With limited resources, it is not possible to see every SW whose ads get you horny. So something is going to get you to reduce that list - yes, it is a competition of sorts for a your limited dollars, even if the potential recipients are not aware of it going on inside your head.
That being said...
Why would you bother with seeing someone you just don't / can't respect? I'm not talking about conduct in a session here, I'm just talking about what happens when you end up with a lower opinion of someone you could go see, compared to someone else. Y
There are lot of different kinds of red flags, and while I do not think my political views must align with those I see (which is probably impossible anyway), at some point even trying to be non-judgemental breaks down under the pressure of hearing something that causes you to lose respect for that person. You realize you would be paying for the companionship of someone who in any other circumstance you can't stand.
We are all judgemental, and that is not always a bad thing when trying to keep out of negative situations.
Besides, do you actually think you would have that James Bond effect, so good in bed it causes her to switch sides?
