irony is every man knows that money will bring him hot chicks; lots of them.

He also knows that if they ever marry, that the kind of woman he attracted with all that money is going to rape him hard if they ever divorce.

Yep, if you act like you're made out of money in front of women, then you'll attract gold diggers and ultimately they will make you pay.

 

[VanessaofBC]

I watched an interesting TV show that did a study on what attracted women.

First they had a guy drive up to a coffee bar in a regular car, dressed in regular clothes with little to no jewelry. Not one woman raised her head to take a look at the guy.

10 minutes later the same guy drove up in a very expensive sports car, he was wearing expensive clothes and wearing a Rolex.

The very same women were falling all over themselves.

It was quite eye opening for me.

A lesson I'll never forget.

The irony is every man knows that money will bring him hot chicks; lots of them.

He also knows that if they ever marry, that the kind of woman he attracted with all that money is going to rape him hard if they ever divorce.

Yep, if you act like you're made out of money in front of women, then you'll attract gold diggers and ultimately they will make you pay.

I like these comments. Again it is the "look" of having money the women are attracted too. They do not actually know if he has any at all. Having nice car and wearing nice clothes, makes you rich? Well, then I guess there is lots of "rich" people in The Vancouver area. (If I am not mistaken , most of them still have "N's" on their car.)

If you are attracted to a woman who only likes you for your money you are going to be a sad, sad person.